Hi, I have read posts after posts to learn more about this addiction. I am in a relationship with someone this is addicted to cocaine. When we first met, things were different. During the winter his business slows down and that is when he started using more. He finally opened up to me to let me into what was going on...........We both grew up in religious families and we talk about going back and getting in the church. He is going thru the worst time so far, and hates himself and said he loves me and I am the positive sunshine in his life, but doesnt want to hurt me. I want to help him, I know he must help himself first........He has tried rehab and it did not work out, and now he is saying that God wont even listen to him. It is tearing my heart apart. To know the "Good" in him, and he says he cant bring it back. He said he doesnt want to lose me and wants a future, but he knows he has to stop. When he is not using, he is the man I know and dreamed to have a Christian "Family" with and we talk about that, but when he has used, it is a whole different story. I stand behind and beside him and support him while he goes to the low end but how can I help him thru this?
Love Him........... Support him.....
Tell him if he wants to save his life, there is NA..... They will welcome him...He will only stop when he is ready......
Only you know what and how much you and take..... When you think you can't Love them anymore, find more... I did that...... I Love my boyfriend through the absolute worse and the best.......
These days, the best is FAR outweighing the worse........But than again, he found NA works for him.........
Tell him if he wants to save his life, there is NA..... They will welcome him...He will only stop when he is ready......
Only you know what and how much you and take..... When you think you can't Love them anymore, find more... I did that...... I Love my boyfriend through the absolute worse and the best.......
These days, the best is FAR outweighing the worse........But than again, he found NA works for him.........
Thank you. I do love him, and that is what he can't understand that when he goes thru this at his low time, he thinks he is worth nothing. I have a big heart, and know this is where I am suppose to be to help him through this. I have prayed and I have cried, but I "know" this is where I should be.
Thank you for sharing me with me what you are going thru.
H
Thank you for sharing me with me what you are going thru.
H