Ok you moms of teenage boys or older...............I need some help.and yes I have toay I laugh and cry now.....my 19 yo son who has moved has a best friend who is a girl.....she is living with her folks and going to EMt school............great girl...........I also have a 17 yo who is also great friends with her...she is here alot...well Thursady night I heard the shower going at 9 PM thinking my 17 was in it.....at 10:30 pm he comes into to tell me she had just left...Then tonight I find KY ch*8 in his room..YIKES what do I do and say...........
I started providing condoms to mine when they were 16 1/2...I wasn't condoning the fact that they were having sex, but I also didn't want them to get a girl pregnant. Let me add here, and also to protect them from diseases.
In my opinion, there's not much you can do, if they are going to have sex, they are going to do it, whether it's parking or under your nose. I just try to keep them prepared, because they don't need to be daddies at their age.
Some will not agree with me, but this is the way I've handled it.
In my opinion, there's not much you can do, if they are going to have sex, they are going to do it, whether it's parking or under your nose. I just try to keep them prepared, because they don't need to be daddies at their age.
Some will not agree with me, but this is the way I've handled it.
Oh girl, I have two sons 21 and 16 and two step sons 23 and 17. Everyone is different about this subject, but I sat mine down and told them the plain old facts and told them that if they got a girl pregnant that it was forever and really expensive and I also told them that if they got a disease that it could also be forever and be deadly. After that, I told them that I knew all too well that having sex was human nature and that I could not stop them from doing it but if they were going to do it that they damn well better carry a condom with them at all times and I went out and bought a sack full and they sit next to my back door in a secret little box so they can grab one everytime they step foot outside. So far, so good, I've put in an order for grandchildren when I turn 50, so I've got 11 years to go. Now, lets just see if all of my kids can hold up to their end of the bargain and give me the perfect 50th birthday gift. I'm not holding my breath though. Those dang boys have raging and I mean raging hormones. Good Luck.
I have made sure mine had condoms long before this outta safety and not beginning daddy's but this is differnet.this is with both of my boys best friend..which is a girl.I kinda feel like I should say something to her...but then I feel I should say something to my 17 yo.cuz she has been my 19 yo for a few years more
Oh by the way...my 19 yo has already had the "pg" scare...he was so afraid to tell me about it. cuz he knew how I preached the safe sex thing...( with a different girl, and she( his best friend I am talking about knew all of it)....I have to say once he told me and we talked....we have become so much closer now, that is why I sit and cry cuz I know how it is gonna hurt him if he knows his brother is doing his best friend... that is why I have no clue what to do.I have 3 things I know I should do , but what do I really do???
Well, if you are going to sit one down then I personally think that you should sit both the girl and the boy down at the same time and talk to them both as though they were adults. No need to single one of them out, it took two on this one. Plus, maybe they just wanted you to think that they were best friends all of this time but maybe not, chit happens. My daughter would never sleep with her male friends that are some of her best friends and I've just begged her to date one of them and she won't even have that. There you go, use reverse psychology on them. Tell them that you think that they should start seeing each other and act like you love that girl more than anything and you want her to marry your son and honey, that will run em off everytime. That marriage talk scares my kids to death. Now I can't even get them out of the house, I don't know what is worse.
that one is a toughy...geez...
maybe you need to talk to the younger one and tell him to tell the older one...may start a family feud, but better that he hear it from his bro than you...in my opinion
maybe you need to talk to the younger one and tell him to tell the older one...may start a family feud, but better that he hear it from his bro than you...in my opinion
I have my daughter on a GPS unit.
LMAO..well she ain't at my house I promise!!!!!!!!!!
thats what I was thinking. I just called my hun who is not home right now, he says to talk to the 17 and her, and have them figure out where they are, cus my 19 yo is coming down here for xmas and taking her to dinner./and god knows what after........I am just having a hard time knowing there are so many girls in this world, and my boys fall for the same one.......GO FIGURE!!!!!!!!!
thats what I was thinking. I just called my hun who is not home right now, he says to talk to the 17 and her, and have them figure out where they are, cus my 19 yo is coming down here for xmas and taking her to dinner./and god knows what after........I am just having a hard time knowing there are so many girls in this world, and my boys fall for the same one.......GO FIGURE!!!!!!!!!
lmao...that's a good one Jeff!
Oh dayum, I didn't know that your older son was in like with this girl too. If he wasn't I was going to tell you that heck, he probably already knows what his little brother is doing. I'm telling you, it is time to sit them both down and talk to them and then let your boys and the girl deal with your oldest son. Stay out of it with breaking the news to your oldest son. You didn't do or ask for this now let the little one that thinks he is a man handle his business with his brother all by himself. Give him and adult, reality check.
Hey Pam,
I wanted to see how you were feeling, hope this conversation is good for both of us, cuz believe me I could go for a shot right now..........Kyle is working but have been calling my hun about every hour or so........I think the only reason I don't go now is cuz its dark..........such a chiken here
I wanted to see how you were feeling, hope this conversation is good for both of us, cuz believe me I could go for a shot right now..........Kyle is working but have been calling my hun about every hour or so........I think the only reason I don't go now is cuz its dark..........such a chiken here
Oh Pam I have been thinking about calling the older one, only cus the younger one admitted....but god forbid I break his heart............we went thru this when they were in 10th and 8th grade to get the older ones attention.....then it mellowed out.......but now it has peaked its head AGIAN....( LMAO......no comment)......scares me......or am I just beiing a mom......
Well, it looks like the Immodium kicked in cause I must be feeling pretty good or I wouldn't be here posting away.
What kind of "shot" do you want honey. I have a big ole vile of B-12 over here that I could send my hun over to give you a shot of......lmao
Ah, chill out on this one, it'll all work out the way it was intended. Like I said, talk to your son and the girl and let them handle the older brother. They started this chit, now let them finish it. Mom and Dad can't bail them out forever, so this looks like a good starting point for you all. Give that 17 year old some responsibility of his own.
Leave it to Jeff, LMAO, GPS system. I told ya'll he was a New York police officer. He's just lost his way and ended up in Miami.
What kind of "shot" do you want honey. I have a big ole vile of B-12 over here that I could send my hun over to give you a shot of......lmao
Ah, chill out on this one, it'll all work out the way it was intended. Like I said, talk to your son and the girl and let them handle the older brother. They started this chit, now let them finish it. Mom and Dad can't bail them out forever, so this looks like a good starting point for you all. Give that 17 year old some responsibility of his own.
Leave it to Jeff, LMAO, GPS system. I told ya'll he was a New York police officer. He's just lost his way and ended up in Miami.
Oh Gawd don't need the officer at my house.....I really promise she is not here.....
A demerol shot, ..I was gonna go for a toradol and demeral, but didn't do it.
I took my B-12 before the Lacrosse game, I know if I sit to long I hurt, so I need to keep moving..Energy is picking up everyday
I am just such a pansy when it comes to hurting
A demerol shot, ..I was gonna go for a toradol and demeral, but didn't do it.
I took my B-12 before the Lacrosse game, I know if I sit to long I hurt, so I need to keep moving..Energy is picking up everyday
I am just such a pansy when it comes to hurting
Oh btw Pam I have B.O.B to keep my bed warm well my hun is gone.yours can stay home.but thanks....
LOL
At least mine doesn't fall asleep on me.LMAO
LOL
At least mine doesn't fall asleep on me.LMAO
lmao
gotta love B.O.B.
gotta love B.O.B.
ROFLMAO
was hoping others would get a laugh,,,,, after the ch** tonight with my kids I needed a laugh.called hun to say I mised him.but you guys have become my friends overthe last month...........I just hate the fighting hope it all has stopped
for now it has....who knows what the next minute brings?
