Some reason why you locked my thread? You leave all of the inflammatory stuff on the board, horrible things that people say to eachother but you lock my thread? Why?
Respectfully
CG
Hi,
Same goes here too sometimes Cowgirl, I don't know why either............Bob
Same goes here too sometimes Cowgirl, I don't know why either............Bob
Lisa I was wondering the same thing.. How are you girl...??
Oppps,
lmao, I didn't realize Gina was still signed in!! ....Above was me........Bob
lmao, I didn't realize Gina was still signed in!! ....Above was me........Bob
Gee Bob what big lips you have.. and love that lipstick..LOL..
Good question, it looked okay to me.
It was just bob showing us his feminine side, Paula. lol, just kidding Bob. Love, Kat
lol,
Gina just smacked the back of my head! lmao..............Bob
Gina just smacked the back of my head! lmao..............Bob
Hi Kat and Paula,
I'll be back on later around 11pm if you guys wanna chat. Love ya's......Bob
I'll be back on later around 11pm if you guys wanna chat. Love ya's......Bob
Hey Gina good for you.. always give them a smack when you can that way it makes up for the time when they did something that you should have smacked them for and was not around..LOL
cool, Bob, I'll look for you. Hope you don't have a headache, lol. Love, Kat
See ya later Bob.... Hey lisa you still around..?? just wanted to know how you are doing.
CG:
As always, I related to your post. I don't understand why it was locked either but probably because the moderator's were afraid that personalities would seize upon an opportunity to unite and create an adversarial stance of attack. I wanted to say that in response to your post, as you know I have been coming here for almost a year. I have made some very good friends here that I respect and love. People who are on the same path as I. What I have seen here lately is truly disgusting. Lately, the posts have been more derogatory and negative than usual. It is so unnecessary. What I have learned here is that I have a life that is rich and full and when I am home sick, like I have been and on this board more than usual, even I get sucked into the negative drama and that totally appalls me because I know I have an incredible life. Without bravado, I too, will abstain from the seemingly toxic few who want and need this in there life...
As always, I related to your post. I don't understand why it was locked either but probably because the moderator's were afraid that personalities would seize upon an opportunity to unite and create an adversarial stance of attack. I wanted to say that in response to your post, as you know I have been coming here for almost a year. I have made some very good friends here that I respect and love. People who are on the same path as I. What I have seen here lately is truly disgusting. Lately, the posts have been more derogatory and negative than usual. It is so unnecessary. What I have learned here is that I have a life that is rich and full and when I am home sick, like I have been and on this board more than usual, even I get sucked into the negative drama and that totally appalls me because I know I have an incredible life. Without bravado, I too, will abstain from the seemingly toxic few who want and need this in there life...
Lisa, I related to what you said as well as you Rachel. When I got online this evening and read all that it was just so dissapointing. Why can't ammends be made and stay made? I would venture to bet that most people who come to this board would all like to see it peaceful and friendly. Is it impossible for the prejudice to certain groups of people, the sarcasm, the judgemental attitudes, the lack of compassion and forgiveness to just end? No one is happy with things this way so why can't a group decision be made to just stop it? Maybe that is too simplified, but it makes sense to me. Love, Kat
I totally agree with you guys,, and think that we should all agree to stop this and let it go away..
Im on board
"All aboard" This recovery ship is sailing!!! So either be nice and hop on with us or be mean and stay ashore, either way SOME of us are working our plans and want to come here for happy thoughts. It is nice to hear about happy stuff in people's life, nice to be able to comfort those who have relapsed, nice to be a part of a group that understands that being an addict doesnt make you a nasty person. In my case, my addiction was a result of pure ignorance, not informing myself of what it was going to take to get off of xanax. This board has supplied me with those resources and my plan is working.
I dont care if everyone on this entire board hates me... or loves me because I am here for one reason. TO HELP OTHERS THAT COME HERE FOR THE FIRST TIME SCARED OUT OF THEIR MINDS. That was the state I was in when I arrived here. Thank god I was heard and helped. Rather than walking into a room full of meaness. Had I, Im not real sure I would be where I am today in my recovery because I would have left before ever hearing what the good people had to say (i.e Ashton Manual).
"All aboard" This recovery ship is sailing!!! So either be nice and hop on with us or be mean and stay ashore, either way SOME of us are working our plans and want to come here for happy thoughts. It is nice to hear about happy stuff in people's life, nice to be able to comfort those who have relapsed, nice to be a part of a group that understands that being an addict doesnt make you a nasty person. In my case, my addiction was a result of pure ignorance, not informing myself of what it was going to take to get off of xanax. This board has supplied me with those resources and my plan is working.
I dont care if everyone on this entire board hates me... or loves me because I am here for one reason. TO HELP OTHERS THAT COME HERE FOR THE FIRST TIME SCARED OUT OF THEIR MINDS. That was the state I was in when I arrived here. Thank god I was heard and helped. Rather than walking into a room full of meaness. Had I, Im not real sure I would be where I am today in my recovery because I would have left before ever hearing what the good people had to say (i.e Ashton Manual).
