Hey lady. How are you this saturday morning? Hanging in there I hope. It's going to work out for you I just know it. I wish I had some suboxone to send ya. I know that's the only way you are going to be able to get out of those horrible withdrawls when you do finally quit. Methadone is some nasty sh*t to get off and I know the pain you are going to go through. I wish there was something I could do to help you. I will say a prayer for you today, it can't hurt.... Love Rae
Hey Rae,
Thank you so much for the concern and for the prayers. Nope, prayers can't hurt. I'm hanging in here. I have so much to do today, My husband is going in the hospital tomorrow. For how long I don't know. He has to get 2 maybe even 3 toes amputated now. We thought 1 but he seen the surgeon yesterday. His health is never good. I feel so sorry for him. It just never ends for him. Every year it seems anymore he has to go in and get amputations. Had a half of foot removed a year ago. sigh
So, today I have to get things in the house so I don't have to run to stores and stuff after work next week. I'm starting work on Monday after being out for several months. It will be hard enough to get used to again. I'll be very tired for awhile. So, I'm not going to need the extra errands to run.
I hope you enjoy the weekend. Thank you so much for thinking of me.
Love,
Liz
Thank you so much for the concern and for the prayers. Nope, prayers can't hurt. I'm hanging in here. I have so much to do today, My husband is going in the hospital tomorrow. For how long I don't know. He has to get 2 maybe even 3 toes amputated now. We thought 1 but he seen the surgeon yesterday. His health is never good. I feel so sorry for him. It just never ends for him. Every year it seems anymore he has to go in and get amputations. Had a half of foot removed a year ago. sigh
So, today I have to get things in the house so I don't have to run to stores and stuff after work next week. I'm starting work on Monday after being out for several months. It will be hard enough to get used to again. I'll be very tired for awhile. So, I'm not going to need the extra errands to run.
I hope you enjoy the weekend. Thank you so much for thinking of me.
Love,
Liz
Wow Liz,
I had no idea your husband was going through or had all that happen to him. How didn't I know that we talk all the time.LOL I am sorry to hear. He sounds like my ex-husband everything happened to that man. He is 43 and I am 31. We were together for almost 10 years. Anywy he had 2-3 surgery's for Crohn's disease and still has it. I got me a young man now. My BF will be 27 Mar 10th. I am robbing the craddle,LOL
On a serious note, I will say a prayer for your husband. I hope he gets better real soon and has a speedy recovery.. Good luck starting work, man I know that is going to be hard. Take care Liz.
Love, Rae
I had no idea your husband was going through or had all that happen to him. How didn't I know that we talk all the time.LOL I am sorry to hear. He sounds like my ex-husband everything happened to that man. He is 43 and I am 31. We were together for almost 10 years. Anywy he had 2-3 surgery's for Crohn's disease and still has it. I got me a young man now. My BF will be 27 Mar 10th. I am robbing the craddle,LOL
On a serious note, I will say a prayer for your husband. I hope he gets better real soon and has a speedy recovery.. Good luck starting work, man I know that is going to be hard. Take care Liz.
Love, Rae
Hey Rae,
Yeah, Guess I never really went into the illnesses with my husband much. Just that I was using his meds for myself which hasn't been good. I could say well, it's his fault, he is the one that told me to try it a year ago. Would that be fair though? Tough, I'm saying it anyway, LOL. I have to relieve the guilt somehow. Anyway, I'm working hard at cutting back on them so he can have them. Not sure though if I want him to even stay on the meth, that stuff is wicked. He does need something for the pain he has or he can't function at all. Ok, So, I'm rambling.
But yeah, this with my husband has been going on for so long I guess we just excepted it. We know it's always a matter of time before he has to go back to the hospital either to be treated for infections or amputations. We almost expect he will lose his legs eventually too. Guess we pretty much blank it all out.
Anyway, I hope you enjoy the weekend. If I were in Florida I would be outside for sure.
Love,
Liz
Yeah, Guess I never really went into the illnesses with my husband much. Just that I was using his meds for myself which hasn't been good. I could say well, it's his fault, he is the one that told me to try it a year ago. Would that be fair though? Tough, I'm saying it anyway, LOL. I have to relieve the guilt somehow. Anyway, I'm working hard at cutting back on them so he can have them. Not sure though if I want him to even stay on the meth, that stuff is wicked. He does need something for the pain he has or he can't function at all. Ok, So, I'm rambling.
But yeah, this with my husband has been going on for so long I guess we just excepted it. We know it's always a matter of time before he has to go back to the hospital either to be treated for infections or amputations. We almost expect he will lose his legs eventually too. Guess we pretty much blank it all out.
Anyway, I hope you enjoy the weekend. If I were in Florida I would be outside for sure.
Love,
Liz
Hey there Rae, gotcha a young man huh? Now why didn't I think of that? I should have learned after the first time...but oh no, not me. Shame on you Rae for making me say stuff like that, my old man has been nice lately. (wink)
Hey there Liz, hang tight girl, sounds like you have a lot going on now. Remember, don't get too tired. You need me, I'm here. Love, Kat
Hey there Liz, hang tight girl, sounds like you have a lot going on now. Remember, don't get too tired. You need me, I'm here. Love, Kat
kat,
oh dont get ME started again on this man discussion :P hehehe
liz,
i posted to you on the g'morning thread regarding this. hang in there soldier your a trouper.
terrianne
oh dont get ME started again on this man discussion :P hehehe
liz,
i posted to you on the g'morning thread regarding this. hang in there soldier your a trouper.
terrianne
Hey Kat,
Yeah, I have an old man too. Mine is 51 this month. I'm 38 and probably feel older then he does though. LOL.
Hope you have a great weekend. You know I'm always here for you too. I probably won't be on here much next week. I know work will wipe me out. Then with visiting my husband at the hospital there just won't be much time. So, I will be here when I can.
Love,
Liz
Yeah, I have an old man too. Mine is 51 this month. I'm 38 and probably feel older then he does though. LOL.
Hope you have a great weekend. You know I'm always here for you too. I probably won't be on here much next week. I know work will wipe me out. Then with visiting my husband at the hospital there just won't be much time. So, I will be here when I can.
Love,
Liz
Hi Liz,
I'm really sorry to hear about your husband. Thats too bad that he has to have that surgery. You be strong. You'll both be in my prayers.
Love,
Marie
I'm really sorry to hear about your husband. Thats too bad that he has to have that surgery. You be strong. You'll both be in my prayers.
Love,
Marie
Hi Marie,
I haven't seen you in a while. How have you been? What have you been up to? Why aren't you here much anymore? lol
Love,
Liz
I haven't seen you in a while. How have you been? What have you been up to? Why aren't you here much anymore? lol
Love,
Liz
Hey Liz,
Just to let you know you're in my thoughts, good luck with your fella and of course good luck with work xxx you will be in my prayers and of course i'm sending ya loads of
((((((((((((((((((((((((POSATIVE VIBES)))))))))))))))))))))))))
Goodluck Liz, you are one strong chica
Love
Gabs
Just to let you know you're in my thoughts, good luck with your fella and of course good luck with work xxx you will be in my prayers and of course i'm sending ya loads of
((((((((((((((((((((((((POSATIVE VIBES)))))))))))))))))))))))))
Goodluck Liz, you are one strong chica
Love
Gabs
Hey Gabs,
Thank you so much. Yeah, I have to get my husband to the hospital today. I miss him already. I'm hoping this time though they correct what is causing these problems rather then just amputate. He's been in the hospital 93 times in a year and a half. Well, hope everyone has a great day. I will be starting work tomorrow so I'll be too busy and tired to really worry about anything.
Love,
Liz
Thank you so much. Yeah, I have to get my husband to the hospital today. I miss him already. I'm hoping this time though they correct what is causing these problems rather then just amputate. He's been in the hospital 93 times in a year and a half. Well, hope everyone has a great day. I will be starting work tomorrow so I'll be too busy and tired to really worry about anything.
Love,
Liz
Liz,
I will keeping your husband and you as well in my prayers........You hang in there ok and try not to worry to much.
Love,
Tina
I will keeping your husband and you as well in my prayers........You hang in there ok and try not to worry to much.
Love,
Tina
Hey Tina,
Thank you. I've also read what you have been going through being a spouse to an addict. I really never realized how hard it has to be on the other person. As you know we are selfish they say. The addiction just seems to be louder then our loved ones crying out sometimes. I think it's great though that you are sticking by your husbands side.If we didn't have anybody to count on then what would be the point? It's always my family driving me to want to do better.
Love,
Liz
Thank you. I've also read what you have been going through being a spouse to an addict. I really never realized how hard it has to be on the other person. As you know we are selfish they say. The addiction just seems to be louder then our loved ones crying out sometimes. I think it's great though that you are sticking by your husbands side.If we didn't have anybody to count on then what would be the point? It's always my family driving me to want to do better.
Love,
Liz
You keep that ever present Liz......That love of family. It is a great driving force! You know is really does work both ways no matter what the situation.....It is nice to know now that he is here now and present in all our lives if needed......
