All I Want For Christmas

Is my sleep back. And maybe a nice girlfriend

well, you might get your sleep back but you better put the girlfriend on the Easter Bunny's list.
Sleep is good. If it were me I would wait a couple of Christmas's for the girlfriend, but thats just me.


God bless.
lol reddog..sleep will come....
this post made think of something funny that happened to me. When I first started going to AA, I had no idea what is was all about. Well I was at a womens meeting and I heard the women saying no relationships for the first year, to just work on yourself right? Well..LOL..I asked this woman who has a lot of years sober ...does that mean I have to get a divorce? Well she howled! I said to her ...s*** I am dead serious....she of course told me no I didnt have to get divorced....
have a great nite!
gi
Gee I don't know, I am getting divorced and it is probably the best thing for me!

LOL


God bless.
Wow a year. Oh well maybe a few dates to have some fun. I know tomorrow night im going out. I will not be a prisoner in my room tomorrow night

Noooooooooooooooooooooo
Promise me you'll just look. No touch.

Not a good idea to start anything new like relationships for at least a year into recovery.

Tell you what, get a plant and if you can keep that plant alive for a year, then you can have a girlfriend.


lolololol... Your not telling this poor kid to wait a year CG? Are you?

Thats just cruel and unusual punishment.

Regards,
Tom
I am telling him that! It's true! He can't even take care of himself right now, how's he suppose to have a relationship?

Sorry Justin..get yourself a stack of good magazines and some KY.
LMAO
good thing he's asleep right now..... shhhh
Question...

I know about the no relationship for a year rule, but does that pertain to nookie too?

DeNae

I just realized this post makes me sound like a ho. LMAO
NO it doesnt...
Sounds like a valid question to me and one that no one has ever brought up, DeNae!
Love, Kat
then I would get divorced!!!!!!!!! LOLOL
Kat,

Well, I'm married, so it really has no bearing on my sex life. LOL
I just wondered about people who weren't married or addicts who are already in relationships when they get clean. I wonder if they stop having sex? I highly doubt it. LOL

DeNae
Well, I suppose if you're into that one night stand thing, then why not have sex? I guess for me (and most women, don't know about guys) that we become emotionally attached pretty quickly, so if there's "sleeping with" going on, chances are pretty good, a relationship is in the works.
But like I said, guys are different. They can have senseless sex and walk away. Although, I suppose there's women out there like that too...
Lisa wrote: They can have senseless sex and walk away. Although, I suppose there's women out there like that too

WHERE ARE THEY?!?!

:-)

Reddog, I was told that it's suggested I don't get into a relationship for the first year, to keep the focus on myself. I've also been told that NA has no rules, but plenty of suggestions. The suggestions are free, and you generally pay for the ones you don't take.

I had started a relationship for about 3 weeks when I had about 4 months... within a couple of weeks, I was back to my old obsessive self, which didn't feel good, so we ended it. I learned my lesson, and am staying away for the time being.

Shame on you Matt... lol


I keep telling you, you're too young for sex. Do you need a spanking?

Don't answer that.
My son was 5 years old and we were at a amusement park. They had a place there where the kids can make their own music videos. They dance and petend they are singing. My son picked out a song and I didn't really listen to the words until I got the video home.

I don't if anyone here ever heard this song, but it's not for a 5 year old to be singing, lol.

I did it all for the nookie, so you can take that cookie and stick it up your azz, stick it up your azz..LOL...Looking at the video now I'm like, Don't show it to your father. LOL