The topic title says it , where are ya, how is it going ??? any others that like to pop in and see how others are doing . it's kinda hard to keep track of everyone . most of us suffer from c.r.a.f.t. ( Cant Remember A F#%*ing Thing ) so anyone and everyone please feel free to join our "daily check in " recovery happens started (are ya gettin the hint rh ??) We dont want anyone to feel like they fell through , there are many who have posted , I think many wonder the outcome .progress, or .......well ,.you get the idea ....P.S. sorry about the craft comment , maybe it is just me hahaha
Where is everyone? I had kind of hoped everyone would come out of the woodwork when they saw a post that needed advice. Is everyone still snoozing? Miss you all....Peace and serenity to all, Your friend,,,,,Linda
JustOneMore,
Hello to you my good friend & everyone else I have met on this site. Sorry I have been away for so long --- I have been very busy. I am doing OK. Some things have come up since my husband has been home. I have found out that he continues to have contact with his connections. That was 5 big steps backwards for me & the kids. We believe when he tells us that he will not go back to using drugs, but yet he continues to have contact with these people. When my husband went into rehab On 9-15, me & the kids were harrassed by one of his contacts by tel. & they managed to get my 16yr olds email & starting to harrass him there. Telling him terrible things about an affair their dad had in Lake Tahoe. When he was in rehab we confronted him about this & he did admit to going to Tahoe with "SB", but assured us that nothing happened. He continues to lie about stupid s**t. What really hurts me is the lies & having contact with these people. When we talk about it I feel he is defending them. This whole situation stinks. All I have ever wanted is a drug free family---which I have TODAY ( One Day @ a Time). I really thought once he got cleaned everything would be okay WRONG. There is no doubt in my heart that there is love in our marriage, but it is hard to move forward when the man I love has hurt me so much. He tells me he does'nt know what he wants. Honestly I am so screwed up in the head as I type. All I know I can't compete with his friends or will I be put on a back burner again. Enough of my problem. How are you JOM
I see you are continuing your sobriety. I am so proud of you. How are you doing with the cold weather? Northern Cal has been very cold. Did you have a nice Thanksgiving, did your honey cook you a big fat turkey. I have been working extra @ the newspaper because my teenage boys want electronics for Christmas ($$$). they no longer want toys. My princess--she is only 9 she still wants toys & dolls. I love my munchkins. Well I must depart -- I hear my washing machine calling me. Hey where is Charme. I miss reading her post. I will keep in touch more often & let you know how I am doing. God Bless you JOM. with love, tsr
Hello to you my good friend & everyone else I have met on this site. Sorry I have been away for so long --- I have been very busy. I am doing OK. Some things have come up since my husband has been home. I have found out that he continues to have contact with his connections. That was 5 big steps backwards for me & the kids. We believe when he tells us that he will not go back to using drugs, but yet he continues to have contact with these people. When my husband went into rehab On 9-15, me & the kids were harrassed by one of his contacts by tel. & they managed to get my 16yr olds email & starting to harrass him there. Telling him terrible things about an affair their dad had in Lake Tahoe. When he was in rehab we confronted him about this & he did admit to going to Tahoe with "SB", but assured us that nothing happened. He continues to lie about stupid s**t. What really hurts me is the lies & having contact with these people. When we talk about it I feel he is defending them. This whole situation stinks. All I have ever wanted is a drug free family---which I have TODAY ( One Day @ a Time). I really thought once he got cleaned everything would be okay WRONG. There is no doubt in my heart that there is love in our marriage, but it is hard to move forward when the man I love has hurt me so much. He tells me he does'nt know what he wants. Honestly I am so screwed up in the head as I type. All I know I can't compete with his friends or will I be put on a back burner again. Enough of my problem. How are you JOM
I see you are continuing your sobriety. I am so proud of you. How are you doing with the cold weather? Northern Cal has been very cold. Did you have a nice Thanksgiving, did your honey cook you a big fat turkey. I have been working extra @ the newspaper because my teenage boys want electronics for Christmas ($$$). they no longer want toys. My princess--she is only 9 she still wants toys & dolls. I love my munchkins. Well I must depart -- I hear my washing machine calling me. Hey where is Charme. I miss reading her post. I will keep in touch more often & let you know how I am doing. God Bless you JOM. with love, tsr
Thanks for checkin in tsr, am sorry to hear your hubby and you are going through more s**t . As per the usual stuff following the meth lifestyle ,...nothin but drama and games, very little to do with allowing people a better life. You hang tough , your kids deserve at least one parent that has their interests at heart . Believe it or not, my huneee had to work thanksgiving day, and I stuffed and cooked the turkey!!!!, got the potatoes goin .....and..........cleaned up afterwards ,,,, well had some help cleaning from her daughter ,(which was amazing cause she never cleans up anything!!! hahaha) Overall I am doing good , a lot of depression keeps trying to take over , enough so that I have doubts I would be able to stay clean if I had contact with people that had some . I dont , so I am now 76 days clean wooohoooo!!!! I think once the holidays are past I will be ok, new years eve will be my one year anniversary of the first time I flew out and met my sweety in person, so then it will become all about good anniversaries . Ya know we always got an ear for ya tsr, take care my friend
oh ya, oddly enough , the weather has been warmer here than in my old town in california , hahaha, that'll change soon enough !!!
