A person tha gives ya a gift. A present and they are just so thrilled about getting you the gift you wanted.
Like this person you can't get them anything because the gift To them is seeing you get all excited about the present.
Just wanted to share something nice amid all the yucky stuff.
My one brother is sooooooooo like that. Ya have to be careful what ya mention to him what you like in this world because he will go find it and get it for ya.
Today is my mom's birthday. She had mentioned to me this ornament she liked and I told my brother. She got mad saying it cost too much and I figured he'd get it for her for Christmas. Well, in he just came looking like a lil kid at Christmas with this singing card and the ornament my mom loved.
He's always like that. At Christmas when he sees ya open the gift ya had wanted he lights up more than the person got the gift.
Just wondering what that's about. My parents were HUGE into making sure we got every single thing we wanted at Christmas. Even as my other brother recalls by the time they got them we couldn't afford the batteries for some of them.
It's just a cool thing to share. I love my brother and how he still lights up like a lilttle kid sometimes. Not to mention kept spinning that ornament around and making it talk. Thanks for letting me share that.
Psychologically and any other way it's plain old love. Thanks for sharing this little piece of your heart. wish your mom a happiest of birthdays from all of us.
And many more~MomNMore
And many more~MomNMore
Thank you Doctor M&M.
Yeah plus he wears his Boston attire. He gotta be all about the love.
Oh too bad her grandaughter didn't even bother to call her. I have to let it go. I so do. My mom ain't like that. Heck, my gram didn't even get a card out to her, but STILL all them parties and birthdays my parents made for that girl. NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nothing at all. Plain just fogot her.
Yeah plus he wears his Boston attire. He gotta be all about the love.
Oh too bad her grandaughter didn't even bother to call her. I have to let it go. I so do. My mom ain't like that. Heck, my gram didn't even get a card out to her, but STILL all them parties and birthdays my parents made for that girl. NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nothing at all. Plain just fogot her.
I know, but I think that's typical...my girl needs to be reminded that older folks have birthdays, too. But I know it hurts you...
I would rather give and make someone really happy than recieve something. I try my hardest to get gifts for people that I know they will really want or appreciate. One thing that really bugs me though is when you buy someone something and they dont appreciate it. I always buy things from the heart with allot of thought and when they smirk and put it to one side it bugs me so much.
Its not all about spending a fortune but putting your mind to it and ptting yourself in the mind of the other person and think what would they really like, or what could they really do with.
A few months before Christmas I really listen to anyone when an advert is on, and they say "oh look at that" or "I could really do with such and such" and I will remember and buy them it. This one year I bought my sister this hair removal thing. You rub it on your legs and it apparently removes hairs. She had said she wanted one everytime the advert came on. She got it and its still in the box. Now that realy gets to me!! Even if I didnt like a present I would still give it a go, try to use it and try to appreciate it for what it is, just like I do with people. Instead of judging by whats on the outside, I get inside and like them for what they are...I see past the bad...even when there is only a small amount of good in them...I see that.
Lynds xx
Its not all about spending a fortune but putting your mind to it and ptting yourself in the mind of the other person and think what would they really like, or what could they really do with.
A few months before Christmas I really listen to anyone when an advert is on, and they say "oh look at that" or "I could really do with such and such" and I will remember and buy them it. This one year I bought my sister this hair removal thing. You rub it on your legs and it apparently removes hairs. She had said she wanted one everytime the advert came on. She got it and its still in the box. Now that realy gets to me!! Even if I didnt like a present I would still give it a go, try to use it and try to appreciate it for what it is, just like I do with people. Instead of judging by whats on the outside, I get inside and like them for what they are...I see past the bad...even when there is only a small amount of good in them...I see that.
Lynds xx
God, last year I got my boyfriend a ring for his birthday. But his mother bought him an even nicer one, so I was gutted. Anyway, he'd thrown it back in my face by the end of the night so who G A F!!! My ex husband always told me to accept a gift with grace, coz if you make a fuss and say it's too much it much then you are doubting the generosity of the giver. I'm always over the moon if anybody gives me anything!!!
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Dunno if I already posted this elsewhere...but I've got Sean something and I can't wait to give it to him but I'm so worried that I'm so excited about it I'll be disappointed if he doesn't like it as much as I think he will...
Months ago I mentioned it could be fun to go clay-pigeon shooting and he said yeah he'd love to then told me bout how the last time he'd really spent any proper time with his dad was when they and his brother went clay-pigeon shooting...so...for his brithday I've got him a voucher to take his brother and dad shooting...
Why? Well...because I hope it will make him happy...I hope they have a great time...why do I hope that? Cos I love him...I want him to have a happy time...
I'd love to go too but that would make it about me and it's not. The voucher is for the three of them. And I hope it makes him happy...because contrary to what he believes, he is worth it. Sorry to sound like a L'Oreal advert!!!
Maddy x
Months ago I mentioned it could be fun to go clay-pigeon shooting and he said yeah he'd love to then told me bout how the last time he'd really spent any proper time with his dad was when they and his brother went clay-pigeon shooting...so...for his brithday I've got him a voucher to take his brother and dad shooting...
Why? Well...because I hope it will make him happy...I hope they have a great time...why do I hope that? Cos I love him...I want him to have a happy time...
I'd love to go too but that would make it about me and it's not. The voucher is for the three of them. And I hope it makes him happy...because contrary to what he believes, he is worth it. Sorry to sound like a L'Oreal advert!!!
Maddy x
Aren't you all just special? LOL People pleasers I'd say.
O.K. who wants to make me happy and see me get all excited? Give me a gift.
Make it one gentleman around 70 years old. Has to be in great shape and able to shovel snow. Better yet have enough money to have us live in a tropical place for winters. I'd prefer he'd never been married and has no children. You got him and send him my way I bet I would get all happy.
Kidding. Naw, that's nice you all want to give special things to special people and get joy from their joy. I envy that.
O.K. who wants to make me happy and see me get all excited? Give me a gift.
Make it one gentleman around 70 years old. Has to be in great shape and able to shovel snow. Better yet have enough money to have us live in a tropical place for winters. I'd prefer he'd never been married and has no children. You got him and send him my way I bet I would get all happy.
Kidding. Naw, that's nice you all want to give special things to special people and get joy from their joy. I envy that.
What do you mean you envy that? You do that for everyone every time you give a little of yourself to someone here. You are a giver...totally.
You so are Bryn...you give more than ever realise.
And the gift...it's my last...I've finally had enough...
And the gift...it's my last...I've finally had enough...
STOP IT AND WHAT YOU TALKING BOUT?
I'll catch ya on the other board babes......and thanks Maddy and M&M.....I give nothing........I take and take........I suck a soul dry.........I'm selfish.....and mean and I don't care about other human beings.
Hmmm, I think my ex husband said that to me once......LOL.....naw, I'm playing.......thanks.
I'll catch ya on the other board babes......and thanks Maddy and M&M.....I give nothing........I take and take........I suck a soul dry.........I'm selfish.....and mean and I don't care about other human beings.
Hmmm, I think my ex husband said that to me once......LOL.....naw, I'm playing.......thanks.
