Took another day off to bring Sandy to the hospital. More tests- this time the cervical tests- these I think are some of the more important ones.
It seemed like she wanted to go through the ones that ,in the back of her mind, would be OK. This one is potentionally more scary.
The next series,>the lump on her breast tests are coming up. I know she isnt as comfortable with these as the intestinal ones.
Even though the intestinal results ,werent great,as polups had to be removed from her intestines.The lump in her breast frieghtens the Hell out of her.
I try to be supportive- but boy when she doesnt want to talk about it- -thats ,that!!! - end of conversation.
One thing at a time-
Thanks again for everyones concern
love
jack
Jack,
Love support and prayers I'll light a candle you may not believe but I will anyway.
karen
Love support and prayers I'll light a candle you may not believe but I will anyway.
karen
Hey Jack, thanks for keeping us all posted, don't remember if i have written to you before, but have been following your posts.
Hope that all the tests come back ok, and will be thinking of you and Sandy.
Take care and stay strong (the pair of you) x
Hope that all the tests come back ok, and will be thinking of you and Sandy.
Take care and stay strong (the pair of you) x
Dear Jack,
I can relate to how she feels. Talking about it makes her think about it more. It's easier to TRY to put it in the back of your mind. Even though you might not be successful, it seems to help me. I'm sure you'll be there for her whenever SHE decides she wants/needs to talk. Bless your heart! It's hard to feel like you're helping when you're dealing with that type of situation but know that you ARE just by being there for her. I'll keep the prayers coming!
Love,
Susan
I can relate to how she feels. Talking about it makes her think about it more. It's easier to TRY to put it in the back of your mind. Even though you might not be successful, it seems to help me. I'm sure you'll be there for her whenever SHE decides she wants/needs to talk. Bless your heart! It's hard to feel like you're helping when you're dealing with that type of situation but know that you ARE just by being there for her. I'll keep the prayers coming!
Love,
Susan
You two have such a great bond, Jack.
I'm sending prayers and positive vibes her way. Hopefully the tests won't be too extensive.
Tests stink. Worse than anything else I think. She has gone through so much.
Hang tight.
I'm sending prayers and positive vibes her way. Hopefully the tests won't be too extensive.
Tests stink. Worse than anything else I think. She has gone through so much.
Hang tight.
Jack my friend ..my thoughts will be with yourself&Sandy in such a trying&uncertain time.All the very best as ever....Davey
Jack you are such a sweetheart. She sounds like a tough cookie, but deep down, none of us are that tough. I'm glad she's got you, coz you are so loving and supportive, she'll never feel lonely. She'll never feel like she's got to cope with this all on her own. Whatever the future brings, having a loving hand to hold will take you both a long way.
You're gorgeous Jack, and never forget it!
all my love
Diff xxxxxxxxx
You're gorgeous Jack, and never forget it!
all my love
Diff xxxxxxxxx
Jack I will say a prayer for you and your family, You do not know me, but I follow you and others on the board. I am on Meth also for many years, Regards, Billy D train
