It's been 20 days. Still craving, not as much though. If you all remember me saying my brother found out about me doing weed and pills, well yesterday he emailed me and said:
>>i just wanted to tell you that i am not mad about you scratching my
arm!!!!.
>alsoi wanted to tell you that you are a smart, pretty girl. i love you,
>your big bro jamie
I don't know how to respond to him. Any ideas? I would also like some ideas on things I can get my ex for valentines day. He told my friend what he's gonna give me(she didn't tell me though, I didn't want her to). So I would like to get him something. Any thoughts of something that's not exspensive and easy to get would be really appreciated
How are ya doing, punkbaby, well i bet you'll get lots of roses and balloons, you lucky dog! Maybe you can get him a box of candy and a sweet card, i really don't know just giving some suggests, be back in a min, the little girl is going around setting the clocks back she thinks i don't know, she wants to stay up an hour later! abby
tell your bro how you feel. open your heart, whatever you feel. it will come to you.
20 days way to go!! thats great hang in there your doing great.
your ex-bf? why are you geting him anything? maybe just a card. anyways, hope you are well have a great night.
raerae
20 days way to go!! thats great hang in there your doing great.
your ex-bf? why are you geting him anything? maybe just a card. anyways, hope you are well have a great night.
raerae
raerae
The only reason he is my ex is because I broke my promise to him soo many times that I would quit pills, but I always screwed up. He told me that it can either be temporary or permanent. I'm hoping to God that it will be temporary. He's my buddy! lol I feel soo terrible for what I did. Valentines day can be kind of a way to make it up to him
The only reason he is my ex is because I broke my promise to him soo many times that I would quit pills, but I always screwed up. He told me that it can either be temporary or permanent. I'm hoping to God that it will be temporary. He's my buddy! lol I feel soo terrible for what I did. Valentines day can be kind of a way to make it up to him
hey baby,
your bro sounds like one heck of an awesome dude. he loves you thats very obvious. i know its scary to have to fess up and be honest. but i assure you when you do, he is going to be your biggest supporter. he loves you unconditionally that shows. he forgave you for scratching him. just be honest. he wants to help you. i doubt he is going to beat you up over it. he cares about you. you are so lucky to have that. dont be scared. hey you know what. why dont you just email him and tell him whats been going on. then take it from there. you deserve to be loved. i am so glad you have such a cool brother. i have an awesome brother too. i told him and he has been one of my biggest supporters. i like you didnt have a mom i could talk too i have 2 sisters who are so judgemental and superficial, i told them too but they didnt understand or have anything nice to say. but my brother sounds alot like yours.
as far as your boyfriend, what about a new cd. something like that. what kind of stuff is he into. get him some fun valentines candy. plan a day or something. take him to a movie or arcade. do you guys have lazer tag? plan a cool fun day. or frisbee gold do you guys have that? we love that here. my kids and i go all the time. buy him a frisbee gold disc and take him out to play. what other sorta things do you guys do?
terrianne
your bro sounds like one heck of an awesome dude. he loves you thats very obvious. i know its scary to have to fess up and be honest. but i assure you when you do, he is going to be your biggest supporter. he loves you unconditionally that shows. he forgave you for scratching him. just be honest. he wants to help you. i doubt he is going to beat you up over it. he cares about you. you are so lucky to have that. dont be scared. hey you know what. why dont you just email him and tell him whats been going on. then take it from there. you deserve to be loved. i am so glad you have such a cool brother. i have an awesome brother too. i told him and he has been one of my biggest supporters. i like you didnt have a mom i could talk too i have 2 sisters who are so judgemental and superficial, i told them too but they didnt understand or have anything nice to say. but my brother sounds alot like yours.
as far as your boyfriend, what about a new cd. something like that. what kind of stuff is he into. get him some fun valentines candy. plan a day or something. take him to a movie or arcade. do you guys have lazer tag? plan a cool fun day. or frisbee gold do you guys have that? we love that here. my kids and i go all the time. buy him a frisbee gold disc and take him out to play. what other sorta things do you guys do?
terrianne
typos sorry i meant frisbee golf duh
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lmao Boo I was like "frisbee gold???" Well we don't see each other alot. Only at school since my mom doesn't like the whole idea of me going places with guys...she's really over-protective. We did get to hang out a couple times(cuz I snuck around my mom), we went to his house...haha I'm gonna shut up now! lol
You always have good things to say. I'm really happy I found this site btw. Well I think I'll buy him candy. If anything I can pull together a little poem for him(I write sometimes) I went kind of broke today. I just had to buy a lil weed :-P sorry if you don't think it's funny(doesn't bother me that I do it lol)
You always have good things to say. I'm really happy I found this site btw. Well I think I'll buy him candy. If anything I can pull together a little poem for him(I write sometimes) I went kind of broke today. I just had to buy a lil weed :-P sorry if you don't think it's funny(doesn't bother me that I do it lol)
Hey ya'll I'm going to go to bed. Got to get to school tommorrow *sighs* And please people don't do anything dumb tonight lol
night
night
baby,
you cant go wrong with candy and omg they have valintine marshmellow peeps i sooooo love peeps hehehhe. and those are super cheep. there ya go get him some candy and maybe a cool picture frame key chain with your picture in it : ) or maybe a cool guy magazine like some skater magazine or something. i bet you write awesome poetry. you writings are always impressive. oh yeah and i forgot to congratulate you on your clean days. you are rockin on that. stay strong and keep up the incredible work. its working for you and you deserve every minute of it. oh and when you email your brother tell him that about your progress. even mention this website or that you have been seeking help through online support. that will show him that you are serious and that your trying because you realise you have a problem and you want help. : )
terrianne
you cant go wrong with candy and omg they have valintine marshmellow peeps i sooooo love peeps hehehhe. and those are super cheep. there ya go get him some candy and maybe a cool picture frame key chain with your picture in it : ) or maybe a cool guy magazine like some skater magazine or something. i bet you write awesome poetry. you writings are always impressive. oh yeah and i forgot to congratulate you on your clean days. you are rockin on that. stay strong and keep up the incredible work. its working for you and you deserve every minute of it. oh and when you email your brother tell him that about your progress. even mention this website or that you have been seeking help through online support. that will show him that you are serious and that your trying because you realise you have a problem and you want help. : )
terrianne
punkbaby
i would wish you would get into a church youthgroup at an onfire church and create relationships there and begin to listen about what Jesus has to offer you it will help i believe. we all love you alot
johnny
i would wish you would get into a church youthgroup at an onfire church and create relationships there and begin to listen about what Jesus has to offer you it will help i believe. we all love you alot
johnny
hay baby,
johnny is right church youth groups arent all about preaching and boring stuff if you find a good one they do tons of fun stuff, my daughter goes out at least once a week they play lazer tag, frisbee golf, go to amusement parks. all kinds of cool stuff a great place to meet new friends who are all actually just like you. its worth a shot as an option. all the activities they do the church pays for too.
terrianne
johnny is right church youth groups arent all about preaching and boring stuff if you find a good one they do tons of fun stuff, my daughter goes out at least once a week they play lazer tag, frisbee golf, go to amusement parks. all kinds of cool stuff a great place to meet new friends who are all actually just like you. its worth a shot as an option. all the activities they do the church pays for too.
terrianne
p baby just where are you at if you are around the atlanta area i will get you hooked up with some of our youth leaders who will love you, come and get you and you all will have a good time
johnny
johnny
Johnny,
How are you today? Just wanted to jump in and say yes Punkbaby should get involved with a church or youth group. Sounds like a good idea for a teenager that is having problems. She would probably make some really cool friends. She does not live in the Atlanta area though, she lives in a small city in Florida. There must be something in her area. Maybe I will try and find something since I am in Florida too. Hang in there Baby 20 days is a huge accomplishment. I am so proud of you. Rae
How are you today? Just wanted to jump in and say yes Punkbaby should get involved with a church or youth group. Sounds like a good idea for a teenager that is having problems. She would probably make some really cool friends. She does not live in the Atlanta area though, she lives in a small city in Florida. There must be something in her area. Maybe I will try and find something since I am in Florida too. Hang in there Baby 20 days is a huge accomplishment. I am so proud of you. Rae
i too will research and find an on fire church where they have a dynamic youth and maybe we can get her hooked up in one of them
thanks rae
johnny
thanks rae
johnny
Hi, Punkbaby,
I can't believe you have 20 days!!!! That's wonderful!!! I'm so proud of you!!!
Looks like you've been getting a LOT of great advice from a LOT of people who care about you very much. I hope you listen to them.
About your question about something inexpensive for your ex for Valentine's Day....one year my daughter didn't have much money either but her boyfriend LOVED brownies. She MADE him a large plate full of heart-shaped brownies and he LOVED it! If your ex doesn't like brownies, you could make a plate full of his favorite cookies in heart shapes. The way to a guys heart is through his stomach! lol
I see a little sunshine peeking through the clouds for you! Your brother sounds like a great guy. Don't be afraid to turn to him if and when you need his help. He already knows the bad stuff (that you were using) and he's probably worried about you, why not let him know that you've been clean for 20 days? Maybe he can be the love and support you need. I'm happy for you. Keep in touch!
Love,
Susan :)
I can't believe you have 20 days!!!! That's wonderful!!! I'm so proud of you!!!
Looks like you've been getting a LOT of great advice from a LOT of people who care about you very much. I hope you listen to them.
About your question about something inexpensive for your ex for Valentine's Day....one year my daughter didn't have much money either but her boyfriend LOVED brownies. She MADE him a large plate full of heart-shaped brownies and he LOVED it! If your ex doesn't like brownies, you could make a plate full of his favorite cookies in heart shapes. The way to a guys heart is through his stomach! lol
I see a little sunshine peeking through the clouds for you! Your brother sounds like a great guy. Don't be afraid to turn to him if and when you need his help. He already knows the bad stuff (that you were using) and he's probably worried about you, why not let him know that you've been clean for 20 days? Maybe he can be the love and support you need. I'm happy for you. Keep in touch!
Love,
Susan :)
