Goos morning to one and all!
2 more days till I leave for FL. I have alot going on. My son got suspended Monday and we have to go see Child Welfare at the school board. Fixing to give them an earful about a child that is being teased and tormented at school.
Poor Dylan is still trying to deal with my MIL's death and he's got all this crap at school. Damn bullies! Got him involved in a fight. He started counseling yesterday. I have high hopes that this will help.
Love to all and big {{{{{hugs}}}}}}
Good morning Janet:
I hate to hear about your son being teased. I can't stand a bully - they seemed to start about the 4th grade and the mean ones didn't stop until they dropped out of school and they did.
I noticed that age b/c that's when I would stop taking them out to recess b/c I was just breaking up fights and most of these kids were bigger than me,
A good friend of mine - her son was picked on every day. About 10 of us went to the office and talked with the principal and when she was talking - she just broke - she was such a strong woman and it killed us to see her in so much pain but you're a Mother - you know when they hurt our kids - they hurt us.
A few years ago, my little niece who was an A student started crying to stay home from school. It went on for months until she told that the little boy (brat) behind her pulled her hair everytime the teacher wasn't looking. He told her if she told - he was going to kill her Mother - Broke my heart.
I wish for you the bullies to get out - quit or go to another school.
Also I wish for you a fun trip to Florida!
Is your whole family going and how long are you staying.
We took our sons to Orlando one year and had lots of fun. I wish we could go and it not be so crowded but I don't think there is a time like that.
Much love, Becky
I hate to hear about your son being teased. I can't stand a bully - they seemed to start about the 4th grade and the mean ones didn't stop until they dropped out of school and they did.
I noticed that age b/c that's when I would stop taking them out to recess b/c I was just breaking up fights and most of these kids were bigger than me,
A good friend of mine - her son was picked on every day. About 10 of us went to the office and talked with the principal and when she was talking - she just broke - she was such a strong woman and it killed us to see her in so much pain but you're a Mother - you know when they hurt our kids - they hurt us.
A few years ago, my little niece who was an A student started crying to stay home from school. It went on for months until she told that the little boy (brat) behind her pulled her hair everytime the teacher wasn't looking. He told her if she told - he was going to kill her Mother - Broke my heart.
I wish for you the bullies to get out - quit or go to another school.
Also I wish for you a fun trip to Florida!
Is your whole family going and how long are you staying.
We took our sons to Orlando one year and had lots of fun. I wish we could go and it not be so crowded but I don't think there is a time like that.
Much love, Becky
Goos J Im sorry about Dylan.Ill tell you as hard as it was for us as teens today I feel they are facing so much more.
I read the other day about the "new:"fad...Kids snorting VODKA!!! Thats whacked!!! I guess Prince Harry got caught doing it.The report was saying how it hits them faster!!!
Than we got the "cold medicine"fad that NOW in my area is kept behind the counter>
Anyways,you & Dylan have always had a strong bond & THAT my friend I feel will make the biggest difference!!!
Eme later & let me know how it goes.
Love to all
Sabrina
I read the other day about the "new:"fad...Kids snorting VODKA!!! Thats whacked!!! I guess Prince Harry got caught doing it.The report was saying how it hits them faster!!!
Than we got the "cold medicine"fad that NOW in my area is kept behind the counter>
Anyways,you & Dylan have always had a strong bond & THAT my friend I feel will make the biggest difference!!!
Eme later & let me know how it goes.
Love to all
Sabrina
Morning,Janet,Becky&MJ,Janet its just awful the way kids treat each other these days.They hurt each others feeleing so much and say the most amazing things.And youre right,your sons heart is still raw from the loss of his grandma.That other child must have said something pretty awful to make him lash out.I hope the other child gets called in too.The bullying going on has got to stop,thats partially whats happening in the shooting in these schools.Kids can take just so much of this BS and then they lose it.
I pray your son gets the help he needs.Youre a wonderful mother getting the help he needs now before things get worse.I pray they get better for him.He looks like a real nice young man.talk to him,always keep the lines of communication open.I know its so hard talking to youn boys,getting them to open up,but if you just keep talking,keep telling him,he will evenutally come to you when he needs your help or advice.Im so sorry youre having to deal with this.Believe me,i have 3 sons and ive been there more times than you could count,mostly on the other side though(with my oldest)he would punch a kid just for looking at him wrong.He was full of anger(he had his reasons)and unfortunately i didnt get help for him when he needed it.I was young and had no idea what to do back in those days.Anyway good luck,youre doing a great job!
Hi to all the rest of you,i miss the board and all of you.Ive been so very busy working tons,but its going to lighten up soon!
PS~Janet,enjoy your trip to Florida.We will be going for 10 days at Thanks giving and man....i cant wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I pray your son gets the help he needs.Youre a wonderful mother getting the help he needs now before things get worse.I pray they get better for him.He looks like a real nice young man.talk to him,always keep the lines of communication open.I know its so hard talking to youn boys,getting them to open up,but if you just keep talking,keep telling him,he will evenutally come to you when he needs your help or advice.Im so sorry youre having to deal with this.Believe me,i have 3 sons and ive been there more times than you could count,mostly on the other side though(with my oldest)he would punch a kid just for looking at him wrong.He was full of anger(he had his reasons)and unfortunately i didnt get help for him when he needed it.I was young and had no idea what to do back in those days.Anyway good luck,youre doing a great job!
Hi to all the rest of you,i miss the board and all of you.Ive been so very busy working tons,but its going to lighten up soon!
PS~Janet,enjoy your trip to Florida.We will be going for 10 days at Thanks giving and man....i cant wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey girls Its not just boys.I remember last year Anne got into her first & only(so far actual)fist fight.annes has been told...DO NOT hit first but & I even told the dean...if someone touches her for her to defend herself.I dont know about other places but I know here if you allow yourself to be picked on people only keep doing it.Well some of you have seen what my babe looks like & Ill tell you she defended herself so well that even bigger girls will not mess withn her.Its what must be done here & though I dont agree with fighting I totally agree in the right to defend yourself.
Anyways Ms J I am given Amanda a COUPLE mins to check her mail but I forgot to say...HAVE AN AWESOME TRIP & TRY TO SEND YOUR NY FRIENDS POST CARDS & I HOPE YOU KEEP YOUR FRIENDS UPDATED AS WE MISS YOU YOU & CARE SO MUCH ABOUT YOU
BE BACK SOON
Love Sabrina
Anyways Ms J I am given Amanda a COUPLE mins to check her mail but I forgot to say...HAVE AN AWESOME TRIP & TRY TO SEND YOUR NY FRIENDS POST CARDS & I HOPE YOU KEEP YOUR FRIENDS UPDATED AS WE MISS YOU YOU & CARE SO MUCH ABOUT YOU
BE BACK SOON
Love Sabrina