Ok Im gonna give it a try.Why I dont know but to me this board is worth it.
I want to say FIRST this is not directed at one person it is ALL of the ones that are ruining this board.Can you PLEASE JUST STOP?
If you guys hate each other that much at least respect this board & the people on here trying to find help to AT LEAST take it to Email.
Yes reading what your all posting is cheap entertainment but ENOUGH!!!
Please let this board be about RECOVERY not who can spill more venom.Guys I care about you ALL & I would do ANYTHING to help any of yous but really are you helping anyone.even yourselfs?going back & forth on here over non related issies is really hurting us all.
So please for the ones WHO DONT want to be a part of the fighting,please find it in your hearts to take this stuff to email PLEASE
You all know I try not to ask for much but this time IM BEGGING LET IT GO ALL OF YOU PLEASE......mj
bump important to me that someone reads this
I read it MJ and will respect it, thanks for the sanity check, I was bout to get a little ugly myself.
Regards,
Tom
Regards,
Tom
Hey Tom to answer you my girls are doing good.Your right they grow so fast I still want them to be babies at times so I can hold them close.I saw where your almost at a year,Tom that is so great.You have much to be proud of for sure.Just for the record I dont think I ever saw you get mean & to tell the truth I hope I never do it would blow the image I have of you...mj
AMEN!!!
MJ I had asked this about a week or so ago... I may still be a newbie, but reading all the BS that has gone down here has done NOTHING but make me realize this board is full of sick people...( which yes addicts are sick folks)
I came here becuz I needed HELP, from my methadone w/d. the first week or two were great. Then as you stated it turned bad.ya great cheap entertainment, but I have noticed others that everyone feels so CLOSE to can't take it anymore. Why push all of us out of here, when we all need the help. Take it to e-mail is the right chose.
Maybe its the internet way....say what you want , hurt who you want, cuz its only the internet.........I think people forget we are humans sitting behind these screens with feelings, and opinions........but then again as stated at the NA meeting........Listen and only give your opinion when asked. I think this has gone far beyond that, and now its out to see who can hurt and destroy.
We can't forget people come here for HELP!! and what they are finding is hatred...ya think people are gonna want to get clean if they see folks in recovery this way..It might scare then into staying on the drugs, cuz god forbid they don't want to be thinking they are gonna have so much hatred and venon going off the drugs..
Sorry just rattling on, but geez hasn't there been enough damage here. Its time for damage control.Get back to what the board really is about and not who thinks they are better then anyone else....For the folks who have relapsed my heart goes out to you, and if it had anything to do with this crap, I really feel bad........( enough BS can make ANYONE relaspe..not saying it does, but BS sure doesn't help in a recovery situation) that is why I step back from the board... Knew I needed to be stronger then what I was reading on here........PLease folks remember, there are ALOT of folks on here that need help.....not discouragement.....
MJ I had asked this about a week or so ago... I may still be a newbie, but reading all the BS that has gone down here has done NOTHING but make me realize this board is full of sick people...( which yes addicts are sick folks)
I came here becuz I needed HELP, from my methadone w/d. the first week or two were great. Then as you stated it turned bad.ya great cheap entertainment, but I have noticed others that everyone feels so CLOSE to can't take it anymore. Why push all of us out of here, when we all need the help. Take it to e-mail is the right chose.
Maybe its the internet way....say what you want , hurt who you want, cuz its only the internet.........I think people forget we are humans sitting behind these screens with feelings, and opinions........but then again as stated at the NA meeting........Listen and only give your opinion when asked. I think this has gone far beyond that, and now its out to see who can hurt and destroy.
We can't forget people come here for HELP!! and what they are finding is hatred...ya think people are gonna want to get clean if they see folks in recovery this way..It might scare then into staying on the drugs, cuz god forbid they don't want to be thinking they are gonna have so much hatred and venon going off the drugs..
Sorry just rattling on, but geez hasn't there been enough damage here. Its time for damage control.Get back to what the board really is about and not who thinks they are better then anyone else....For the folks who have relapsed my heart goes out to you, and if it had anything to do with this crap, I really feel bad........( enough BS can make ANYONE relaspe..not saying it does, but BS sure doesn't help in a recovery situation) that is why I step back from the board... Knew I needed to be stronger then what I was reading on here........PLease folks remember, there are ALOT of folks on here that need help.....not discouragement.....
Hi Im so sorry that it got to you.Ive been on here since Nov 04 & Ive seen this come & go.Ive had to stop comming here at times because I needed the break,I try real(& it is hard)to stay out of it all.I like everyone on here have made some great friends so its hard NOT getting into it.
BUT on the other hand Ive seen this board at its best.Where there is so much love & support it makes times like the BS times NOT important.There are alot of great people here who feel very passionate about thier way of recovery.I totally respect that.for me as long as something works stick with it.
So how are you making out?I am so sorry you havent had the support you deserve & I hope you will stick around cause like I said this board can be so awesome when its good....mj
BUT on the other hand Ive seen this board at its best.Where there is so much love & support it makes times like the BS times NOT important.There are alot of great people here who feel very passionate about thier way of recovery.I totally respect that.for me as long as something works stick with it.
So how are you making out?I am so sorry you havent had the support you deserve & I hope you will stick around cause like I said this board can be so awesome when its good....mj
MJ..
I tell ya, when I found this board it was great, alot of caring folks and that is what helped me thru the worst part... I am so much better now, it will be 5 weeks come monday.......I am sleeeping at night, have a healthy appetite now, and like doing things..
I felt if I had stay and read the posts I would have gone krazi..if I want to hear and see the drama I can just go to my son's high school...LOL but beginning to think there is more on here..
I have said in the past, thanks to all that helped me thru....but it is time to let go and move on, some have a hard time doing that, its like someone is always fighting for the last word....no matter ow much it hurts all involved...
I have not even had a cig in 2 weeks now,...........Love it
My hun is in Florida taking care of some hurrican damaged items of ours, I would have gone, but with a 17 yo at home, I was afraid I wouldn't have a house standing when I got back.LOL not really but someone needs to keep an eye on that kid.....
I tell ya, when I found this board it was great, alot of caring folks and that is what helped me thru the worst part... I am so much better now, it will be 5 weeks come monday.......I am sleeeping at night, have a healthy appetite now, and like doing things..
I felt if I had stay and read the posts I would have gone krazi..if I want to hear and see the drama I can just go to my son's high school...LOL but beginning to think there is more on here..
I have said in the past, thanks to all that helped me thru....but it is time to let go and move on, some have a hard time doing that, its like someone is always fighting for the last word....no matter ow much it hurts all involved...
I have not even had a cig in 2 weeks now,...........Love it
My hun is in Florida taking care of some hurrican damaged items of ours, I would have gone, but with a 17 yo at home, I was afraid I wouldn't have a house standing when I got back.LOL not really but someone needs to keep an eye on that kid.....
mj,
great thread, you are a shining example of what this board needs more of and i will sign your pact. i can only promise to do my very best as i am only human. but i promise i will not intentionally start any toxic business. i truly am passionate and only do want to help and share about what has worked for me.
krazy,
you are awesome as well for being so new on the board and understanding and wanting the same thing that molly is asking for. thats very impressive and i feel you have alot to offer.
tom,
i admire that self control, as i said you show true class and i love your charm and wit
hugs all around
terrianne
great thread, you are a shining example of what this board needs more of and i will sign your pact. i can only promise to do my very best as i am only human. but i promise i will not intentionally start any toxic business. i truly am passionate and only do want to help and share about what has worked for me.
krazy,
you are awesome as well for being so new on the board and understanding and wanting the same thing that molly is asking for. thats very impressive and i feel you have alot to offer.
tom,
i admire that self control, as i said you show true class and i love your charm and wit
hugs all around
terrianne
I admit to postings that I wish I could take back. I always thought I had so much self control.
I promise I will try as hard as I can to turn off the computer and walk away if I see it going bad.
I want the board back that was here when I started. It may have saved my life and I should not dis-repesct this board. It has helped so many.
Thanks for a reality check.
Love, Jean
I promise I will try as hard as I can to turn off the computer and walk away if I see it going bad.
I want the board back that was here when I started. It may have saved my life and I should not dis-repesct this board. It has helped so many.
Thanks for a reality check.
Love, Jean
Dear Krazy Yup it sounds like you are doing GREAT.Be proud I know I am.If you feel its time to leave than so be it.Your right everyone must deside thier own way.Please know that I myself would LOVE to hear from you now & again & of course if ever you feel you need help post here.Like I said there are great people here with a world full of knowledge.Take Care of yourself....mj
Terri as far as what you posted thank you but I hope everyone can see how harmful those things get.There are better more private ways to deal with those toxic(love that)topics.I just want all of us to show how GREAT this board can be because I know in my heart I wouldnt be as far as I am without it.....mj
Terri as far as what you posted thank you but I hope everyone can see how harmful those things get.There are better more private ways to deal with those toxic(love that)topics.I just want all of us to show how GREAT this board can be because I know in my heart I wouldnt be as far as I am without it.....mj
MJ,
I know how much this bothers you every time this happens. I understand how you feel. I think what really bothers me is the fact that I worry if I post to one person, I will be considered to be one of that person's "posse" or "clique". And vice versa. Not that I will let one's feelings about me ruin my day...it's just that it may prevent others from replying to me as well. And in the shape I'm in at the present time, I can use all of the help and support that everyone is willing to offer up. I don't get the division of the board...the us versus them mentality. The bitterness and obvious hatred. I thought we were all here for the same reason...the only difference between any of us is that some are farther along in their journey than others. I hope it gets back to near normal soon. I love the camaraderie when everyone pulls together for a common goal.
I know how much this bothers you every time this happens. I understand how you feel. I think what really bothers me is the fact that I worry if I post to one person, I will be considered to be one of that person's "posse" or "clique". And vice versa. Not that I will let one's feelings about me ruin my day...it's just that it may prevent others from replying to me as well. And in the shape I'm in at the present time, I can use all of the help and support that everyone is willing to offer up. I don't get the division of the board...the us versus them mentality. The bitterness and obvious hatred. I thought we were all here for the same reason...the only difference between any of us is that some are farther along in their journey than others. I hope it gets back to near normal soon. I love the camaraderie when everyone pulls together for a common goal.
"I love the camaraderie when everyone pulls together for a common goal."
MollyJean, what Jodi said.
MollyJean, what Jodi said.
Dear Jodi I would like to be able to help you.I understand how you feel about being label but sweety DONT let that stop you from reaching out for help EVER.We cannot control what others think or say about us.We are only in control of ourselves.I hope you feel that you or anyone who needs the help can open up to me.I would do whatever I can to try to help.That is part of MY recovery is to be able to reach out & help whoever I can...mj
To all that replied & all who have read.THANK YOU ALL FOR THE PEACE LETS KEEP THIS BOARD A POSITIVE HAVEN FOR OUR FELLOW ADDICTS>
Bye For Now...mj
To all that replied & all who have read.THANK YOU ALL FOR THE PEACE LETS KEEP THIS BOARD A POSITIVE HAVEN FOR OUR FELLOW ADDICTS>
Bye For Now...mj
MJ,
I've always known that I can reach out to you. And, believe me, I have been reaching out for help...only on a more personal level. I'm working on it because I've been told that I am worth it. So I've got to have a little faith until I actually feel like I really am worth it.
Like I've told you before, you were the first one to welcome me here and I will never forget that. You have always been kind to me and offered me an ear. And, for that, I thank you.
I've always known that I can reach out to you. And, believe me, I have been reaching out for help...only on a more personal level. I'm working on it because I've been told that I am worth it. So I've got to have a little faith until I actually feel like I really am worth it.
Like I've told you before, you were the first one to welcome me here and I will never forget that. You have always been kind to me and offered me an ear. And, for that, I thank you.
ya know, I bumped up my Rehab diary the other day, after reading all the good things and support people had to offer when I was going through all the rough times. i pray that this board will get back on track and all of this foolish behavior come to an end. I apologize for any part I have taken in toxic threads, but sometimes it's hard to control the anger from reading this negativity. I will attempt to keep on recovery and support of my fellow addicts.
Thanks for starting this post MJ...you are a continuous voice of reason on this board, and I appreciate you so much...
Thanks for starting this post MJ...you are a continuous voice of reason on this board, and I appreciate you so much...
MJ....you have a heart of gold...it is obvious that some people feel the need to take out their/anger/frustration/unhappiness on others...been going on from the beginning of time.I know I feel bad when I say mean things...some people get off on it...ther will always be disgruntled, miserable people, and you know what they say about misery...thanks for the positive post...if you're ever in Dutchess Cty....stop by...Love, Sharonn
Janet,
I did read your rehab diary the other day. Wow...how far you've come. You are an inspiration. Thank you for that.
I did read your rehab diary the other day. Wow...how far you've come. You are an inspiration. Thank you for that.
thanks Jodi, i know it was a long read...but people were so wonderful to me, i'm glad you read it and saw how things were
