HEY EVERYONE, GOOD LUCK ON MAKING IT THRIUGH ANOTHER DAY!!
I am taking several of ya'lls advice, soberdadddy you gave me the best sources! Today is a new day we'll see what docs have to say today. Cowgirl, Roxy please read my last post, it's long but tells alot I would like your opinions. Anyone else with some advice, soccar mom, just give me a few bits of your thoughts. you are really helping me more than I thought ever could be helped by a message board. I did change my name, no more loser! I am severally wrecking my wife, kids home. My girlfriend/wife hasn't left me yet. I have to give her time and space to be mad and hurt,when can I expect support for my few accomplishments and seeing change. I know its soon but I wasn't as bad offf on the drugs this time. But 1 pill is an adiction all over again. thanks guys!
formerly lortab loser. 1 step at a time!
When trust is lost it takes a long time to get it back. All that you can do is keep on being honest and doing the next right thing. You have no control over what others think. What is frequently said here is: "What you think of me is none of my business".
Good luck with everything. Please continue to post and reach out for help.
Hope your day is good.
Sharon
Good luck with everything. Please continue to post and reach out for help.
Hope your day is good.
Sharon
Sharon Awesome post.Once trust is betrayed it takes time,patience & love to rebuild it.Keep holding on & PLEASE keep posting!!!
Thanks Molly.
Have a good one.
Sharon
Have a good one.
Sharon
Hey Home Wrecker,
You're taking responsibility for your part in this. Give your wife time to get over the hurt and she may learn to take responsibility for her part. There are reasons she chose to be with you -- reasons that have nothing to do with you. (But I wouldn't say that to her while she's enraged. Just a warning from a woman...)
Have you considered couples counseling? When there's a lot of baggage in a relationship, it helps to have a mediator present when you're dealing with issues.
Hang in there.
Gina
You're taking responsibility for your part in this. Give your wife time to get over the hurt and she may learn to take responsibility for her part. There are reasons she chose to be with you -- reasons that have nothing to do with you. (But I wouldn't say that to her while she's enraged. Just a warning from a woman...)
Have you considered couples counseling? When there's a lot of baggage in a relationship, it helps to have a mediator present when you're dealing with issues.
Hang in there.
Gina
Hey I am so glad you changed your name you are not a loser!!!! Hey do you think you could get your wife on the other board here about families dealing with addictions. She may get some great insight on there about your addiction. One day when the board was slow I went over there and was suprised at how well informed everyone was and how it didn't make us look like such losers.
Now listen hon the next few days are going to suck so buckle up you know what it is going to feel like. If you can get the over the counter meds, or even better get to your doctors office maybe he can get you something but whatever you do keep posting we are all here for you.
Roxy
Now listen hon the next few days are going to suck so buckle up you know what it is going to feel like. If you can get the over the counter meds, or even better get to your doctors office maybe he can get you something but whatever you do keep posting we are all here for you.
Roxy
Your not a home wrecker either, but I'm glad you changed your name. The disease is a home wrecker. It took my husband awhile before he could trust me again, I was ok with it because I had come to terms with my addiction at that point. It's something that we worked on together and it's made us closer than ever. It takes time...
