Hey Mickey,
I hope that things are well and that you both are doing good. How was your weekend? Ours was nice......we had some good talks and put some work into our relationship. Things have been good so far with it, but there are always those things that tend to get ignored......we worked on them......and concentrated on our feelings about the insanity of the last few months......Was nice to find some alone time, not to easy with 4 kids.
I got some info for you about sub in Canada.......A link was put up on Friday I didn't want you to miss it. http://www.pslgroup.com/dg/24a2a6.htm
Looks like they approved the use of sub........will be awhile but hell it is a step in the right direction......many people will be helped by this.
Well I am going back to cleaning, enough procrastinating this morning...lol
You take care.....
Tina
Hi Tina!
I had a great weekend thanks!
I'm glad you had a good one as well.
I'm feeling much better about his drug use (or I should say non-use). I'm pretty certain now that he is actually clean from his drug. Too many coincidental things have happened lately that have done nothing but prove the fact that he must be clean. Maybe someone is trying to show me to put me out of my non-detaching misery!! lol
Anyway, things are going really good and we've done a lot of talking too over the past week or so and it's done nothing but make things better and clearer.
So we just keep moving in the right direction.
He still hasn't seen his friend (the bad one) although they have talked, but definitely not as much as before and he seems to be seeing him in a different light which I am glad. I think he's starting to notice or acknowledge that he is a negative person in his life. I'm not saying anything - only listening. I know that I need him to come to this conclusion on his own and any pushing on my part will only put up defences to his friend in him.
That's great news about the Subutex in Canada!!! It will help so many people.
Thanks for the link!
Have a great night!
Take care,
Mickey
I had a great weekend thanks!
I'm glad you had a good one as well.
I'm feeling much better about his drug use (or I should say non-use). I'm pretty certain now that he is actually clean from his drug. Too many coincidental things have happened lately that have done nothing but prove the fact that he must be clean. Maybe someone is trying to show me to put me out of my non-detaching misery!! lol
Anyway, things are going really good and we've done a lot of talking too over the past week or so and it's done nothing but make things better and clearer.
So we just keep moving in the right direction.
He still hasn't seen his friend (the bad one) although they have talked, but definitely not as much as before and he seems to be seeing him in a different light which I am glad. I think he's starting to notice or acknowledge that he is a negative person in his life. I'm not saying anything - only listening. I know that I need him to come to this conclusion on his own and any pushing on my part will only put up defences to his friend in him.
That's great news about the Subutex in Canada!!! It will help so many people.
Thanks for the link!
Have a great night!
Take care,
Mickey
Mickey,
What are we going to have to do to get you to detach.......lol
I wonder if someone maybe is sending you a message. That it is time to worry about you and that he will be fine taking care of himself......I think it is that nuture thing that us women have.....We feel we must comfort, and take care of everyone. But of course we always forget ourselves in the mix. Even for me, I still see that I maybe doing more things that I love, but I catch myself making sure everyone else is taken care of first....Yeah I am working on that...I mean that baby needs me and must come first but the husband and older ones won't die if mommy takes and hour or 2 for her......It is a delicate balance being enjoying it all and seeming like your uncaring......
I have faith that you will get it. I think you may understand more than you think but it is the balance that may be holding you back.....not wanting to seem distant and uncaring......Somedays I wish this was all much easier.....that a lightbulb would just go off and we just get it all in one shot.....but you know just as humans we tend to over complicate things.......
Hope you are having a good day and that life keeps on treating you good.......
Don't forget to keep taking care of you......
Love,
Tina
What are we going to have to do to get you to detach.......lol
I wonder if someone maybe is sending you a message. That it is time to worry about you and that he will be fine taking care of himself......I think it is that nuture thing that us women have.....We feel we must comfort, and take care of everyone. But of course we always forget ourselves in the mix. Even for me, I still see that I maybe doing more things that I love, but I catch myself making sure everyone else is taken care of first....Yeah I am working on that...I mean that baby needs me and must come first but the husband and older ones won't die if mommy takes and hour or 2 for her......It is a delicate balance being enjoying it all and seeming like your uncaring......
I have faith that you will get it. I think you may understand more than you think but it is the balance that may be holding you back.....not wanting to seem distant and uncaring......Somedays I wish this was all much easier.....that a lightbulb would just go off and we just get it all in one shot.....but you know just as humans we tend to over complicate things.......
Hope you are having a good day and that life keeps on treating you good.......
Don't forget to keep taking care of you......
Love,
Tina
Tina- mysty eyes- my postings tonight are filled with cynisism and fierce protection for people not so involved but on the edge of entering this mahem. I want to talk to you but cant take personal emails back on that account. I will email you tonight.
jen
jen