When you give a gift are there always conditions and expectations or are you giving only from love? Are you a classic underachiever, or the victim or always expecting the worse to happen? Guess what, that is what will happen until you stop to hear your thoughts before you respond to others. Determine where your thoughts are coming from and change them to respond only from love and in spirit.
Next, practice looking at other people from love. When we focus on another persons negative traits, our thoughts are judgmental. There is no way for us to know that other person unless we live in a science fiction movie and can literally jump into their head. The only way we truly know that person is through our own thoughts. If you only see the negative side of a person, then that is the relationship that exists between you. However, if you change your thoughts to focus on the positive the love in another individual you have changed that relationship just by changing your mind.
"You can't solve a problem with the same mind that created it."
I like that......thanks :)
Good to see you, Neon.
I hope all is well with you.
I hope all is well with you.
HI Paul,
How you doing Buddy? Long time no see.
Hope life is still going well.
Sharon
PS: don't be a stranger here
How you doing Buddy? Long time no see.
Hope life is still going well.
Sharon
PS: don't be a stranger here
Sharon
Good to see you too. Things are going well..............in fact really well, thanks to God and the 12. I found that my addiction problems were soooooooo much more than simply using. I am now practicing living a different way one day at a time..............amazing :)
Drugs and drink were not the problem but a solution (until they turned on me) I now have a different solution, much better:)
Love Paul
Good to see you too. Things are going well..............in fact really well, thanks to God and the 12. I found that my addiction problems were soooooooo much more than simply using. I am now practicing living a different way one day at a time..............amazing :)
Drugs and drink were not the problem but a solution (until they turned on me) I now have a different solution, much better:)
Love Paul