me and my husband have been married for 12 years. We both are addicts. I have been off dope but on methadone from a clinic for last 6 years. He used to go also but quit methadone cold turkey when he went to jail but is now back at it but injecting it and buying off steets. We have been living in separate homes for last few months cuz we were starting to hate each other. But I miss him and want this to work. What do I do?
Do you guys go to NA meetings ?
DEAR CONFUSED WIFE, I'M REALLY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOU'RE SITUATION BETWEEN YOU
AND YOU'RE HUSBAND. METHADONE RUINED MY 20 YEAR MARRIAGE " AND!" LOST MY TWO
BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRLS. MY WHOLE LIFE DIED THAT DAY.SO I DO UNDERSTAND SOMEWHAT
WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM. METHADONE IS A REAL FINE LINE WHEN IT COMES TO KICKING DOPE AND RETURNING BACK TO LIFE AS WE ONCE
KNEW IT...KNOW WHAT I MEAN? .. ANYWAYS, ABOUT YOU'RE HUSBAND. I KNOW HE LOVES YOU,
AND I KNOW YOU LOVE HIM. AND THAT IS SOMETHING BOTH OF YOU DON'T WANT TO
JUST THROUGH AWAY. " BUT "!!!!.... IF ONLY ONE OF YOU ARE WORKING THE MMT SYSTEM AND
THE OTHER ONE IS STILL USING, WELL........
IT IS A SAD SITUATION. BECAUSE I KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT LIVING THAT KIND OF LIFE
ESPECIALLY AN INTAMENT. RELATIONSHIP WILL AND CAN'T EVER WORK. MAYBE GROUP THEROPY
I'M SURE YOU KNOW THE ONE'S I'M TALKIN ABOUT. THERE LIKE ONE HOUR A NITE.
STUFF LIKE THAT, OR IF YOU TWO ARE RELIGIOUS
YOU CAN'T GO WRONG GOING TO CHURCH " YEAH "?...... I HOPE SOMETHING I'VE SAID CAN HELP BOTH OF YOU.I REALLY WANT TO SEE MARRIAGES WORK OUT.KEEP US POSTED PLEASE. I'D. LIKE TO HEAR HOW THINGS GO FOR YOU GUYS ..
GODBLESS BOTH OF YOU!...AND " NEVER. " EVER""!.. GIVE UP!!...ALL THE BEST! ...DONE180FOREVER
AND YOU'RE HUSBAND. METHADONE RUINED MY 20 YEAR MARRIAGE " AND!" LOST MY TWO
BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRLS. MY WHOLE LIFE DIED THAT DAY.SO I DO UNDERSTAND SOMEWHAT
WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM. METHADONE IS A REAL FINE LINE WHEN IT COMES TO KICKING DOPE AND RETURNING BACK TO LIFE AS WE ONCE
KNEW IT...KNOW WHAT I MEAN? .. ANYWAYS, ABOUT YOU'RE HUSBAND. I KNOW HE LOVES YOU,
AND I KNOW YOU LOVE HIM. AND THAT IS SOMETHING BOTH OF YOU DON'T WANT TO
JUST THROUGH AWAY. " BUT "!!!!.... IF ONLY ONE OF YOU ARE WORKING THE MMT SYSTEM AND
THE OTHER ONE IS STILL USING, WELL........
IT IS A SAD SITUATION. BECAUSE I KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT LIVING THAT KIND OF LIFE
ESPECIALLY AN INTAMENT. RELATIONSHIP WILL AND CAN'T EVER WORK. MAYBE GROUP THEROPY
I'M SURE YOU KNOW THE ONE'S I'M TALKIN ABOUT. THERE LIKE ONE HOUR A NITE.
STUFF LIKE THAT, OR IF YOU TWO ARE RELIGIOUS
YOU CAN'T GO WRONG GOING TO CHURCH " YEAH "?...... I HOPE SOMETHING I'VE SAID CAN HELP BOTH OF YOU.I REALLY WANT TO SEE MARRIAGES WORK OUT.KEEP US POSTED PLEASE. I'D. LIKE TO HEAR HOW THINGS GO FOR YOU GUYS ..
GODBLESS BOTH OF YOU!...AND " NEVER. " EVER""!.. GIVE UP!!...ALL THE BEST! ...DONE180FOREVER