Ok--so please bear with me on this post-its about honest right--I REALLY AM A LITTLE FREAKED OUT!!! These past couple of weeks i have been feeling more and more frisky, I have not felt this "compelled" in a long time if ever--as with most people i had lost my sex drive while using and then being on mwthadone it had never come back, well all of a sudden all--and i mean ALL of my womanly desires have been suddenly awoken--the littlest things at the oddest time will make me start thnking about the opposite sex in compromising positions I am 26 years old ive been clean foe almost 4 years havent ben with a man in 3 years and i haveno clue whaere this is coming from--it may have ot do with the fact that my period has started again after 5 years of not existing-whats a girl to do?? im inno relationship and am o good at flirting and not interested in clubs and dating right now--whats going on ladies--i can barely pass a man wearing cologne without breaking asweat (im blushing) as many of you know i am a shy-type person so this is really odd for me-giggle please help me --have you gone throug this after being in recovery for a few years or is it my age or is it because its "been awhile"
I like to help ya- - but it dont seem right.
Just playing-
I really dont know how it works with women,but with guys in your age group, the first week they come off of mdone- the hormones kick in.
Be careful out there- guys have radar ,whether your shy or not-
best,
jack
Just playing-
I really dont know how it works with women,but with guys in your age group, the first week they come off of mdone- the hormones kick in.
Be careful out there- guys have radar ,whether your shy or not-
best,
jack
sensitivity to the pheramones, plus I think around 30 we reach our peaks sexually. Happens to me once in a while too. prolly your internal clock, or all of those nerve endings were deadened and have suddenly awoken??? Embrace it am- go for it, flaunt what you got and go out and have some fun my dear!
I do remember a specific period of sexual awakening. For me it was right after I got off the drugs. I couldn't get enough. My sponsor told me I was substituting sex for drugs. She told me it was the body trying to find a natural way to fill the neurons since the drugs were gone. It sounded good and I just masturbated and had sex with my partner until something else that I liked came along. Enjoy it while it lasts although be careful it doesn't turn into another addiction. If it starts to make your life unmanageable, well then there is always sex addicts anonymous. That was way back in 1993. I'm 42 and it hasn't come back that strong so I guess it was just a phase after getting off the drugs for me.
I was like that after going c/t last time I got clean.... not now though, man I don't even want my b/f to look at me! I feel bad for him. Could be the pnuemonia too, and the fact that I am surrounded by a ton of irritants all day so much that I just want to be left alone
well im still on the methadone but ive been on the same dose for like 2 years and i take it regularly, so i think my body is adjusting, and getting bck all the chemicals i used up when i was strung out.... im do have any "guy friends" that i can take care of the situation with except one that lives 5 hours away--he may come up soon--poor boy is gonna be shocked, like i said im ashy type person, but as with everyone i have atiger hidden inside that is realy wanting out!! I have been self-pleasureing and im surprised at how quickly i climax--its NEVER been this easy. But its just not the same as being with a man--obviously! i think im gonna live but the bus rides home just may be a little more exciting--haha i know this all sounds silly but its really kindof throwing me off course, im not used to these feelings and thoughts
Sounds like the hormones are on the move esp. since you said you're period started after nothing for so long.
When I was using I never thought about sex unless I was dope sick, and then it would jump from one emotion to the next. I'd be horny one minute crying the next and wanting to rip someones throat out after that.
When I got on meth everything went away. I didn't even have my friend staring straight at me in the mornings like he used too. But after my dose went down to 30mg he started showing up again. I still don't think about sex like I used to, but no longer have problems getting aroused.
I'm with everyone else, seize the moment, go with it, enjoy. If you can't find a partner right away, get some mechanical aids until you do.
Good luck with that!
When I was using I never thought about sex unless I was dope sick, and then it would jump from one emotion to the next. I'd be horny one minute crying the next and wanting to rip someones throat out after that.
When I got on meth everything went away. I didn't even have my friend staring straight at me in the mornings like he used too. But after my dose went down to 30mg he started showing up again. I still don't think about sex like I used to, but no longer have problems getting aroused.
I'm with everyone else, seize the moment, go with it, enjoy. If you can't find a partner right away, get some mechanical aids until you do.
Good luck with that!
Hey you made me chuckle. My sex drive has also c** back.....although I dont have anyone to do it with...lol.
I am mad for it when I am pregnant though. Dont know why??? lol
I am mad for it when I am pregnant though. Dont know why??? lol
Mechanical aids lol,lol.............good one Zeek....take care.........Davey
wow--you all are sso encouraging LOL :) BR--cmon to Kansas City and we'll go out on the town and find us a couple of cuties to take our frustrations out on, then never see again--haha--i could never....well maybe just once giggle giggle
I went through much the same thing. I was living in a flat right next to a night club, so picking up guys was never a problem. Only did it once though and felt pretty weird after. Then I got into a new relationship and shagged my man nearly to death. It was hard for him to admit defeat, but in the end he conceded that I'm the most highly sexed person he's ever met, and it was tough for him to keep up. I wouldn't worry about it, just play safe, and have some fun! Sex can be a great way to get close to someone you really like, and you never know where it's gonna lead to.
take care
love
Diff xxx
take care
love
Diff xxx
YAY for S-E-X!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girl, do I have to give ya a birds and bees talk?
Get with yourself until ya find the right man. You may regret it if ya just hook up with one of your male "friends". Ya know we are women and not supposed to think and be like that. Psssssssssshhhhhhhhh. Barrier method protection don't forget.
Improvise with the mechanical stuff. Make a night of it. Dating yourself could be alot of fun. Best of all this is a sign that Amity got it going on and is doing well, and moving in the right direction.
Girl, do I have to give ya a birds and bees talk?
Get with yourself until ya find the right man. You may regret it if ya just hook up with one of your male "friends". Ya know we are women and not supposed to think and be like that. Psssssssssshhhhhhhhh. Barrier method protection don't forget.
Improvise with the mechanical stuff. Make a night of it. Dating yourself could be alot of fun. Best of all this is a sign that Amity got it going on and is doing well, and moving in the right direction.
Good advice from Bryn, Amity. And I gotta think this is a good sign - a kind of reawakening of normal feeling. Good stuff, honey, good stuff, but play it safe for now.
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hey amity, I reckon there's something in the air, coz I've been feeling it too recently. The last three nights I've dreamed about sex - fortunately, although my man is a useless twat most of the time, despite his shortcomings, he does have a p****, which comes in handy at times like this. Anyway, the subconscious is a strange thing. First I dreamed about James Nesbitt, that Irish actor who does the yellow pages ads on TV. It's not even that I fancy him, so I was surprised I had a naughty dream about him. But last night, man, I can't stop laughing about it! I dreamed that Chastity Dingle from Emmerdale shagged me with a strap on!!! Where the hell did that particular perversion come from??? Chastity Dingle with a strap on, now that's an image that will have me giggling for years!
love
Diff xxx
love
Diff xxx
WOW--and I thought I had odd dreams--I can always count on my girls to comw through in my times of need-giggle giggle
Chastity Dingle..........Diff, who is that.........I hope she was worth it!
How funny is that?
How funny is that?
Diff.....Jesus Chastity Dingle with a strapon.....yer gonna have nightmares bout that one girl lol.
Bryn you could term the lady in question as trailer white trash.
I dreamt last night i was on an olympic tobogane(sp)team maybe a bit of phallic vibe going on as i dont own a car.Take care..........Davey
Bryn you could term the lady in question as trailer white trash.
I dreamt last night i was on an olympic tobogane(sp)team maybe a bit of phallic vibe going on as i dont own a car.Take care..........Davey
Davey! How could you say that about Chastity! She's gorgeous. Well until she opens her gob. At least I didn't dream about Shadrack!
Bryn, how can I explain the Dingle phenomenon to you. Emmerdale is a British soap, set in a remote farming village in Yorkshire (it's actually filmed in Lincolnshire, but never mind). The Dingles, well they're the only reason I watch the stupid programme. They're a bunch of gypsies and ne'er do wells, who've settled on an impoverished pig farm. There's loads of 'em. Theres Zach, he's the head of the family, an ex prize fighter and poacher turned gamekeeper, there's Shadrack, Chastity's alcoholic down and out dad, and then we got Eli, he's the smackhead of the family, and Lisa, Zach's homely pig farming wife. There's tons more of them, but my fav is Bell, she's about 8 years old, and the smartest one of the clan by far. She's a smart as a whip, and puts them all to shame.
And Chastity, she's always dressed in black leather, and high heeled boots, pretty as you like, but she's a tough chick. no she don't give me nightmares, but I never expected her to shag me with a 14 inch strap on d***!
LOL
diff x
Bryn, how can I explain the Dingle phenomenon to you. Emmerdale is a British soap, set in a remote farming village in Yorkshire (it's actually filmed in Lincolnshire, but never mind). The Dingles, well they're the only reason I watch the stupid programme. They're a bunch of gypsies and ne'er do wells, who've settled on an impoverished pig farm. There's loads of 'em. Theres Zach, he's the head of the family, an ex prize fighter and poacher turned gamekeeper, there's Shadrack, Chastity's alcoholic down and out dad, and then we got Eli, he's the smackhead of the family, and Lisa, Zach's homely pig farming wife. There's tons more of them, but my fav is Bell, she's about 8 years old, and the smartest one of the clan by far. She's a smart as a whip, and puts them all to shame.
And Chastity, she's always dressed in black leather, and high heeled boots, pretty as you like, but she's a tough chick. no she don't give me nightmares, but I never expected her to shag me with a 14 inch strap on d***!
LOL
diff x
Yeah....sorry Diff i got my Dingles all messed up.......i was thinking of the mum not cute Chastity...........Happy fantasies........Davey
HAHAHAHA, Diff you got such a way with words.......and rythm.......honestly you should so write........do ya enjoy it?
Writing that is not the 14 incher.........LOL........I'd like to interpret that dream one day if I may...........it can mean one of two things.......like dogs and cats ya know.........aggresive/masculine side..........ya may have to exert some of your masculine side, Diff in all ways.......OR plain just are needing a Chastity Dingle!
Now that's a soap opera.........we got nothing with pig farmers.........and never do gooders............not really......I gotta so look that up on Google images.
Best is if we get GYAC to put pictures of her on here........AHAHA......first Mrs. Bucket and now Chastity...........and Davey.......not just any old tabogone team but Olympic.........speaks for itself....much like a Washington Monument dream, eh?
Diff, thanks for always cracking us up..........you are one of Tres's heroines and I mean that...........but she ain't gonna Chastity Dingle you.....I don't think!
Amity started this..........where she at?
Writing that is not the 14 incher.........LOL........I'd like to interpret that dream one day if I may...........it can mean one of two things.......like dogs and cats ya know.........aggresive/masculine side..........ya may have to exert some of your masculine side, Diff in all ways.......OR plain just are needing a Chastity Dingle!
Now that's a soap opera.........we got nothing with pig farmers.........and never do gooders............not really......I gotta so look that up on Google images.
Best is if we get GYAC to put pictures of her on here........AHAHA......first Mrs. Bucket and now Chastity...........and Davey.......not just any old tabogone team but Olympic.........speaks for itself....much like a Washington Monument dream, eh?
Diff, thanks for always cracking us up..........you are one of Tres's heroines and I mean that...........but she ain't gonna Chastity Dingle you.....I don't think!
Amity started this..........where she at?
