Hi all,
Hoping to find some solace here tonight.
After about a year of speculation it has been confirmed that my beautiful sister is a meth addict.
Im still in shock. I dont know how it happened. Or why she even went down that road.
Shes gone from being wonderful mother, wealthy, happy and healthy to a broke, homeless, neglectful parent that resembles a skeleton.
Mostly I feel completely heartbroken for her young children who are no longer in her care and that she seems just fine with not seeing them. She didnt even visit christmas day. Imagine not even bothering to see your babies on christmas. It makes me cry even now.
As a family we've all been through the circles of lies and tears. One day shes wanting help and wanting her kids back and her life back together then the next is she disappears for days on end.
I feel like we will never get her back and someone else has to raise her children which i find is just incredibly sad and unfair.
We would do anything for her. Pay for any counselling or rehab. Anything. And god knows we have tried to help her but she just wont take it.
Is there anything we can do or just sit back and watch her live this way? How does anyone get over this or accept this with someone they love?
Im scared that one day we'll be telling the kids that she has died.
if and when she is ready to be helped she will let you know in the mean time let her go.. dont interfere in her life its nasty life of addition , anything can happen so take care of your family and dont get involved ..I would rather try to help her children , they are innocent , they didnt ask for any of this, my heart goes out to them
I appreciate the reply. It is hard to let her go and do her own thing. Right now we dont know where she is. Has been gone for days. Who knows if shes dead or alive.
You are right about the children. They are safe and they are loved. They should be the main focus. Addiction is cruel for everyone involved.
Thank you and i hope you are well.
You are right about the children. They are safe and they are loved. They should be the main focus. Addiction is cruel for everyone involved.
Thank you and i hope you are well.
