Ok don't know if its cuz I feel brave now or what...but I just had a screaming fit at my sister in law.........
my brother and I were very close along with my 17 yo.who would spend 3 to 4 months a year at the ranch since he was like 11, well we grew up in an abusive family.well it went down a generation to my brother who abused Kyle ( that is when he got really hooked into pot) so all hell broke lose 2 years ago and needles to say we stooped being family, my brother kept calling tryin gto ask for forgiveness, but as a mom I was not willing to forgive him for hurting my son.........Until one day Kyle came to me and asked me to let it go mom.the enger is gonna kill ya.
well this week end my sister in law said that they would NEVER be here for thanksgiving.which my brother and I have done together for the last 9 years.so that hurt.,.....well I called her about it today, just to let her know how important it was fo rme to spend that time with my brother and would love to spend it with hid new family..............she had the nerve to say well how am I too know what you guys use to do???
Since YOU hurt your brother so bad, I didn't relize it mattered to you........oh my I let it fly!!!!!!!!!!!big time....without going into detail about what happened....I just said excuse me hun.I hurt my brother.............well hun he HURT my son, in turn he hurt me and yes my mouth hurt him.you wanna know the full story..she said no....
I finally calmed down and said I was sorry but chit........don't say something like that to me unless you know th efull truth...and don't ever try and take my brother from me again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
now I feel bad and have a headache.,LOL
sorry to hear that you lost your temper...hopefully it will help that you got to blow off this steam and your family will understand
Hey sorry to hear that you lost it,but honestly I think you had a right.Now that you blew up just try to let that hurt & anger go.I only say that because its done you said what you felt you needed to.If you keep holding onto it its only going to make you feel like crap more.So with that sais go give your son a hug & thank God you have him.Those bad feelings should pass....mj
I have to say I feel much better now that all is said and done.I am awaiting a call from my brother though.LMAO unless little sis in law is to embarressed to tell him some of the things that she had said.......
ok time to finish my hunny do's since hunny is almost home.........gotta look like I been buzy all day.hehehehhehe
ok time to finish my hunny do's since hunny is almost home.........gotta look like I been buzy all day.hehehehhehe
Good luck talking it out with your brother....mj
