My daughter use to be a normal teen with the normal habits that drove parents crazy. She got a boyfriend who was strange and kind of creepy but she said he was shy and a few other things. At 17 she changed and became very moody and cold and angry. Her emotions were out of control and at times she seemed like a lovable little girl again. I would take her to the bf's house on Sundays around noon and pick her up around 6pm later that night she would say she was sick and on Mondays could never go to school because she had a stomachach or what not and sleep most of the day. After she would get up she would seem normal again.
Two nights ago her new bf made her tell me what was going on with her. She told me that her other bf had talked her into using heroin and now she was craving it really bad. I told her that she hasn't been with him for a few months and she said that she had still kept using it. The last time was around Christmas.
Right now she is being good and like a little girl who wants to do the right thing but I know that monster that lives within her and I feel that it is just waiting to come out and I don't know what to do to keep it away.
I had just started getting her into therapy a week ago because of all the things that are going on here.
How can I help her also I want to do something to stop the other bf from hurting other girls.
When my daughter broke up with him she told me that his mom had him and his step brother buy drugs for her and they all use to sit around the house using. He became like a stalker to my daughter for a while now he just calls once in a while. He told her they would always be bonded together (at the time I didn't know what that ment).
My first thought was that what was done was done and I should take care of my daughter and forget him but then I thought about other mothers going through hell with their daughters and these girls having their lives torn apart before they even have a change to live. He is seeing girls 15 and up he is 18 and has an 11 yr. old sister in the home. It is an unsafe home. Can someone give me some answers. Sorry this is so long but I am so full of questions and thoughts and fears now. Thank you, Red Hawk
Red Hawk, I hope your daughter does well with her therapy. It sounds as though you might have caught her at a point where she has not gotten in too deep and is willing to change her life. Hats off to her new BF for getting her to admit her problem; he may have helped save her life. As far as her old BF, Id tell the police exactly what you have posted here. Maybe they can put him somewhere he wont be able to hurt anyone else. I wish we could take the law into our own hands and introduce some of these people to my two favorite DEA agents, Mr. Smith and Mr. Wesson, but we cant. Good luck with your daughter.
red hawk,
im 16 and i did heroin once but im not addicted but i have a friend that is a boy and i like him alot but he used to do heroin he got heself help and is off it for know he has a job and hangs out a lot more with his friends i thinks ur little gurl is not so little anymore and i feel bad about what happened and i think u need to keep her mind off things like go shopping hang out do stuff alot so she doesn't have time to think about heroin thats wat me and my friends did to help our friend and he's doin pretty good the only think he does now is smoke weed but u know wat i wouls rather him do that then heroin
good luck
kay
im 16 and i did heroin once but im not addicted but i have a friend that is a boy and i like him alot but he used to do heroin he got heself help and is off it for know he has a job and hangs out a lot more with his friends i thinks ur little gurl is not so little anymore and i feel bad about what happened and i think u need to keep her mind off things like go shopping hang out do stuff alot so she doesn't have time to think about heroin thats wat me and my friends did to help our friend and he's doin pretty good the only think he does now is smoke weed but u know wat i wouls rather him do that then heroin
good luck
kay
It just boggles my mind how a MOTHER....a MOTHER can sit there and do drugs with their children! I agree with David, call the cops. I wouldn't even tell your daughter about the call. The less people that know the better! Keep an eye on your daughter and if you feel (and as amother your gut instinct is usually right) that she is using again, pack up your bags and move. Good luck to you and your family and God save us all from people like that!
To Guest-Kay and ssss Thank you for your words. I have moved my daughter to a different school (not that there arn't drug everywhere). I keep a closer eye on what she is doing and double check what she says because she told lies all the time even about little things.
She is having therapy every week and has other meetings too.
I told the Metro Narcotics cops all that I knew re ex-bf and it turns out that it added to the information that they have on the two bigger heroin dealers that they have been watching. Ex-bf should get caught in the net with them maybe mom too. RedHawk2
She is having therapy every week and has other meetings too.
I told the Metro Narcotics cops all that I knew re ex-bf and it turns out that it added to the information that they have on the two bigger heroin dealers that they have been watching. Ex-bf should get caught in the net with them maybe mom too. RedHawk2
"that monster that lives within her and I feel that it is just waiting to come out"
Your daughter has danced with the devil and you must be very alert in the future. This is a powerful demon that will have you craving her for life. I would have her urine tested and counselled professionally once every week.
Your daughter has danced with the devil and you must be very alert in the future. This is a powerful demon that will have you craving her for life. I would have her urine tested and counselled professionally once every week.
making her take a drug test once a week might seem harsh but it could stop her from making that one bad choice causing a relapse.