hi der! dont know much about dis never done it before, but ye have to start somewere sick of dis s*** ruining my life, wish it would just go away! so if der is anyone wit some adive id be geatfull plezzzzz!....
..Alright Sabri..Welcome to the board..
..You aint said much about yaself regarding your usage ( How much you use,How often , etc etc)..maybe if you can let us know a bit more about yaself we can try give ya the support/advice ya need..but i can say that your probably on the best recovery site on the internet..and ya have made the first step by asking for help for ya addiction..Robbie..
..You aint said much about yaself regarding your usage ( How much you use,How often , etc etc)..maybe if you can let us know a bit more about yaself we can try give ya the support/advice ya need..but i can say that your probably on the best recovery site on the internet..and ya have made the first step by asking for help for ya addiction..Robbie..
Robbie is rite hun, you need to say more and also this site is fantastic. I dont have an addiction but my partner does and the help, support and advise I have recieved is great and you have done well to ask for help. These guys/gals are great.
Love BunnyRocker xx
Love BunnyRocker xx
Alright..Sabri..stick around and as Robbie&BR...said tell us a bit more bout yer addiction...do that coz there is a wealth of clued up addicts on this board...willing to help ya out.
Take care..........Davey
Take care..........Davey
Hey Sabri,
How ya doing today?
Holler back at us, K?
How ya doing today?
Holler back at us, K?
hi der tanks for replying to me! wel im on herion! hate even saying it but yous are de only ones im saying it to wen i should be saying it to my family but i just cant! ive being on it a while now wel back on it like i was on it a couple of years ago told my family and i done a detox in a clinic was doing great got totally clean and was clean for over a year an den met a friend and decided to go for a smoke wit her and before i new i was back to square one again! dats why i cant tel anyone cause ive let dem down and myself big time!!..
Hi Sabri,
Speaking as a partner of an addict I really advise you to confide in your family and tell them the truth. My partner lied to me for months and now we have a trust issue. I am helping him now and am more understanding but there is a trust issue because there was so many lies to start with. I always ask what if he would of told me from the start then he wouldnt of got into this so deep. Am sure your family will be slightly dissapointed but a relapse is normal and am sure they will understand and be willing to help you and gratefull that you could turn to them!!
I just think to lie to them will push them away from you when they eventually find out the truth because trust me they will. They will notice the signs.
Speak to a local drugs worker in your area and they will arrange to meet you then they will work alomgside your doctor and get you onto subbies but you have to be 100% sure that your going to stick to it because as soon as you abuse the subbies or start using again they wont help you again...thats why they build up a trust with you first!
Only my advise but looking from the other side my opinion is to be honest, because one thing I have learnt about addicts, they will tell you what you want to hear when infact all we want to hear is the truth and when we find out the truth it hurts more that we have been lied to!!
Your choice babe but I hope all works out for ya!! Take care.
Love BunnyRocker xx
Speaking as a partner of an addict I really advise you to confide in your family and tell them the truth. My partner lied to me for months and now we have a trust issue. I am helping him now and am more understanding but there is a trust issue because there was so many lies to start with. I always ask what if he would of told me from the start then he wouldnt of got into this so deep. Am sure your family will be slightly dissapointed but a relapse is normal and am sure they will understand and be willing to help you and gratefull that you could turn to them!!
I just think to lie to them will push them away from you when they eventually find out the truth because trust me they will. They will notice the signs.
Speak to a local drugs worker in your area and they will arrange to meet you then they will work alomgside your doctor and get you onto subbies but you have to be 100% sure that your going to stick to it because as soon as you abuse the subbies or start using again they wont help you again...thats why they build up a trust with you first!
Only my advise but looking from the other side my opinion is to be honest, because one thing I have learnt about addicts, they will tell you what you want to hear when infact all we want to hear is the truth and when we find out the truth it hurts more that we have been lied to!!
Your choice babe but I hope all works out for ya!! Take care.
Love BunnyRocker xx
Hi Sabri,
Bunnyrocker is right. I am not an addict but my son is. He was clean for a year after rehab. Started a Suboxone program when he felt like he was slipping back. He then began missing appointments, got kicked out of the program and began using again. I suspected he was using and inside I knew. He lied, stole from me etc... I finally confronted him on Tuesday last week when I discovered all of my jewelry was gone and he said "mom, I need help." He is now on his 6th day of Detox at home and doing well. He too said he was afraid of disappointing me and letting me down even though he wanted to tell me. I would have given anything to have him come to me rather than go back to using. The only thing I am disappointed about is that he didn't come to me, instead he choose to use, lie and steal. Tell your family and rid yourself and them of the lies.
Bunnyrocker is right. I am not an addict but my son is. He was clean for a year after rehab. Started a Suboxone program when he felt like he was slipping back. He then began missing appointments, got kicked out of the program and began using again. I suspected he was using and inside I knew. He lied, stole from me etc... I finally confronted him on Tuesday last week when I discovered all of my jewelry was gone and he said "mom, I need help." He is now on his 6th day of Detox at home and doing well. He too said he was afraid of disappointing me and letting me down even though he wanted to tell me. I would have given anything to have him come to me rather than go back to using. The only thing I am disappointed about is that he didn't come to me, instead he choose to use, lie and steal. Tell your family and rid yourself and them of the lies.
