Help- My Mother In Law Was My Husbands Enabler

Hello,

Thank you for taking time and reading my post.

Anyways long story short- My husband was addicted to taking 90 mg of Oxicodone,OxyContin, roxaset( whatever that is, could be spelling it wrong) and all the while his ONLY enabler was his very own Mother, who today tells me "she was trying to help him". Wow, um ok?!
Any ways this addiction which has gone on behind my back for 5 years because his Mother was mailing it to him since we lived in a different state (wish she would've been caught since that's totally illegal) and he of course got much better over the months... Years with his hiding spots and making me think I was delusional for thinking he was even taking anything at all. So this is how it goes..... My husband had a high position with the company he was working at well low and behold they suspect him of being under the influence so next step he admitted his problem to them went to rehab for the month of December in 2015, he gets out and completely took it seriously which I'm so happy and thankful for bc I finally have the man back I married not the drug addict his sick mother was making him out to be. Also we have two children in this mix so he gets out of rehab, loses his job which results in us having to move from where we have lived for 6 years and come and stay with his parents, yes I said that HIS parents. We have no other option pretty much, I had been a stay at home Mom previously so we soley depended on his income. Anyway fast forward and now we are in June, my husband still hasn't found a job, I'm working but as a nanny for 2 families and the only positive thing is that my husband has STAYED sober.

Anyway my main reason for posting is the fact I'm losing my mind. I just can't come to grips with his Mom being the one to feed this addiction yet his Dad and brothers deny to come to grips with their Mom has her own addiction problem ( she is prescribed a crap ton of opiates and drinks a whole bottle of wine if not two daily, no exaggeration) . His family expects me to just get over this betrayal and "move on" but it's hard when I have to wake up and see his Mom every day and be reminded why my life fell apart. She was the only person who knew the truth, I begged her to help me for years bc I thought my Husband was bipolar or I really had no clue what was wrong but I knew something wasn't right. There is so much more details but it's so much to type I just was wondering if anyone else has gone through this with their in-laws ? I'm just lost and crossing my fingers my Husband finds a job soon so we can get out of here and back to being a family again.

Also his family is mainly against me through all of this, they think it's not that big of a deal..... Would it of been a big deal if he actually overdosed? Bc mind you he was also prescribed Xanax which I'm sure he abused and drank like a fish while mixing in his Mom's opiates she would send him.
OMG! Jess, What a nightmare living in that house!! The sooner you guys get out of there the better. Your husband needs to get any kind of job so you can get into an apartment or something. I'd watch his mother incase she sneaks stuff to him because misery loves company. Sounds like the father and the rest of the family are enablers to the mother. She must just wander around drunk and high all day long. Does no one want to confront her about her pill abuse and wine abuse? She needs rehab herself!! You would think her family would have said something to her long before now. Best not say anything to her, you have enough on your plate. Let one of her immediate family do it. I'm sorry I'm no help to you. But i sure understand why you would want out of that mad house as soon as you can. Be a good idea to move faraway too. Can you not go live with your parents? Good luck Jess.