I know this is totally irrelavent but after all I have been through my neighbour has decided to start gving me sh*t and am so sick and tired of this. I try to live a normal happy life and so many people are making things difficult for me. I am living in a 1 bedroom upstairs flat with my partner and my daughter and am currently waiting patiently to be moved out of here without success as yet. We have a shared entrance and a yard which is totally unsafe for my daughter. For those who have read my posts before my partner is a heroin addict and I have been to hell and back over the last few months before I found out what the problem was. My daughter has been on and off ill since November last year and the last 2 weeks I have been back and forth to the docs with her and she wont leave my side. I bought her a rabbit to chear her up a little and now the f*cking old woman downstairs is bitching and moaning at my partner saying he is taking over the flats. How can she begrudge my lil girl a bunny??? I have cried my eyes out 2nite cos I am sck and tired of it all and there is nothing that I can do. She has complained to the council and we are probably going to have to get rid of the rabbit now cos no pets allowed in shared entrance accomadation. My partner works all hours god sends and I am the only one who cleans the landing and stairs outside of all the flats etc and she is giving us a seriously hard time. I have tried to just ignore it but with everything else that is going out I feel like I am going to crack up, I cant have a go at her cos she is nearly 80 yrs old, What the hell am I going to do? I feel like everyone just sucks the life out of me and I aint got no decent friends who I can trust and the friends I do have just take take take from me!! My partner is a heroin addict and my mum just spends her life sucking my step dads a*se.
Sorry for my moan and no its nothing to do with heroin but I no you guys who post on here and thought I would have a moan.
Thanks for reading. Love BunnyRocker xx
Dry those tears my dear.......poor BR........you're going through it.
Well most 80 year old ladies well they can be grumpy.......not all of course, but we've all encountered them.......I'm from the school of treating my elders with respect........no matter what.........but I hear ya, BR.
Any way to have a chat with her........let her know your daughter was ill, and you're in a bad time right now.......and ya plan on keeping the bunny only for a short time.........I'm not a liar, but ya could tell her you are babysitting it........and the owners are on a vacation........anything to keep her chill.
No doubt she got her own misery, BR.......heck I don't ver want to be 80......and no you can't have no row with her.......you'll get locked up for assault on an elderly woman.......LOL......that won't settle well in the hole.
Hang on honey.........hang on.......maybe ya can sweep for her or carry her groceries or something..........I know ya'd like to crack some eggs over her head, but human kindness always wins out.....hope today was better.
Well most 80 year old ladies well they can be grumpy.......not all of course, but we've all encountered them.......I'm from the school of treating my elders with respect........no matter what.........but I hear ya, BR.
Any way to have a chat with her........let her know your daughter was ill, and you're in a bad time right now.......and ya plan on keeping the bunny only for a short time.........I'm not a liar, but ya could tell her you are babysitting it........and the owners are on a vacation........anything to keep her chill.
No doubt she got her own misery, BR.......heck I don't ver want to be 80......and no you can't have no row with her.......you'll get locked up for assault on an elderly woman.......LOL......that won't settle well in the hole.
Hang on honey.........hang on.......maybe ya can sweep for her or carry her groceries or something..........I know ya'd like to crack some eggs over her head, but human kindness always wins out.....hope today was better.
Thanks Bryn,
Where I come from I was tought to respect my elders also (hence not saying anything to her). She just keeps attacking my partner with her nasty words. She actually said hello to me the other week but through gritted teeth. Dont know why she aint saying anything about it to me cos if she did then I would explain bout my daughter!
Anyway all I can do is sit patiently and wait for a move and in the meantime I will be nice to her, after all she is an old lady with her own stresses.
Am a nice person really you no, always giving people the benefit of the doubt but I suppose thats whats getting me down cos everyone is out to take take take. My boyfriend said I will learn one day and I will never have anything if I keep letting them take but I enjoy making people happy even thought it is starting to suck the life out of me!
Anyway got to drag my head back up and stay strong and patient. If I can get through this problem with my partner and heroin I can take on anything eh?
Thanks for your advise Bryn.
Take care...Lyndsay aka BunnyRocker xx
Where I come from I was tought to respect my elders also (hence not saying anything to her). She just keeps attacking my partner with her nasty words. She actually said hello to me the other week but through gritted teeth. Dont know why she aint saying anything about it to me cos if she did then I would explain bout my daughter!
Anyway all I can do is sit patiently and wait for a move and in the meantime I will be nice to her, after all she is an old lady with her own stresses.
Am a nice person really you no, always giving people the benefit of the doubt but I suppose thats whats getting me down cos everyone is out to take take take. My boyfriend said I will learn one day and I will never have anything if I keep letting them take but I enjoy making people happy even thought it is starting to suck the life out of me!
Anyway got to drag my head back up and stay strong and patient. If I can get through this problem with my partner and heroin I can take on anything eh?
Thanks for your advise Bryn.
Take care...Lyndsay aka BunnyRocker xx
Hey BR,
How goes it with the neighbor...........you are a nice person.......don't change for anyone on this earth........there's that saying:
"Don't mistake my kindness for weakness"
I understand where you're coming from......I'm the same way......only once to twice racked over by someone I go the about face and do the old "People all s*c$ and I ain't being nice ever again".........hahaha......but ya know what? That's on us........this is a positive thing........just need to be looking out for ourselves first.
Stay who ya are.......just have a good lookout first....radar and all. I hope I ain't never gonna be some old person all mean.........no way.
How goes it with the neighbor...........you are a nice person.......don't change for anyone on this earth........there's that saying:
"Don't mistake my kindness for weakness"
I understand where you're coming from......I'm the same way......only once to twice racked over by someone I go the about face and do the old "People all s*c$ and I ain't being nice ever again".........hahaha......but ya know what? That's on us........this is a positive thing........just need to be looking out for ourselves first.
Stay who ya are.......just have a good lookout first....radar and all. I hope I ain't never gonna be some old person all mean.........no way.
Hey,
Things are ok. We aint seen her about for a while but I think she is also avoiding us. Good thing if you ask me!!
Went to the council yesterday and was almost in tears explaining that we are waiting patiently for a move but people are making things difficult. Apparently there is 2 houses coming up in the next few weeks and we have a very good chance of getting one so fingers crossed that this patience is paid off eh? I hope so.
See the thing is my daughter has to share a room with us and if its not us waking her up she wakes us up and she dont sleep good to start with. I cant wait till she gets her own room and I can throw one of them blackout curtains up...hee hee then she will sleep. As soon as its daylight she is up and ready to go for the next day. Pheewwww I am exhausted.
Thanks for checking on me.
I will stay a good person and take it to my grave one day (hopefully not too soon) and I will die a happier person! My partner keeps saying to me dont let people take take take, treat them as they treat you but I just CANT!! I am sorry but I cant be as cruel, greedy and dam unthoughtfull and unconsiderate as them! I may not have good friends but they still care. I only wish I had atleast one friend who I could turn to in my needs. Atleast I still have the people on here.
Lyndsay xx
Things are ok. We aint seen her about for a while but I think she is also avoiding us. Good thing if you ask me!!
Went to the council yesterday and was almost in tears explaining that we are waiting patiently for a move but people are making things difficult. Apparently there is 2 houses coming up in the next few weeks and we have a very good chance of getting one so fingers crossed that this patience is paid off eh? I hope so.
See the thing is my daughter has to share a room with us and if its not us waking her up she wakes us up and she dont sleep good to start with. I cant wait till she gets her own room and I can throw one of them blackout curtains up...hee hee then she will sleep. As soon as its daylight she is up and ready to go for the next day. Pheewwww I am exhausted.
Thanks for checking on me.
I will stay a good person and take it to my grave one day (hopefully not too soon) and I will die a happier person! My partner keeps saying to me dont let people take take take, treat them as they treat you but I just CANT!! I am sorry but I cant be as cruel, greedy and dam unthoughtfull and unconsiderate as them! I may not have good friends but they still care. I only wish I had atleast one friend who I could turn to in my needs. Atleast I still have the people on here.
Lyndsay xx
Anytime, Bunny Girlie Girl........oh no way......all that up and down all night long.
That's worse than just getting no sleep at all.......and oh they are up and raring to go sans nap all day long........I feel for ya.
Take care dear, BR.
That's worse than just getting no sleep at all.......and oh they are up and raring to go sans nap all day long........I feel for ya.
Take care dear, BR.
