Man, when it rains it Fu*cking pours..........My Mother-in-law who is a saint in my eyes 86 yrs. old, raised 8 pretty succesful kids, from 2 nurses to a collage professer, and a few entrepauners, was brought to the hospitol yesterday for a very low heart rate, they had to use the paddle on her.
Seemed to help & get her stabilized, just found out it's not working out & now they think she has a clot in her lungs, she can't breath,
I Don't know what to think at this point.........I Do know what's ahead if we lose her, Her children idolize her, her Grandchildren Idolize her, I Idolize her,
But I Do know what a beautiful life she has had, she lost her husband 30 yrs ago, but he left her a very wealthy woman, until recently she was on the golf course everyday........But for the last year she has had some major medical problems & overcome them, I Pray to God she can do it again!!!
Life is just hell sometimes, Just too soon for me to go through again, Please pray for Her & Me!!
Much Love
Dottie
Dear Dottie... i am so sorry to hear this. I will most definitely be keeping all of you in my prayers. She sounds like a wonderful person!
Love you,
Bri
Love you,
Bri
So sorry to hear hun, I will keep you guys in my prayers.........
Thank Bri
She really is, no way would you take her for 86 yrs old, she's increduble to me & my kids
Love Dottie
She really is, no way would you take her for 86 yrs old, she's increduble to me & my kids
Love Dottie
Dottie, I have faith that God is watching over her... :)
Dear, Sweet Twin:
My thoughts are with you completely.
I am sending so many prayers your way.
I don't want you to have to lose someone you love so much -
it's just not fair - it's too soon.
Please know I am praying for both of you and the whole family. I know a woman who is loved so much will be missed terribly if this happens.
Love you,
Calll and scream or whatever you want to do - I'm just reading and came to check my emails.
Love again,
Your Twin
My thoughts are with you completely.
I am sending so many prayers your way.
I don't want you to have to lose someone you love so much -
it's just not fair - it's too soon.
Please know I am praying for both of you and the whole family. I know a woman who is loved so much will be missed terribly if this happens.
Love you,
Calll and scream or whatever you want to do - I'm just reading and came to check my emails.
Love again,
Your Twin
Dottie, I'm sorry to hear of your misfortune. I will keep your family in my prayers. God can perform miracles. Take Care.
Dottie,
I'm so sorry to hear about your mother in law. I remember you posting a very loving post about her not too long ago. She sounds like a wonderful person. I pray that she pulls through this with flying colors.
Love,
DeNae
I'm so sorry to hear about your mother in law. I remember you posting a very loving post about her not too long ago. She sounds like a wonderful person. I pray that she pulls through this with flying colors.
Love,
DeNae
Dottie I will keep you and your loved one in my prayers .Tracey
Dottie, you poor thing...so sorry to hear this...you and your family are in my prayers
What is is about clean and sober and our whole friggin lives fall apart? That and our health. Part of it is because we're old. And getting older. That means our mom's and dad's are even older and this kind of stuff is going to happen.. It's hard to deal with.
Make sure you tell her you love her everyday, Dottie.
Love
CG
Make sure you tell her you love her everyday, Dottie.
Love
CG
Prayers from my way to yours also
Please do keep us updated.....
<<<HUGS>>>>
Please do keep us updated.....
<<<HUGS>>>>
hello dottie,so sorry for your pain ,boy you have alot on your platter,,heres some love and kisses,,I will pray for you ,ok ,,you are so loved here ,,now you just no we are thinking of you ,and keep you close to our hearts,ok,love poopie
Dottie,
I am so sorry you are going through this. You both are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there.
michelle
I am so sorry you are going through this. You both are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there.
michelle
Michele, YGM
Dottie Boy..your really going to need those tapes. I hope you can get them by this weekend and watch em.
Dottie Boy..your really going to need those tapes. I hope you can get them by this weekend and watch em.
irish i am sorry to here that about your mother in law sounds like a great woman. my prayers and heart goes out to u and ur family. try to keep the faith i know its hard to see the sun when the clouds never part god works in mysterious ways. but what u do is not miss a min. with her and let her know see is loved God Bless!
Thanks e'one for your thoughts & prayers
trying to get the right info from this family is like pulling teeth, they are scared to get my husband exited because He has had triple by-pass & has high blood pressure, plus a sh*tload of other problems (health)
From what I Know right now, she has fluid around her heart, I Have no clue what that means & I'm starting to get pissed that all the friggin nurse's in this family don't just talk to me..........It must be pretty serious because they called my son in Alabama, who then called me............I Told him what I Knew, which is very little.............WTF are they doing calling her Grandson, that's MY SON
IT's my Job to talk to my kids........Am I Crazy? or are they out of line?
I'm not friggin rational right now, My heads about to blow off.
To Top it off, I Got A Letter From Maryellen, beautiful letter, made me cry, with Carol's Obituary with her picture, I Just lost it.............OMG Wendy, do I ever need to see that tape!!
I Would like to just bury my head in the sand for a while!!! aaaaaaarrrrrrrrrggggg
Love Dottie
trying to get the right info from this family is like pulling teeth, they are scared to get my husband exited because He has had triple by-pass & has high blood pressure, plus a sh*tload of other problems (health)
From what I Know right now, she has fluid around her heart, I Have no clue what that means & I'm starting to get pissed that all the friggin nurse's in this family don't just talk to me..........It must be pretty serious because they called my son in Alabama, who then called me............I Told him what I Knew, which is very little.............WTF are they doing calling her Grandson, that's MY SON
IT's my Job to talk to my kids........Am I Crazy? or are they out of line?
I'm not friggin rational right now, My heads about to blow off.
To Top it off, I Got A Letter From Maryellen, beautiful letter, made me cry, with Carol's Obituary with her picture, I Just lost it.............OMG Wendy, do I ever need to see that tape!!
I Would like to just bury my head in the sand for a while!!! aaaaaaarrrrrrrrrggggg
Love Dottie
Dear Dottie;
I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. You have too much on you right now. I wish you could take a break but your mind can't take a break.
Tell the hospital that you are immediate family and they will give you more info - if you get someone who's smart enough to know what's going on. Ask for her nurse.
How far away does she live from you? Is it drivable?
You know my prayers are with you and you Mother-in-law.
Love you,
Your Twin
I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. You have too much on you right now. I wish you could take a break but your mind can't take a break.
Tell the hospital that you are immediate family and they will give you more info - if you get someone who's smart enough to know what's going on. Ask for her nurse.
How far away does she live from you? Is it drivable?
You know my prayers are with you and you Mother-in-law.
Love you,
Your Twin
Thanks Jean
The hospitol is 10 min away, but her Daughter, The Nurse (and the only one i don't like) Is with her, so I Can't get any info,
They pulled this sh*t when my F-I-L died 30 yrs. ago.........every thing is so hush-hush........because my husband can't handle it, but at least tell me what the hell is going on!!! Why call my son out of state....& tell him,
My Son is very close to his Grandmother, they go golfing together every time he's here........... Why upset him? That stuff should be coming from his own parents......not the aunts & uncles, They are crossing a line with me, just like last time.........and that was a mess, and I Never said a word 30 yrs. ago but they are pissing me off right now..........I Just can't help it.
I Love my MIL........But the rest of the outlaws act like i'm invisible, I'm just sick of it.........I Resent them by passing me, & calling my son!!
Love Dottie
The hospitol is 10 min away, but her Daughter, The Nurse (and the only one i don't like) Is with her, so I Can't get any info,
They pulled this sh*t when my F-I-L died 30 yrs. ago.........every thing is so hush-hush........because my husband can't handle it, but at least tell me what the hell is going on!!! Why call my son out of state....& tell him,
My Son is very close to his Grandmother, they go golfing together every time he's here........... Why upset him? That stuff should be coming from his own parents......not the aunts & uncles, They are crossing a line with me, just like last time.........and that was a mess, and I Never said a word 30 yrs. ago but they are pissing me off right now..........I Just can't help it.
I Love my MIL........But the rest of the outlaws act like i'm invisible, I'm just sick of it.........I Resent them by passing me, & calling my son!!
Love Dottie
When you're up to it, I would just drive to that hospital, tell them your the d-in-law and they will tell you what's going on - try and go when "she " isn't there.
That's a B**** or should I say she is - your son should be getting the info from you b/c you are his Mother and he's not close by. I would have to be at that hospital.
That makes me mad, do people not know how to act when someone is so very ill? You aren't going to run and tell your husband. Do they think you want to kill him? This sounds fishy, I would go as soon as you feel up to it.
The doctors and nurses were thriled every time they saw us come in when Mother was in there b/c they wanted us up-dated. They would come to us within a couple of minutes, I was shocked.
I hope you get some rest tonight.
Love you,
Your Twin
That's a B**** or should I say she is - your son should be getting the info from you b/c you are his Mother and he's not close by. I would have to be at that hospital.
That makes me mad, do people not know how to act when someone is so very ill? You aren't going to run and tell your husband. Do they think you want to kill him? This sounds fishy, I would go as soon as you feel up to it.
The doctors and nurses were thriled every time they saw us come in when Mother was in there b/c they wanted us up-dated. They would come to us within a couple of minutes, I was shocked.
I hope you get some rest tonight.
Love you,
Your Twin
