"its Not Fun Anymore"

I'm new to this site, but reading over alot of the stories people have to share and one phrase that continually comes up in peoples posting including my own is the "Its not fun anymore" apiphany. So I thought it might help myself and others, old timers and new comers alike to share what the apple that hit you on the head was. A death? A loss? etc.
Hi the Adam

Not many people post on this one,

You may want to look down the list of forums to determine where this will best fit. Good question.

Look for the most activity to the right of the forums then repost on one or more of them.