Pain

Pain Pills
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Seems to me that many of you have caused real pain to others and it is not easy to "let it go". It is so obvious that many of you want to outdo the other in as subtle or obvious way as you can. Please know that it just makes all of you look foolish and transparent. Get on with life. I would never give myself to this board based on the mean spiritedness of so many and Im sure based on those who just read and those who actually post, Im not the only one. Youve done a good job in proving how "cool" you can all be. Feel good? I wonder if any of you can ever truly move on.
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You first....
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Liz, just what are you saying?
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You want people to move on, but you keep posting about stuff going on here instead of leaving it alone and just moving on.

I've seen other post of yours that made good sense, like everybody should have the same respect on this board as anybody in the 12 step program. I think because a few women were having some fun joking around about being cool isn't a real big deal. If you have noticed, that same group reaches out to the new comers and trys to help "everyone", Not just those that they are close to.

You seem to have a problem about the joking about the cool thing? If so, well, just move on.
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Might as well save your breath Donna you are dealing with mental midgets..They treat everthing as a joke and take great delight in others misery.Then they flatter themselves thinking they have the wisdom or ability to help anyone.Thats the real joke
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Oh Please,

Another fool on the board, Damn, where did you come from? Why not use your real name?
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Liz, I have no problem with the "cool" thing in particular - its EVERYthing that ends up being just plain mean. I post RARELY but when I do its in the hopes some may recognize they are not impressing anyone and turning off many. Im entitled to post as I see, just as you are. I dont hurt anyone though. Can you say the same? Now and then I do pick up some enforcing words of wisdom, mostly though its just weeding through the posts so as not to get bogged down with the crap. I guess you had your share of wreaking havoc and so you dont care to hear anyone elses feelings. Doesnt work that way. As said in my first post, when people get hurt they cant simply move on. Will those here ever get that? Or do they simply get pleasure out of it. Jeff was right. Disease is rampant but there are those of us who think (probably wrongly) that it can be dealt with and cured. Im not interested in going t** for tat with you or anyone here. Im simply asking AGAIN to realize the audience you are playing in front of is not happy with the performance.
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hmmmm...just when was it "justlurkin" did you reach out to any of the newcomers, and help anyone?. I don't seem to recall that happening very often, in fact I have never seen you do it. In fact, I only see you respond to the drama threads so you maybe you should re-evaluate your perception of the board. You know, take those rose colored glasses off. So, I think you owe Liz an apology. She helps everyone, and puts the well being of others in front of her own.
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Just lurkin that is my phrase. I have a patent on it.

Liz Joking ? seems like at least one addict that I nknow is hurting from all of this.

I thought that and tell me if I am incorrect an apology from someone named Tim. Who I do not know what he said except that it wasAWFUL BUT he apologized. Accepted.? The other person Cowgirlapologized accepted?

Then Tim said he was leaving--O,K--Then tim is coming back --Great --cool

What am I missing? Can we drop all of this?

Please fill me in if I am incorrect please

Jeff
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Jeff,

What goes on with Cowgirl and Tim is none of my business or yours...Why do you feel the need to get involved in everything on here? For real, you play part of the problem all the time when you get in the middle of things everytime. Jeez
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How is a bunch of women joking around about being cool hurting anyone Donna? Get real.
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lol Liz you are something, first of all my original post was not centered on YOU, you just took it and ran with that idea. Again, as much as I do think calling people "cool" is embarrasing to say the least lol, it wasnt what the post was about. The post was my feeling and hopes of recognizing how words said here effect everyone, but foolish me................goodnight moon.
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Well Donna,

I apologize if I didn't get your point. Seem as others were getting upset over a few women joking about being cool. And if that is emarrassing for you, well, What can I say?

See, what good did your post do anyway?
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Dont dismis my post..... It just may well have done some good with someone out there who realizes every post does not need to result in arguing or saying things meant to cut down another. Perhaps in the future even YOU will try not to do that - you never know.
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Hey Liz you dont get it. Other people brought it up not me.

Someone has to get the last word. How bout someone flips a coin?

Liz you think I really give a flying patoona about any ofthis. Its B.S but it will not go away.

That is what you do not get. It scares people away. I am asking for all the negativity to stay off the forum. Is that to much to ask?

Try acting like your in the real world. This crap does not fly.

GoodNight
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Jeff, save your breath. Disease runs rampant. I'm sure I heard that somewhere?

Take care........Bob
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OMG...Bob you just proved my point...He can't even take his own advice..Thanks!

michelle
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LMFAO

Have a good night Bob--jeff
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He was pretty cool michele when he first came in and now he is acting all arrogant. Someone, something got ahold of him and he changed. What do you propose we do Jeff? We Get off the board and you can talk to yourself and make sense? Shall we stay on the board and give you "your rights" every time you post? You have a comment for every post so maybe you can let us know how to appease YOU!

You know alot, actually everything so I thinkyou should structure the board around your plethora of knowledge.
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Wiversen you want to twist my actions. You are spinning this whole situation.

Cant evreybody get over the B.S and get back to recovery.