So last night he came over and I was still so angry at him that we didn't get along especially since he decided to be a smart a-- with comments and insults. He said he needed to stay over and stay at my place all day today while I'm at work because his brother gets a HUGE check and will be doing crack all day and my bf said he doesn't want to be around it, he's been doing it everyday and he's feeling sick and he said his chest hurts. So I said forget it, you're not staying at my place! OF course he says fine, I'll be around crack and I am not strong enough to not do any so I'll probably overdose and die. So what the heck was I supposed to do?? His brother called and I overheard them talking my phones loud and I heard his brother ask him if he's coming home to do crack with him and my bf said no. So I caved and let him stay. He slept on the couch and I told him he can stay on conditions and he agreed..I locked up his shoes so he can't go anywhere (to meet a dealer or get drugs) and I locked up the phone. So he has no access to a telephone and theres too much snow outside for him to walk outside barefoot.
I hate it when he talks me into these things but I felt like if I didn't I'd feel a little responsible if he does crack all day with his brother..yes I know he's manipulating me.
I also made him write me a note stating he owes me $280 with his signature so I have some proof in case I decide to take him to court for the money.
At least I don't have to talk to him on the phone today, it'll be peaceful at work. I warned him though, today and he can stay the weekend since I'll be home but theres no way he'll stay monday, at least he starts work again monday..but I hate him talking me into these things all the time and making me feel guilty!!
I just hope that other guy I had over last weekend doesn't stop by!!
I hope he does! The guy who came by....
(keepin it short!)
(keepin it short!)
LOL Charly, that would be quite the scene wouldn't it?
that was a good move on making him sign that paper, the only thing i have is a letter from prison begging to borrrow money to pay his restituiton and that alone will prove to the court if i have to serve him, it was a loan not a gift and the rest of the money i am sure i will eat, but i am waiting for the day, just got a letter from corrections that a warrant may be issued becuz he didnt pay his parole payments or court fines, why are they sending it to me? i have no clue becuz he said he paid it all. yeah right.
good for you kittycat for getting it in writing becuz that is the way you can get your money if it comes to that. here in oregon if they have a judgement they will garnish, however since he owes 21,000 in child support that goes first, but just to know that he will be garnished at some point there is a god.
take care
carol
good for you kittycat for getting it in writing becuz that is the way you can get your money if it comes to that. here in oregon if they have a judgement they will garnish, however since he owes 21,000 in child support that goes first, but just to know that he will be garnished at some point there is a god.
take care
carol