Lets Get Along Please

HELLO LETS ALL GET ALONG AND TAKE EACH ADVICE WITH GRACE YSPEARING TAKE CARE ALL
Most of us get along just fine..don't worry about it.

How are you doing?
y,
that used to be my advise to everyone..... please lets get along... lets play nice and fair ... lets be friends.... well you wont be here long at least not with hard to hear recovery message to find that that is often a pipe dream ... the difference is how those nasty little barbs like those i am sure you are refering to are received.
alot of things in recovery like real honesty and being up front, just to name a few, are hard concepts to call someone on... I walked that road.. my sponsor told me when I was just spreading bs... and when i was fooling my self.. that is how i learned... that is how i have sponsored 7 others... 5 are still clean today... but some are not ready and/or willing to hear... that does not change my message... they ask i tell. if i have something to say then i say it. I try to do it in the most sympathetic manner possible...
but....... this too shall pass.... it always does... there is always more of this where it came from it is the nature of the beast... i am mature enough to see it... but i am not so perfect not to respond in my own defence when i feel hurt or attached .. i have earned at least the initial right to respond as long as I do so with some maner of decorum and respect. I can not completely speak for others but there actions will speak for themselves but they too have earned that right when the issue is re-hashed. I can say however if the person doesnt let the dogs lay down .................
I am glad that there are peace lovers on this board... believe it or not this can be a learning experience ....
God Bless you y.. and your lovely spirit...
Teresa
THANK YOU YOU SOUND LIKE YOU ALOT ABOUT RECOVERY IM JUST LEANRING SORRY IF HURT ANYONE LOVE YSPEARING
Guys,

Dont know whats been going on but forget out it. Cowgirl once told me very wise words you will always get somebody who will make trouble because others are trying to recovery. Love you all guys Hope you are all fine.

RHonda
Dear YSpearing,

I think Cowgirl and Teresa made some excellent and concise points. Please don't apologize, though. You are new, you're learning, and we are all here to help and support each other.

How are you? I haven't read any of your posts, notwithstanding this one. Is there anything that myself or others can help you with?

I look forward to reading more of your posts, Y. Welcome to the forum, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ben
Yes, YSpearing, Ben's right, you have nothing to apologize for. This isn't the first time there's been hurt feelings and a ruckus going on here and it won't be the last...it's human nature and we are all a bunch screwed up addicts. We don't think like normal people and most of us don't act like normal people. And what a boring world this would be if we all did????

I too would like to hear more from you. How are you today?

Love,
Cowgirl