Hi Kerry, I won't be on long but I sent you an email. If you reply I don't know if I'll be up to read it or not if it takes much longer, but if not I'll check tonight. (not a board topic) Love, Kat
Kat, please don't email me any longer. Please lose my email address.
Kerry
Kerry
Dear Kerry, I left last night and didn't see this until now. Okay, I will respect your wishes. Would it be asking to much to ask why? I have no idea what I have done to make you feel this way. I apologize for writing to you. I didn't know you felt that way, and I certainly can't think of a reason why. As far as I know, I always treated you kindly and with respect. I would have never said anything like this to you. I still wish you well and hope only continued success for you. I'm sorry to have bothered you. Kat
I don't really know you, Kat. I think that the info you shared with me today was unfair; I don't need that kind of guilt, or stress. I am sorry to hear about your loss, but that was 2 weeks ago, and I wasn't the original speaker. I think by coming to me with that was very heavy, and unfair.
I never came here to hurt anyone, ever. I only came here to share experience strength and hope.
Kerry
I never came here to hurt anyone, ever. I only came here to share experience strength and hope.
Kerry
Kerry, I never meant to do that. I was sharing with you because I trusted you and thought I could. I also told you that I felt you meant no harm and had no idea. I wasn't trying to make you feel guilty, I was just telling you about a hurt in my life. I didnt place any blame at all towards you. I hoped as a friend you could share in a tragedy in my life. If you had told me something similar, I would have tried to give you compassion and support. After bearing such a horror to me, I thought you would have cared, not thrown me away and asked me never to email you or talk to you again. I placed no blame on you because I figured you didn't know. Can you imagine how much it hurt to tell you the nightmare of my life, and then to find you wanted nothing else to do with me? I would have never done that to you. But since it effected you that way, I won't write to you or express my hurt in life. I hoped you would be kind. I also thought if you knew, you might care enough about me not to make jokes about what will haunt me for the rest my life. I didn't think you meant to hurt me, but now it feels like you do. I thought maybe if you knew, you wouldn't make remarks like that out of respect for what I've been through. Well enough said, Kat
I never meant to hurt you. If I hurt you, I do apologize. But why not bring this up 3 weeks ago, or even TWO nights ago, when the references were made. And, if you read back, I wasn't the original poster. I only made one reference. You have the other poster's email; why not email her, why me?!? And why after your best friend got banned, and was saying horrible things to us all night. Even though they were banned, we saw them.
The "posse" (sorry, to any that might be offended by this) has been picking on me for weeks. You people aren't the kindest. I didn't think that you were like that, Kat, but I saw you make fun of sammy, then try to deny it, so I don't trust you. And what you laid on ME, NOT THE ORIGINAL POSTER, wasn't fair at all.
This just seems like more of the same. It seemed like more games.
Kerry
The "posse" (sorry, to any that might be offended by this) has been picking on me for weeks. You people aren't the kindest. I didn't think that you were like that, Kat, but I saw you make fun of sammy, then try to deny it, so I don't trust you. And what you laid on ME, NOT THE ORIGINAL POSTER, wasn't fair at all.
This just seems like more of the same. It seemed like more games.
Kerry
kerry, I didnt see it at first. I was just playing and having a good tme. And later, you wil notice, I never made fun of Sammy. I always treated you as a friend, I never hurt you. It's not my style to make fun of people. I know the thread turned bad, but I never meant it to.. I've tried my best to be friends with you. The thead that caused Sharon to get banned, I never even saw..Once you and I enjoyed each other, and the same with Rachel. I said nothng to spare your feelings,This has nothing to do with Sharon. So if you guys want nothing more to do with me, then I accept that. I will leave you alone if that is what you wish. It's sad that you have no trust in me when I have told you the truth.There's nothing else to say. Kat
Kat..let it go.
Not all of us are going to see eye to eye and this doesn't belong on the board.
We all have imagined hurts that others have no clue that they have caused.... Kerry apologized for hurting you and you apologized for involving her in something she wanted nothing to do with. Now, go to your corners and leave it alone.
You both have so much to offer here and in your own unique ways are so loved and needed. Just take a break from eachother.
I love you both and need you both...
Cowgirl
Not all of us are going to see eye to eye and this doesn't belong on the board.
We all have imagined hurts that others have no clue that they have caused.... Kerry apologized for hurting you and you apologized for involving her in something she wanted nothing to do with. Now, go to your corners and leave it alone.
You both have so much to offer here and in your own unique ways are so loved and needed. Just take a break from eachother.
I love you both and need you both...
Cowgirl
kat,
you know know your own heart and you know your own motives .... what some one else thinks of you is so not relivent esp when you take into account the entire circumstance in its totality.... you are a wonderful person and a good and caring, compassionate friend... and if some people cant or wont see that then well lets really take at look at whos lose it really is....
look at it this way... now you know in at least one way who you cant depend on or trust to be of any support or of any maturity level... As I can understand having feelings about things that may be contrary to what you would have hoped ... to bring it to the board and say it in that fashion was a cheap shot and just mean...( I would have at least said what I need to say to say in a private email not to humilitate you on the board...) in my opinion and I am sorry for your hurt...Just know that I and the rest of the 'posse' is always here for you no matter what....
love ya
Teresa
oh and I am not going anywhere... at least not voluntarily.....
you know know your own heart and you know your own motives .... what some one else thinks of you is so not relivent esp when you take into account the entire circumstance in its totality.... you are a wonderful person and a good and caring, compassionate friend... and if some people cant or wont see that then well lets really take at look at whos lose it really is....
look at it this way... now you know in at least one way who you cant depend on or trust to be of any support or of any maturity level... As I can understand having feelings about things that may be contrary to what you would have hoped ... to bring it to the board and say it in that fashion was a cheap shot and just mean...( I would have at least said what I need to say to say in a private email not to humilitate you on the board...) in my opinion and I am sorry for your hurt...Just know that I and the rest of the 'posse' is always here for you no matter what....
love ya
Teresa
oh and I am not going anywhere... at least not voluntarily.....
Hey Kat,
Isn't it funny how some are accused of coming to the posse's rescue all the time while it appears to me another group, which to me seem to be doing the exact same thing, don't seem to realize this. See, Kerry I wouldn't had gotten into this, but since you are here to stick up for your dear friend Sammy, well, I'm going to stand up for my dear friend Kat.
See, it doesn't matter what you think of Kat. We all love her and know how big of a heart she has. I tried explaining to her last night that she doesn't need you. I hope some day you will try to see your own faults rather then being here pointing out everyone elses.
See Kerry, you do exactly what I am struggling with not doing. Take your crap out on others here. "We" need to try and get along with everyone on here, if "we" can't, then we need to learn how to ignore the person. But to come to this board and say that to Kat was just plain mean. You could had told her in email. You went out of your way to strike out at her here. I ignored it yesterday but I feel after the hurt you had caused her she needs everyones support. I can't imagine somebody doing that to me, can you imagine it being done to you? You better hope nobody ever pulls that with you. What comes around goes around.
Isn't it funny how some are accused of coming to the posse's rescue all the time while it appears to me another group, which to me seem to be doing the exact same thing, don't seem to realize this. See, Kerry I wouldn't had gotten into this, but since you are here to stick up for your dear friend Sammy, well, I'm going to stand up for my dear friend Kat.
See, it doesn't matter what you think of Kat. We all love her and know how big of a heart she has. I tried explaining to her last night that she doesn't need you. I hope some day you will try to see your own faults rather then being here pointing out everyone elses.
See Kerry, you do exactly what I am struggling with not doing. Take your crap out on others here. "We" need to try and get along with everyone on here, if "we" can't, then we need to learn how to ignore the person. But to come to this board and say that to Kat was just plain mean. You could had told her in email. You went out of your way to strike out at her here. I ignored it yesterday but I feel after the hurt you had caused her she needs everyones support. I can't imagine somebody doing that to me, can you imagine it being done to you? You better hope nobody ever pulls that with you. What comes around goes around.
Hey Kat,
I'll talk with you later, ok? I have to get ready and go pick up my son. But I want to touch base with you later. I'll be back around 9 pm. Hang in there and know we all love you.
Love,
Liz
I'll talk with you later, ok? I have to get ready and go pick up my son. But I want to touch base with you later. I'll be back around 9 pm. Hang in there and know we all love you.
Love,
Liz
liz,
hey way to represent!! i wish i had a way with words sometimes like you do
kat,
i hope your doing well. we know your heart. yuo know i love you.
terrianne
hey way to represent!! i wish i had a way with words sometimes like you do
kat,
i hope your doing well. we know your heart. yuo know i love you.
terrianne
I thought that when two people had a disagreement that we were going to try to stay out of it and not come to the defense of friends? Isn't that what the moderators said? To let whoever is involved to work it out for themselves? So far, its three against one from what I'm seeing.
briar,
your right, i apologise, i was just tryen to cheer up a hurt freind and i could have left a few words out. so there for i am sorry for butting in. i sooooooo know better. for that i apologise.
terrianne
your right, i apologise, i was just tryen to cheer up a hurt freind and i could have left a few words out. so there for i am sorry for butting in. i sooooooo know better. for that i apologise.
terrianne
ya'll are scaring me.
Terrianne,
You are a very good and honest person. You are another one that always tries to make people get along and tries to help people. I enjoy reading your posts.
Briar
You are a very good and honest person. You are another one that always tries to make people get along and tries to help people. I enjoy reading your posts.
Briar
don't be scared Fly, we are addicts. Hell, we are human. Sometimes our emotions run high. It happens. Please don't let some fussing run you off.
Redd
Redd
you are right briar.. but you know just couldnt do it... and didnt.... not really sorry either.... not this time.... I have feelings about what went on and just like some wont hesitate and havent hesitated to voice their opinions to and about me I did so in the same fashion only without the name calling...
I can feel the pain of others here and I jumped in to offer my brand of compassion with a dash of perspective... if the shoe didnt fit then dont wear it.... if it does well then i dont know what else to say but to back up and start over ...
luckily the other people on this thread have the luxury of being able to re invent themselves... I do not so I will just continue to offer my opinions as I see fit...
sorry if this offends anyone but like I said and other have said.... take what applies and leave the rest...
teresa
I can feel the pain of others here and I jumped in to offer my brand of compassion with a dash of perspective... if the shoe didnt fit then dont wear it.... if it does well then i dont know what else to say but to back up and start over ...
luckily the other people on this thread have the luxury of being able to re invent themselves... I do not so I will just continue to offer my opinions as I see fit...
sorry if this offends anyone but like I said and other have said.... take what applies and leave the rest...
teresa
Just came on and read all this. I have a hurt friend, too, and you are ganging up on her...........again. Teresa, I can not see that this has ANYTHING at all to do with you, yet here you are.............just couldn't help yourself, could you?
nope..... just said that.... i am not ganging up on anyone... i have said all that I have to say.... let me say it for all who are about to say it ....
shamey shamey shamey...... there everyone feel better...?
teresa
shamey shamey shamey...... there everyone feel better...?
teresa
