Need To Stop

i have been smoking weed for about 3 years and i have moved in with some mates that smoke it too my dad died about 3 months ago so i have been smoking it ALOT!! i have had enogh of feeling unconfident and just plain stupid has any one got any advice that may help me to stop.alix_korn@yahoo.com
good morning wayne,
good for you, you've made the right decision. Myself, I'm only 4 days clean, but this board and all the great people will really help. their really understanding and have helped me out, just by having someone to talk to. and they can give you some really good advice. my biggest problem is boredom, trying to figure out what to do with my time that I used to gt high. It'll be ok, read through all the post and there alot of good suggestions. good luck and god bless.

bubba
wayne,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was so out of this am i guess i didnt fully catch averything you had wrote. I can totally understand where your coming from.
I lost my dad when I was 16, statetroppers came to my school and told me cause the couldn't find my mom or brother that fateful day, then a preacher and i went home and had to tell my mom after she got home..........well enough of bad memories, i started smokin full time that day and have only been able to quit once in 24 years, and that was only for six months, and i know thats not what my father would want. again wayne , your doing the right thing. please don't let your loss be the driving force behind your habit.
Trust me, IT DOES NOT WORK!! It don't take away the pain it only prolongs it and keeps you from actually dealing with your feelings. and besides the longer you smoke the harder it is to quit.honestly I'm probably the last one that should be giving advice, since i'm only 4 days clean now. but I cant even begin to tell you how much this board and the great people on here has helped me.
they support me and encourage me and they all give me someone to look up to.
not to metion, it occupies my time that i used to waste getting high.
keep posting and reading man....YOU CAN DO IT!

BUBBA