hey everone,
i just want to say thank you so much for everyone who replyed. i am going through such a hard time. If you know m y story, good, im tired of repeating it. My dad said he was using oxys this time to help him sleep, meanwhile he has a prescription from the detox dr for a non-addicting sleeping aid that kicks his butt its so strong. so i think he is lying about hat..i hate doubting to my dad, but he has lied so much, i dontknow what to believe and what not!!! make sensse? He said starrting monday he sogned homswlf up fr IOP 5 days week for 7 hours a day, so i think he thinks he is on his way, i guarentee someone puts it in his face he wiull do it...sad to say. and b/c of this message board, i dodont know ot was laced w/heroin. i had no idea, and i told him that and of course he knew...i dont know, when we talk wetryy to steer away from this conversationn. i basocally ask how his day went, but we have lostthe daughter /fatrher bond. it is so depressing. he is my rock, and now it seems like im his rock......
scared daughter again and sad
nicole aka nikki c
Nikki,
What are you doing? I understand that you love your dad. I love my dad. But you've been through all this before with your dad. YOU CAN'T FIX HIM! Stop trying. Love him, but stop getting caught up in his problems. You have enough to worry about yourself. Focus on your little boy who needs you desperatly.
Shelly
What are you doing? I understand that you love your dad. I love my dad. But you've been through all this before with your dad. YOU CAN'T FIX HIM! Stop trying. Love him, but stop getting caught up in his problems. You have enough to worry about yourself. Focus on your little boy who needs you desperatly.
Shelly
Nikki you really love your dad, hope my daughter loves me as much, wish I could help you more, but a don't really know much about oxy's, but what I do is that I tried for years to try and get my gf of the H but it just did'nt understand much about the whole thing, and after a about 3 years I ended up starting to smoke it myself, before I met her I would never of taking it, but when I started seeing it so much it started to seem more and more exceptable should I say, and now I have been trying to get off it 4 5 years now.
Think a might be winning but you are right about how it's hard for you to believe your dad, I think at the start my gf made herself out to be worst than she was, and I would the take her to get H to make her better til we got help, but nothing seemed to work, she was play-in me the hole time, I know that now because I have now went though it all myself.
If you every need to chat, am here to help as much as I can.
Geoff.
Think a might be winning but you are right about how it's hard for you to believe your dad, I think at the start my gf made herself out to be worst than she was, and I would the take her to get H to make her better til we got help, but nothing seemed to work, she was play-in me the hole time, I know that now because I have now went though it all myself.
If you every need to chat, am here to help as much as I can.
Geoff.
