Hi there everyone!how u doing? Thought I would say hello, iv'e not had chance to come on here lately. Well, I will tell u whats going on in the world of Fi. My partner and I have split, it was my decision as I had had enough the last 14 months have had more stress than i've ever had. Its been a horrendous week, he is very angry and is spreading all sorts of rubbish about me to divert the fact that the problem started with him. He is so childish. He actually said the other night he will be going for custody of our14 month old daughter despite the fact hedoesnt have much to do with her its the only way he knows he can get to me as i lost custody of my other 2 children. I asked if he would use the drink in the past as groundshe said he wouldnt sink so low but im scared. My solicitor says his chances are very remote and not to worry he is coming to see me next wk. My sol is very supportive of me knows of our disease and commends me on my progress. It will be 6 months on 27th hurrah!! i'm sure Dan (my now ex) is trying to drive me down but im going to stay strong. i love my meetings what a wonderful fellowship, i have made some lovely friends and intend to start 12 stepping in acouple of weeks as i can finally get to the meeting. I have my HP and feel spiritual now more than ever so, its really equipping me on how to deal with things..it is true..it works if u work it...hi to all...fi
Hang in there, Fi. You're in my prayers. Props for the sobriety--and keep working the program.
Hi Fi....
Wow, you sound so good and thanks for sharing...you radiate hope and love through your words. Keep working your program, trust God and everything will work out the way it's supposed to...I have found by staying in "faith", I don't have fear running my life...
You are a miracle!!
Lots of love,
Stacey
Wow, you sound so good and thanks for sharing...you radiate hope and love through your words. Keep working your program, trust God and everything will work out the way it's supposed to...I have found by staying in "faith", I don't have fear running my life...
You are a miracle!!
Lots of love,
Stacey
Hi
First off congrats on been sober! Try not to worry about things .You have God and AA on your side how can you lose? Maybe your ex is angry at the fact that he has lost control over you and I am sure when you were drinking he was the one in control. The fact that he is spreading rubbish about you shows that he wants to hurt you but stay strong,say your prayers and fear nothing and always think positive. God bless and be safe
First off congrats on been sober! Try not to worry about things .You have God and AA on your side how can you lose? Maybe your ex is angry at the fact that he has lost control over you and I am sure when you were drinking he was the one in control. The fact that he is spreading rubbish about you shows that he wants to hurt you but stay strong,say your prayers and fear nothing and always think positive. God bless and be safe
A few months after I stopped drinking my relationship fell apart and I lost my partner, my home, my belongings. It was necessary though, because the new me was no longer in the right situation to continue and progress. Horrendous as it is at the time, it will all make sense in a year or more and you really will see why you had to split. Good Luck, you sound like you know what you are doing.
Hi Flojo,
Well done on 6 months. I am sorry about your relationship. Trying times but hang in there girl!!
Well done on 6 months. I am sorry about your relationship. Trying times but hang in there girl!!
Gidday Flojo
Love and energy to you and the kids from NZ:)
The fact your ex is doing what he is doing is proof enough that you are making the right decisions in your life, keep strong, store gratitude, keep posting and going to meetings and thankyou for sharing your E.S.H
light and love Zac
Love and energy to you and the kids from NZ:)
The fact your ex is doing what he is doing is proof enough that you are making the right decisions in your life, keep strong, store gratitude, keep posting and going to meetings and thankyou for sharing your E.S.H
light and love Zac
