hi everyone im sitting here feeling crazy do i stay or do i go ive left my boyfriend of 2 yrs 3 times do to the lying of his addiction i know the roller coaster ride but what do you do if you love the person not the addict? i know the person is the addict... i have been trying to support and i have just joined a support group called family anonomous its great but how do i take care of me when i am so worried for my love??????
I have the same situation and I am having a tough time. I am depressed most of the time, and even when I am having a good time I am still not as happy as I should be. If you are living with this guy it will be even harder I am sure. You will have to watch it all the time. My boyfriend makes repeated failed attempts to quit on his own and it is impossible for him to do so that way. I have been with him for 5 years and will probably leave in October if he has not gone into a program. Good for you for getting into this group. Where do you find it?