Hi,my hus is a weed smoker an have been since before I met him
hes gonna be 32 this yr an weve been together for 16 yrs an have
3 adorable kids.My problem is tho he has a very
very bad temper,if he smokes hes calm but
if he doesnt he gets angry,sometimes im so scared
no physical abuse tho but the mental abuse
we are small business owners in the caribbean
I just needed someone to talk to cause I have no one
he doesnt speak to my relatives cause they had a
dispute earlier this month,our kids study hard
an are so loving,he sees bout them an me but throws in
my face what he does for me not the kids what to
do?should I get a job an leave? Idk what to do..when hes calm hes
the most loving person. .
Candice,
You have to make your decisions based on thinking that nothing is going to change. You have absolutely NO power to change your husband. And it has nothing to do with how much he loves or does not love you or your children. He may or may not have an addiction I don't know. But for you, and your family, you need to decide if this is something you can live with. If you can't then you will be miserable and you should leave him. If you can live with it, then you'll have to find a way to accept his behavior. Either way I really strongly suggest that you look into an alanon program. They could really help you.
Juney
You have to make your decisions based on thinking that nothing is going to change. You have absolutely NO power to change your husband. And it has nothing to do with how much he loves or does not love you or your children. He may or may not have an addiction I don't know. But for you, and your family, you need to decide if this is something you can live with. If you can't then you will be miserable and you should leave him. If you can live with it, then you'll have to find a way to accept his behavior. Either way I really strongly suggest that you look into an alanon program. They could really help you.
Juney
