Ok guys, help me out. I have been clean of pain pills for 79 days today and my husband has totally supported me and gave he alot of trust back. Well here is the problem on Monday my exhusbands mother died, she is my childrens grandmother and my children are very close to her, but thier Dad is a piece of s*** that has done nothing but cause my husband and I problems, he is also who I started using with years ago. I love my current husband so much and I have no love for my ex, but I have to take my sons to say goodbye to thier grandmother, my husband is talking like he is supportive but I know it is killing him. I don't know how to treat him, I dont know what is going on in his head. I wanted him to go to the funeral with me to help me support my boys since he is the father figure in thier lives but at the same time it would be very uncomfortable for everyone beuase I was in my exhusbands family for 12 years and he has ALOT of family with whom I have always been close with until my divorce. I asked my husband to go and he said if I really wanted him to go he would but he said it would make him uncomfortable. My husband has been really distant this week. What do I do? Do I show extra affection? Help me out guys! It is also causing my mind to race, and we dont want that!
Felicia
79 days
One day at a time
Felicia, I am sorry for your loss. I lost a good friend of mine last week but in my situation my children were close to her also. I wanted them to attend the celebration of life ceremony for her and the funeral but they didn't know if they could handle it. I came here and asked for opinions do I make them go or not. I got alot of good feedback and decided all I could do was ask them to go the final decision would be theirs. My daughter decided to go and my son decided not to. You have already asked your husband to go let him make the final decision. Shantel
I Know, but he is real standoffish right now and I don't know how to make it better. It would be hard for me to swallow if I was in his shoes.
I've encounter many obstacles along the road to living my dreams. I've found that some obstacles may be real, some imagined, some may be tangible, and some may be intangible. Some of those obstacles were created by others, and some have been self-imposed. However they manifest, I am always given the choice as to whether I give them power.
Obstacles remind me to trust in my HP and not what my eyes or ears may report.
Have you considered quieting your mind and getting in touch with the Love that is within? When I get quiet and commune with the good, nurturing, Power of Love within, the answers come.
Hugs and tons of encouragement to you, Felicia!
Sammy
p.s. 79 days is awesome! You are a miracle, my friend. You are Love and don't you ever forget that!
Obstacles remind me to trust in my HP and not what my eyes or ears may report.
Have you considered quieting your mind and getting in touch with the Love that is within? When I get quiet and commune with the good, nurturing, Power of Love within, the answers come.
Hugs and tons of encouragement to you, Felicia!
Sammy
p.s. 79 days is awesome! You are a miracle, my friend. You are Love and don't you ever forget that!
