Alicap

I saw in another thread you giving out a hug and just wondered where the rest of us who need a good bear hug could line up?

God bless.
wolfie,
Im a pro at hugging...real ones...not those quick uncomfortable patting on the back kind of hugs that father and sons sometimes give...lololol



heres one coming your way...


Big breath....



HUUUUUUGGGGGGGGG..not letting go yet.....HUUUUUUUUGGGG....
..........almost there.....HUUUUUG...feeling.......better??HUUUUUGG...


and

release.


anytime.


ali
Awww gee thanks Alicap. I warmly return your hug.

<<BLUSH>>

Okay who is next for the hug machines?

God bless.
wolfie,

on a more serious note..hugs are highly UNder-rated..

Hugs, really are so healing..good hugs...its the "hang-on" aspect...


Human touch....


we atrophy without it...our hearts and mind....


waste....


away....


Big tight bear hug again...


Love
Ali
Ali!

You never gave me a hug like that. :(
Don't make me start trolling your a**..
that sounds funny doesn't it... lol

Stacey
"Trolling youre a**" ?????? Uhm what exactly would you be fishing for????

Sorry couldnt resist.

God bless.
Wolf...Yizuck...


Stac
stacey,


you have my hugs EVERDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


If i was there,, i would give you such a huge hug, that you would think we're done.....and you would start to pull away. But i wont let go.....just keep hugging you tight...till you surrendered to my hug, and held tight back..........


Feel better???? I miss you!!!!!!!
Email soon



Love and a big long hug to you Kaylin and hubby,


Ali
ali,

as i shared with you last night i promised to contact you,
but i do not have your addy.

mine is misskate1948@aol.com if you still
wish to give it to me.

please accept my thanks for our chat last night and
for accepting my apology.

misskate

By the way wolf, Be careful tomorrow and have a great time!!! Take lots of pics. You've been in my thoughts!

Stacey
Ali,

Yes you put a huge smile on my face. You're so funny. Thank you!

Stacey

ps I'm making my garlic mashed potatoes now, I'll send you some in some dry ice, or you can come to georgia either way. lol
Thanks Stacey I appreciate the thought. I am so excited to see my son I am giddy and am having trouble not breaking out in tears every time I envision seeing him again. He means so much to me and the fact I let him down while I was lost in my addiction still provides a lot of guilt and shame.

Oh wait I am supposed to allow myself to cry aren't I.

Now get over here and give me one of those "Alicap" style hugs gosh darn it! (sorry for the language LOL)

God bless.
Yea wolf, that language is too brutal for my ears.
I don't think my hugs are as good as Ali's... But I'll give you one.

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lol
There is nothing wrong with crying, You're son is lucky to have a dad that actually wanted to straighten his life up for him! It's never too late to start putting your life back together. You have been an inspiration to me.

Stacey
awww guys..thats so nice...

love and caring about one another really DOES make the world a better place one by one....

Gosh wolfie you must be so excited......wish i had kids....enjoy every secound, make memories with him that will last till you are together again...

Miss Kate....you have no idea how much it meant to me last night..i did figure out how to make a heart and sent it to you but you had left the room just as i hit send...lolol will get an email off to you shortly, dont want to put it on the board...as its my hubbys email..and mostly business related..

Speaking of hugs, i just came back from the store...ran up to get some oj for hubby and there is a guy standing outside in the cold.....still snowing here..he asks if he can pay 50 cents for a cigarrette..so i say "What do you smoke?"
he tells me and i repeat it to till i get to the counter and buy him a pack of his brand....then thought..he must be broke...has no coat..hmm he probably needs money so took some out of the bank machines ( dont you love bank machines? go to mexico..they give you pesos...go to Europe...euros...and it all comes from your account...how do it know??????LOLOL0L

Anyway i go outside, give him his pack and $70.00 and his face lights up and he goes to hold out his hand to shake it but holds his second hand out like hes changed his mind and wants a hug....so i hugged him back..lol..he went skipping across the street saying "I cant believe it" "I cant believe it.." goes to the bus stop.....and smiles and waves at me as i drive away.....

Now heres the question...how do you do a kind act without feeling a bit embarrased about it....I mean I do stuff like that all the time but always worry that I am either playing with peoples lives...( what if he uses with the money? he looked fine, clean etc...quite cute around 28 years old...) also i wouldntr want someone to think that I think im all that because i do stuff like that??? know what i mean????

The payback to me in how i feel to help someone is embarrassing to me...like i get way more out of it then they do and what if i am actually screwing their lives up by this? Im getting way more back so in a way Im using them....know what i mean????

What do you think. honestly. i can take it...feeling strong right now. Do i stop doing that? Not>? Good? selfish of me?????

Hugs,
Ali



No Ali, you don't stop doing it, you just stop talking about it. Generally the unsung hero shines brightest! It was very sweet what you did. Hugs to you too.

Beck
beck

wasnt bragging, just wanted to know what others thought about cause and effect.

if it sounds like i was bragging. im sorry..had stacey qnd wolfie on the thread and had a comfort zone to share..

Hugs,
Ali
hey all big huge ((((((((((((group hug)))))))))))))))
hey Boo

great hug!!!
Thanks


Hugs back

Ali
hi Ali,

i will look forward to getting your email addy.

how much snow do you have there?

lolol
Hi miss Kate,

Not much but its so pretty...about 2-3 inches...powder...the kind you can brush away with the broom....will send you the email shortly....are sure you want to email me>?????lolol

Im sorry that we fought. even more sorry that i have upset you so much, I dont ever want to upset people like that...except maybe child kidnappers or murderers.....lolol..you know what I mean.

I may be naive but i think that most people are good.

Dont you??

Hugs,
Ali