Morning all, It's 8am in sunny dundee... As you can see by the title of the post I've been chucked out of my Sisters.... ( to cut a long story short. when i was in the jail, Grant , my nephews dad hit her abused her mentally, saying things you don't EVER say to females ( weight, looks ect) gave her black eye, and then last week took the total piss and let her down with the bairn again)
I'm trying so hard to stay out the jail and if i can avoid it i willl, and i have been. I told her months ago " Su, i swear on Thomas's life if he is ever in this house again i'm going to do something to him. He came up last night, so i've went down to Clare's...... walked away....
It played on my mind, constantly.. i've went back up and attacked him. Yeah, i know it was the wrong way to deal with the situation, but what i did to him is only what he done to my big sis..... She phoned earlier saying that my stuff will be at the door, so that is me... It'll give me the kick up the a*** to get my own house finished.,
I'[m not a violent person, but the second i found out my big sis had a black eye(last sep, in hmp low moss) i knew i would get him back for it.... I waited 4 months for it.. At the end of the day, i'm homeless, but he knows that if he does it again, he'll get it again...I know some of you will find this behavour wrong but where i come from that is how it goes....You DON'T hit females.....Nuff said!!!
Don't know my Q's or even what i'm wanting from posting this but felt i had to get it off my chest......Kev
Kev, we're never gonna judge you here, and frankly I would have slapped that guy upside the noggin with a bottle or something........alas, I hold my temper anymore, but some things just have to be repaid.
Kev, I'm so sorry.......but maybe it's meant to be.......easy for me to say cause I ain't out in the cold......BUT like ya said it can be the motivation ya need.
Oh too see maybe the Clare thing is working out.....ya know for a reason cause you could go over there.
KEV, DO NOT USE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know I sound bossy, but when things like that happen and ya have opportunity ya might want to say screw it......the worse thing ya could do would be that........so stay chill........O.K.? I'm really sorry and I hope he learned his lesson.........and of course ultimately we don't wanna go punching someone in the head, but that's your sister.
Kev, I'm so sorry.......but maybe it's meant to be.......easy for me to say cause I ain't out in the cold......BUT like ya said it can be the motivation ya need.
Oh too see maybe the Clare thing is working out.....ya know for a reason cause you could go over there.
KEV, DO NOT USE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know I sound bossy, but when things like that happen and ya have opportunity ya might want to say screw it......the worse thing ya could do would be that........so stay chill........O.K.? I'm really sorry and I hope he learned his lesson.........and of course ultimately we don't wanna go punching someone in the head, but that's your sister.
Kev...mate ...i feel for ya coz i prob.wouldve done the same...i.e give him a few slaps...coz the twat obviously deserved a bit of his own medicine...but as we all know voilence dont serve much purpose it just eats away at ya,but i think it was a bit harsh of yer sis to chuck you out...but at least you got a gaff..albeit needing some work..but yer an inventive bloke so im sure you will manage.Many years back me and my bro(r.i.p)were staying at my uncles caravan in Birmingham...and he took a dislike to our drug taking...he couuld booze away and when pissed he would try and front us up...anyhow he kicked us out...so were really homeless with not a pot to piss in...so we reckon if we aint got nowhere..well he aint gonna have f*** all..so being the nice young men we were we burnt his caravan down...without him in it ...im not proud of what i did now but when you have revenge in mind ya dont see the whole picture....bit like the situ.with yer sisters x.
As Bryn said Kev things like this can be a trigger to getting a bag....but be strong mate ..i know you are...but you know you would feel double bad if ya did....stay positive and i reckon yer sis may calm down given time.Just to say mate get yer house sorted and things will hopefully fall into place.
P.S my uncle grassed on us but my bro said he would take the rap ..no point two of us getting locked up...he got 9mnths for arson and malicious damage...in Long Lartin hmp...sorry to ramble on...but Kev as usual footie aside i got yer back pal...take care.ATB..........Davey
As Bryn said Kev things like this can be a trigger to getting a bag....but be strong mate ..i know you are...but you know you would feel double bad if ya did....stay positive and i reckon yer sis may calm down given time.Just to say mate get yer house sorted and things will hopefully fall into place.
P.S my uncle grassed on us but my bro said he would take the rap ..no point two of us getting locked up...he got 9mnths for arson and malicious damage...in Long Lartin hmp...sorry to ramble on...but Kev as usual footie aside i got yer back pal...take care.ATB..........Davey
Hero Kev....you done exactly what a bro should do....well done mate. I hate bullies and maybe this bloke has had a taste of his own medicine!!
Just my opinion and I am sure many will disagree but thats life.
Good luck with your home AND STAY OFF THE GEAR PLLEEEEAAASEEE.....lol.
x
Just my opinion and I am sure many will disagree but thats life.
Good luck with your home AND STAY OFF THE GEAR PLLEEEEAAASEEE.....lol.
x
..Kev..
..Soz to read bout ya situation..but i back ya mate 100%..violence don't prove nuffin i know..but when its family its a diff matter..and the anger eats away at ya, if ya wudda let him get away with wot he done, he wudda kept doing it so maybe he'll think again the next time he thinks to curl his fist up..good luck in finding sumwhere mate..and don't be to hard on yaself..easy for me to say i know but keep ya head down and stay strong ;)..Robbie..
..Soz to read bout ya situation..but i back ya mate 100%..violence don't prove nuffin i know..but when its family its a diff matter..and the anger eats away at ya, if ya wudda let him get away with wot he done, he wudda kept doing it so maybe he'll think again the next time he thinks to curl his fist up..good luck in finding sumwhere mate..and don't be to hard on yaself..easy for me to say i know but keep ya head down and stay strong ;)..Robbie..
Kev, sorry to hear that you are homeless and I agree with the others, violence is no solution.
I saw my daughter and grandson yesterday at WalMart. She has chosen to continue to see a man who she is scared of and who also hit her 2 y/o son (no proof but the huge bruise and investigation). He was with her and I can't make eye contact with the guy, I'd love to haul off and run a shopping cart up his butt, but the fact that I won't even look at him hopefully says something. My daughter is on SS and she is supporting this jerk with her measley little $900 a month. I wish I could do something to make her see that she deserves better. This guy hasn't worked in the 18 months she's been seeing him, oh, but he is an electrician...wooooeeeeyyy, big stuff, how can you be an electrician and never work. He has had an IV coke problem (like myself) and has been in trouble with the law, though my daughter is no angel either. I pray that this doesn't end with my daughter or grandson in a coffin.
I saw my daughter and grandson yesterday at WalMart. She has chosen to continue to see a man who she is scared of and who also hit her 2 y/o son (no proof but the huge bruise and investigation). He was with her and I can't make eye contact with the guy, I'd love to haul off and run a shopping cart up his butt, but the fact that I won't even look at him hopefully says something. My daughter is on SS and she is supporting this jerk with her measley little $900 a month. I wish I could do something to make her see that she deserves better. This guy hasn't worked in the 18 months she's been seeing him, oh, but he is an electrician...wooooeeeeyyy, big stuff, how can you be an electrician and never work. He has had an IV coke problem (like myself) and has been in trouble with the law, though my daughter is no angel either. I pray that this doesn't end with my daughter or grandson in a coffin.
i'm sorry Kev ...........I agree with two wrongs dont make a right, but we r human you know.........and Lord knows there r many I would like to give a smashing to.....and would if they messed wit certain ppl i love.........so I feel ya hon......also listen to my bryn........dont use man......dont pick up...only makes a bad situation worse......the pain only goes away for a short time, only to be followed by more pain......
Isnt there like a salvation aprmy or someplace there across the pond which could help ya bit til ya get your place sorted out ? If you were here in america ya could stay here with half the free world.......sorry
Isnt there like a salvation aprmy or someplace there across the pond which could help ya bit til ya get your place sorted out ? If you were here in america ya could stay here with half the free world.......sorry
What can i say? thank you everyone. I know violence is not the way ahead but i can't change yesterday, it happened... I'm not gonna use, i've got myself a sleeping bag, two towels and a bar of soap( no straightners though aarrgghh LOL LOL) so i'm just going to go up to my flat. There is electricity, heating and hot water, and my tele is up there.. So when i wake up tomorrow i'm going to start thinking of me. My house will be stripped, painted , the lot over the weekend so i can get the carpets next week, then cooker freezer.....you know
Thanks for your concern, After that happened last night i went down to my mates and got steaming so was really badly hung over this morning. Still went to work though, just for a half day. Was feeling totally sh*t so went to my mums for a sleep. took a couple of her valium, BUT I MEAN THIS just to get the head down for a few hours (1pm-4pm)as i only got a few hours sleep. I'm not gonna use, don't want to and wouldn't give people the satisfaction, cause a lot of people will expect that now i'm not at Su's. Still took my naltrexone this afternoon, and will be going to the chemist tom for the next ones......
I will miss the whole set up with my sis, neice and nephew, it was the first time in years i felt part of a family, but i'll pick up some stray cat and adopt it and call it sally ##" sent to me from heaven sally cinamin your my world"##
Thank you everyone,. it means a lot, you all know that don't ya? course you do. Davey i laughed about what you done...what it is male pride? our ego's? I need to sort that
Peace, love, respect and positive vibes, Kev
Thanks for your concern, After that happened last night i went down to my mates and got steaming so was really badly hung over this morning. Still went to work though, just for a half day. Was feeling totally sh*t so went to my mums for a sleep. took a couple of her valium, BUT I MEAN THIS just to get the head down for a few hours (1pm-4pm)as i only got a few hours sleep. I'm not gonna use, don't want to and wouldn't give people the satisfaction, cause a lot of people will expect that now i'm not at Su's. Still took my naltrexone this afternoon, and will be going to the chemist tom for the next ones......
I will miss the whole set up with my sis, neice and nephew, it was the first time in years i felt part of a family, but i'll pick up some stray cat and adopt it and call it sally ##" sent to me from heaven sally cinamin your my world"##
Thank you everyone,. it means a lot, you all know that don't ya? course you do. Davey i laughed about what you done...what it is male pride? our ego's? I need to sort that
Peace, love, respect and positive vibes, Kev
Kev you truly are a gent and I think ya great.
Its maybe a possitive thing that this has happened but I hear what ya saying bout feeling part of a family and that touched me when you said that.
and dont be taking any waifs and strays in ya no!!!! lol I can give ya me pup for a few sleepless nights...lol. Nah he been great...he is actually almost toilet trained and I only had him since Sat. Record time I think but I am sure they are extra intellegant those labradors.
Anyway am off to have a row with him cos I feel like it....and cos I can...ahhhhh..........PMT dont ya just love it girls...lol.
BYYYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE X
Its maybe a possitive thing that this has happened but I hear what ya saying bout feeling part of a family and that touched me when you said that.
and dont be taking any waifs and strays in ya no!!!! lol I can give ya me pup for a few sleepless nights...lol. Nah he been great...he is actually almost toilet trained and I only had him since Sat. Record time I think but I am sure they are extra intellegant those labradors.
Anyway am off to have a row with him cos I feel like it....and cos I can...ahhhhh..........PMT dont ya just love it girls...lol.
BYYYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE X
Sorry about your situation Bud x
Feel it for you,
Rock on.............. If u didn't care you wouldn't have smacked him. Sorry if I'm wrong for sayin A Support your reaction
Take care x
Feel it for you,
Rock on.............. If u didn't care you wouldn't have smacked him. Sorry if I'm wrong for sayin A Support your reaction
Take care x
You paid a big price-
But looking out for your sister is priceless
If you were here ,you would have a place to stay for sure
peace,
jack
But looking out for your sister is priceless
If you were here ,you would have a place to stay for sure
peace,
jack
Kev...i hope this dont mean ya wont be on as much i.e access to a p.c etc...thinking of ya bro.........Davey
Nice one peeps. Do you know what it means a lot ALL of you!!!, all was well last night, thought i'd sit n feel sorry for myself....( get the violins out) but all was cool, up early went to work n that... yeah davey i'm in my mates now, other sisters yest.... need to get myself a laptop. Thanks again.Everyone have a good weekend
