I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR OVER A YEAR.WOW WHAT A GREAT GUY UNTIL HE WAS USING METH BEHIND MY BACK.I NOTICED A CHANGE IN HIM.HE WAS MEAN,IRRATAED,COMPLUSIVE,NERVOUS,PARNOID...HE WAS A DEMON WHE HE WAS ON IT..ANYWAYS HE NEVER WOULD ADMIT TO ME ANYTHING WAS WRONG..ONE DAY HE TOLD ME HE HAS BEEN ADDICTED TO METH MOST OF HIS LIFE..HE WAS CLEAN WHEN WE MET BUT GOT BACK ON IT..I LOVED THIS GUY SO DEEPLY..I TRUSTED HIM..NOW THAT IS ALL GONE.I LOOK AT HIM DIFFERENT..HE SAID HE WAS GOING TO STOP..STARTING GOING TO NA MEETING..BUT THINGS WEREN'T THE SAME SO I DID WHAT WAS BEST FOR ME I BROKE UP WITH HIM..DID I DO THE RIGHT THING?I FEEL LIKE I LEFT HIM WHEN HE NEEDED ME MOST..BUT I'M SO HURT AND FEEL BETRAYED!PLEASE HELP....
You absolutely did the right thing. You did not cause his addiction nor can you control or fix it. Don't let him manipulate you into thinking you can make him better.
You have done the right thing - especially before things got too much deeper. My b/f of three years started speed again after 3 months of us being together. I stayed with him as I adore the person he is when he is straight and I just kept thinking I can help him and we have to stay together because I love him. We had a baby together and things got a millions times worse, no money, he hocked everything we owned. I finally walked out on him. It waqs thhe hardest thing ever to do, he still throws at me that I could of helped but I now no not to listen. He has gone away noe for rehab for at least 6months. Ypu did the right thing as I did, because as long as you are there and I ws there he continued doing drugs. Your b/f and my b/f have to want to stop.
Stay strong and keep reading posts, this website is the main reason why I had the courage to leave.
Stay strong and keep reading posts, this website is the main reason why I had the courage to leave.
so glad u left too.. i have been strong girl..and it's been almost 2 months that i broke up with him..i have not taken calls or seen him it's hurts but ya know what i am free and alot happier i am moving forward and so are u..i am usually in the families and friends room..that might help u girl bye look for me peace!
You did the only thing you could do. REmember, YOU CANNOT SAVE HIM. He has to want to be rescued from this, and as in my case, sometimes the only thing that shows someone the problem, is loosing everything
AMEN SERENA I AGREE HAVE A GREAT DAY :) GOD BLESS TORI
