My husbands drug of choice was herion back in 2008. He got clean in 2011 and has been clean off herion since then. He did start smoking fake weed and I was ok with it in the beginning but then it became a financial problem. I left and went back to my parents house April of this year. My husband has started going to counseling for the fake weed and goes to classes 3 days a week for it because he don't want to lose me or my daughter. He has not smoked it since the beginning of May and he seems great. He is taking depression and anxiety medication now which seems to help him a lot too. Now my parents only let me move back home because they want me to divorce him. I just found this out about 3 days ago. My mom and dad hate him so much and last night my dad got so mad he got up and tried punching me called me names my mom called me names and said if you go back with him we will never speak to you again and we will do everything we can to take your daughter away. My husband has made mistakes when he was in the midst of smoking the fake weed non stop he pawned things and he pawned my daughters things. I got them back except for a couple things but we are all human as what I see it we all are not perfect. My husband realizes what he did was very wrong and is doing everything in his power to get himself better and get his family back. He is a wonderful father to my daughter and a wonderful man when sober. I think my parents are being so unfair and so judge mental it makes me sick. I want to move back in with my husband I love him very much now that I see he is really really trying to fix himself with the spice. He overcame the herion so I know he can do this too. And my parents threatening me about taking my daughter away is not right either. I will not let that happen. My daughter loves my husband she is not his biological daughter and she is 7 he has been there since she was a newborn. My daughters real father don't ever come around. Help advice I feel like I should not have to choose and this is stressing me out!!
Your husband deserves a second chance, if only your parents will give him a chance to prove to them that he is really sorry and he will change. As you said, your husband been trying his best to deal with it because he loves you both and your daughter. Talk once again to your parents to give him a chance. If not, your already old to make a decision. Your parents shouldn't decide for you. Your husband is waiting for you, your the only one he has.
I wish everything will be okay with you.
I wish everything will be okay with you.
