People are asking for help, people are dying and yet there is so much going into getting your point across. I know I am new here, but please for the sake of us that want to help, and use this board for reference--and use this board to try and get out lives back-why waste so much time bickering ?
I know I can pick and choose to read what I want, but all the bickering is making me not want to come to this site. So you are robbing me, of something that belongs to all of us.
im sorry dear keep comming back we need you yspearing
O- How is everything? Please let us know..
all I can say its been blue day dearst danny how are you my sweetie well have a nice day love you yspearing
Y- I'm hanging in there, like the rest of us. Had a couple of "cries" today, but I'm going to be OK, as we all ARE. It's just like you want the day to end.
I totally agree with everything you said. It seems like every other post or new thread is refering to an arguement. It is CRAZY. I can't believe how much DRAMA is on this message board. People are here to seek recovery or are recovering from some sort of an addiction what is wrong with everyone. I am new here and I do belong to other message boards that are wonderful. So for those of you that want to leave just research other healthboards they are not ALL like this one. It may be great for those of you that enjoy arguing but for a person in need of help it is hard to get it here. If you don't believe me just take about 10 minutes out of your evening and read some of the new and old posts. For someone that is new here they won't want to be here. Most people lurk before they post and I am sure there are several new people that are scared to post due to this ongoing WAR. Also I have noticed that if they do post and maybe I am speaking for myself will ONLY get a few reply's to questions or concerns and the people who want to fight and argue over stupid sh** get like 60 or more reply's. I am sorry if I offend some people for saying what is on my mind but you have to admit it is ridiculous. Rae
I "get it," but it doesn't necessarily make it easier to take.
O'Neil, hope you're hanging in. M.
O'Neil, hope you're hanging in. M.
If you keep referring to it..it keeps it going.
It'll die of it's own doing if all just let it go. Happens alot here. Just human nature to want to defend our opinions.. Just like you gave yours.
Hope all is well with you O'Niell. You are one of the miracles here. I love your story.
Lisa
It'll die of it's own doing if all just let it go. Happens alot here. Just human nature to want to defend our opinions.. Just like you gave yours.
Hope all is well with you O'Niell. You are one of the miracles here. I love your story.
Lisa
Hi oneill. I hope you have a happy thanksgiving, even in light of what happened.
kerry
kerry
Hey Cowgirl,
You seem to have a lot of opinions of you own on this message board so it is funny that you would tell someone new to STOP REFERING to the post that it keeps it going. So if you were refering to my statements I am entitled to my opinion so please don't try to "SHUT ME UP"...Coming from a person that has a lot of drama on this board you don't have much room to talk. Rae
You seem to have a lot of opinions of you own on this message board so it is funny that you would tell someone new to STOP REFERING to the post that it keeps it going. So if you were refering to my statements I am entitled to my opinion so please don't try to "SHUT ME UP"...Coming from a person that has a lot of drama on this board you don't have much room to talk. Rae
Ok I need to say this and belive me its not a problem starter.I've waited to long to reach out for help,now that I've found a place(this spot)I feel like maybe there is hope for me.I have read some of the mean things but I am determined to keep working on my issues.I thank all of you.
rae73,
you being new here have little right to judge cowgirl. she is straight forward and tells it like it is. maybe just hang back and learn before you judge.
raerae
you being new here have little right to judge cowgirl. she is straight forward and tells it like it is. maybe just hang back and learn before you judge.
raerae
PEOPLE
don't start it on this post also
johnny
don't start it on this post also
johnny
Rae Rae, Love the name.What I wrote did not have your name in it. Thanks for your 2 cents.I was refering to the ORIGINAL POST"I just don't get this board sometimes" and I was telling cowgirl that I was entitled to my own opinions as I have seen she doesn't have a lack of sharing her's with others,trust me. I don't know her as a person and did not mean to offend you and your friend.She may be a wondeful person and that's great just not a person that should be "shutting somebody up", if they want to give thier opinion to this board being wacked. I can HONESTLY say that this board is a joke and pretty funny that MANY people say they are trying to help others. I posted a post yesturday that only got like 5 reply's it was a hydro question. Seems like all the DRAMA" concerns with people threathening to leave get a lot more of people's attention than those who really need it.Kind of like this post I am taking time away from my day writing to you,so Have a Happy Thanksgiving. I don't need this board for arguing I can do that at my own house just fine,thanks.As far as you telling me to "hang back and learn before I judge" would be some advice you could use too! Rae( Rachel)
rae,
as you can see i have been here for awhile, i don't post much anymore due to all the nonsence. sorry if i offended you, but for being new here you are quick to judge. i for one try my best to hold my tongue, and think i do pretty well at it. when i came here i was using and using quite heavily (heroin) i had quite a few spats with the dear people who i am now close to. it is because of them i have been clean for a few months. hang around, try to learn and not judge. i made that mistake in the beginning (it just makes it harder) and i'm not perfect, i still jump in sometimes. take what you want and leave the rest. best of luck to you and for whatever reason you are here.
raerae
as you can see i have been here for awhile, i don't post much anymore due to all the nonsence. sorry if i offended you, but for being new here you are quick to judge. i for one try my best to hold my tongue, and think i do pretty well at it. when i came here i was using and using quite heavily (heroin) i had quite a few spats with the dear people who i am now close to. it is because of them i have been clean for a few months. hang around, try to learn and not judge. i made that mistake in the beginning (it just makes it harder) and i'm not perfect, i still jump in sometimes. take what you want and leave the rest. best of luck to you and for whatever reason you are here.
raerae
Rae now you have become part of the drama you complain about....
Doh! now I have lol
Doh! now I have lol

paul,
which one of us do you mean?
anyways, how are you?? i hope you are well.
have a great day.
luv
raerae
by the way- what time is it there?? its 11:00am here
sorry i had to edit spelling, can't even spell my name today
rae
which one of us do you mean?
anyways, how are you?? i hope you are well.
have a great day.
luv
raerae
by the way- what time is it there?? its 11:00am here
sorry i had to edit spelling, can't even spell my name today
rae
I will take your advice. Just seems like there is alot of arguing on this board, I posted a NEW THREAD a few minutes ago asking everyone where they were from and telling my story in a little detail. Sorry we got off on the wrong foot. Happy Thanksgiving!!! Rae
rae,
no harm and no worries. i check out your post. happy thanksgiving
raerae
no harm and no worries. i check out your post. happy thanksgiving
raerae
Not you Raerae
I just thought it was ironic that a person was arguing and complaining about all the arguing and complaining I was just trying to lighten the mood.
Its just past 4pm here.
Best wishes
Paul
I just thought it was ironic that a person was arguing and complaining about all the arguing and complaining I was just trying to lighten the mood.
Its just past 4pm here.
Best wishes
Paul