Hello all, look his is not at all meant as publicity stunt or anything, but i have been posting a lot lately & have been going thru alot, and i have noticed on more than on occasion that noone really responds to me anymore? hell when i was Jasmine they sure did, but whatever?? I have mead dome real good friends here and u all know my e-mail but i just dont really feel like i am wanted here anymore, for those people who have mad this plain ovious as day, u did it!! I am leaving... take care all.............mitzy
Mitz- Come on...no reason to leave the board...do you want me to get mad? We all value your input and advice. So STOP IT and stay..
Still looking for attention, lol. Come on girl, hit a meeting today and find out what it is your really feeling and what you need to do about it.
Sometimes the rest of us have other things to do other than sit on the computer waiting for someone to respond to our posts.
Personally, I look forward to your posts. I've seen such growth in you. I'm really proud of you.
Cowgirl
Sometimes the rest of us have other things to do other than sit on the computer waiting for someone to respond to our posts.
Personally, I look forward to your posts. I've seen such growth in you. I'm really proud of you.
Cowgirl
Mitz-
Your posting a lot only means you need us and you love to help people, too! There are dozens of reasons people don't respond: they're busy, they're using or they're lazy or they're in denial, etc, etc, etc.
Keep posting, be patient. I know addictive personalities very well (I'm a prime example) and we want immediated gratification!!! Hang in there!
Your posting a lot only means you need us and you love to help people, too! There are dozens of reasons people don't respond: they're busy, they're using or they're lazy or they're in denial, etc, etc, etc.
Keep posting, be patient. I know addictive personalities very well (I'm a prime example) and we want immediated gratification!!! Hang in there!
Ok guys I was really not at all trying to get attention really all, its just i felt un wanted is all..... Lisa(cow girl) thanks for the post that was sweet, LB you as well and as for the meetings i went to 2 yesterday! I am feeling great in one aspect but lousy that i allowed this to happen is all.......sorry i was not trying to get mad attention or anything, i did not want people to worry about me is all....
take care...........mitzy.............
take care...........mitzy.............
Jesus!
Mitzy you play that card at least once a month now!! Your always leaving but you never leave???
You gotta keep in mind that people do work for a living and have things to do. If I remember correctly you don't work and stay at home, correct?? So you need to understand not everyone can sit at a computer all day like you.
Im sure you'll be back in a day or two like all the other times....
Time to grow up already don't you think?
Mitzy you play that card at least once a month now!! Your always leaving but you never leave???
You gotta keep in mind that people do work for a living and have things to do. If I remember correctly you don't work and stay at home, correct?? So you need to understand not everyone can sit at a computer all day like you.
Im sure you'll be back in a day or two like all the other times....
Time to grow up already don't you think?
Hello Jazzy yup I still call ya that cause I like that name.Please don't get caught up in whatever drama is going on.It only brings you down and your recovery slow ok>>>>>>mj
Kiwi, WTF is wrong with you?? i knew that you were gonna talk some s*** i knew it! look buddy we all have our problems & i was just feeling down & out, i know something that never happend to you, right??.....................................
I think that if u do not have something nice to say, then dont say anything at all!! jmo.... i noticed that when i am asking for help u dont answer but when its something that u can talk s*** about or to , u do it, freaking amazing~!
also i would like to also tell you that I do not sit around my coumpter all day and wait for posts and yes i do know that people work, except w/my job I dont get lunch breaks or even get to go home after work, its called being a mom, and thats what i do for a living oh yeah and i dont get paid eaither. you try raisig twind and a 8 year old and tell me how you feel ???, i know that u could not handle it.... well i know that i will not get any respoce to this from u but i know that u will read it so thats all that i wanted......
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I think that if u do not have something nice to say, then dont say anything at all!! jmo.... i noticed that when i am asking for help u dont answer but when its something that u can talk s*** about or to , u do it, freaking amazing~!
also i would like to also tell you that I do not sit around my coumpter all day and wait for posts and yes i do know that people work, except w/my job I dont get lunch breaks or even get to go home after work, its called being a mom, and thats what i do for a living oh yeah and i dont get paid eaither. you try raisig twind and a 8 year old and tell me how you feel ???, i know that u could not handle it.... well i know that i will not get any respoce to this from u but i know that u will read it so thats all that i wanted......
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Why, when there are so many people who do offer you love and support, would you even care about those who don't?
This isn't a popularity contest..... I think you are doing a wonderful thing by being on here.... You're always welcoming newcomers and offering advice to those who need it..... You either stay and help others in their times of need or you leave..... Please don't get caught up in all this drama on here because then it takes away from all of the good that you have to say. And don't let others run you off.... If you like being on here and like helping addicts, then stay and keep posting.....
If you are unhappy, then leave, but don't give up something that's important to you just because you don't like a few select people on here.
This isn't a popularity contest..... I think you are doing a wonderful thing by being on here.... You're always welcoming newcomers and offering advice to those who need it..... You either stay and help others in their times of need or you leave..... Please don't get caught up in all this drama on here because then it takes away from all of the good that you have to say. And don't let others run you off.... If you like being on here and like helping addicts, then stay and keep posting.....
If you are unhappy, then leave, but don't give up something that's important to you just because you don't like a few select people on here.
hey jaz lifes tough eh im always talking to myself on here lol but being positive like you know i always do lol at least if no one answers you you cant get bad advice lol lol kidding dont be so sensitive hun this is the best place in the world for off loading garbage we carry around its free and sometimes people say the right things to us. i like cowgirl have seen a growth in you that must be rewarding for you. jackie xxxx
Hello, thanks for the words of encouragement, that made me feel better!
i really do enjoy helping other addicts, and i love talking to people, i just was feeling down and i did not want to post that post but i did not want the friends that I have made her to worry is all...really.......
i have enjoyed reading all of the posts to me & im glad that i am needed, thats a great feeling!!!
Take Care Friends...............................
i really do enjoy helping other addicts, and i love talking to people, i just was feeling down and i did not want to post that post but i did not want the friends that I have made her to worry is all...really.......
i have enjoyed reading all of the posts to me & im glad that i am needed, thats a great feeling!!!
Take Care Friends...............................
Everyone of us has a strong desire to be needed and welcomed and loved hun if we remember that maybe we can post more to new addicts that need that hand up. jackie xx
And let me tell you, as a guy who is now Mr. Mom, I can assure you it is the hardest job in the world. I've run multi-billion dollar companies and it wasn't as hard as chasing after a couple of pre-schoolers. That was a breeze compared to this. I have a new respect for every Mom in the world.
Mitzy, Don't Go...
It is easier here...
Jackie is right..we all want to be wanted..
So just stay, post your heart out..and I for one just get busy..
Kerry
It is easier here...
Jackie is right..we all want to be wanted..
So just stay, post your heart out..and I for one just get busy..
Kerry
Mitzy,
You better not be going anywhere. I see you post to newcomers all the time. You are needed here. People do love and care about you! What are you struggling with today? E-mail me.We all have bad days,me included. Don't say good-bye..There are a lot of people here that can benefit from your experiences and your knowledge. Really, I mean that.You have been honest about your drug addictions and you have been through the whole withdrawl being clean process. Look at Kiwi for example, poor guy he hardly ever posts unless he is in need of some negative attention.Then when someone tries to respond to his posts he ignores them. He is posting on an addiction board where he THOUGHT almost everyone here was CLEAN. He has never told any of us what his addiction was or how he quit and overcame it. Then just the other day wanted to know where he could get some suboxone. Go figure. So Mitzy you are needed here more than others. Rae
You better not be going anywhere. I see you post to newcomers all the time. You are needed here. People do love and care about you! What are you struggling with today? E-mail me.We all have bad days,me included. Don't say good-bye..There are a lot of people here that can benefit from your experiences and your knowledge. Really, I mean that.You have been honest about your drug addictions and you have been through the whole withdrawl being clean process. Look at Kiwi for example, poor guy he hardly ever posts unless he is in need of some negative attention.Then when someone tries to respond to his posts he ignores them. He is posting on an addiction board where he THOUGHT almost everyone here was CLEAN. He has never told any of us what his addiction was or how he quit and overcame it. Then just the other day wanted to know where he could get some suboxone. Go figure. So Mitzy you are needed here more than others. Rae
Mitzy..........no one wants you leave, so hang around and tell everyone how good those meetings make you feel, never know who you will help!
Rae, thought you might find this interesting.....You don't have to be using to go on sub. My husband was put on it after he relapsed, he was 6 days clean when he started it. He was chipping and the doc didn't want him bouncing on and off the drugs medicating his pain issues.......
Rae, thought you might find this interesting.....You don't have to be using to go on sub. My husband was put on it after he relapsed, he was 6 days clean when he started it. He was chipping and the doc didn't want him bouncing on and off the drugs medicating his pain issues.......
Misty,
I see what you mean. Although I have never heard of anyone needing it that was almost 3 months clean. That is Kiwi said he was. He is just so quick to jump down someone elses throat about being clean and belittling those who use. Just find it hard to believe you would need sub if you had that much clean time,IMO! By the way how is your husband doing? He is so lucky to have you in his life. Addiction is hard on everyone and it is especially hard trying to put yourself in his shoes. I really do think you are a great person for staying by his side and trying to educate yourself to help him become a better a person. Hopefully, he knows just how lucky he is..... Rae
I see what you mean. Although I have never heard of anyone needing it that was almost 3 months clean. That is Kiwi said he was. He is just so quick to jump down someone elses throat about being clean and belittling those who use. Just find it hard to believe you would need sub if you had that much clean time,IMO! By the way how is your husband doing? He is so lucky to have you in his life. Addiction is hard on everyone and it is especially hard trying to put yourself in his shoes. I really do think you are a great person for staying by his side and trying to educate yourself to help him become a better a person. Hopefully, he knows just how lucky he is..... Rae
WOW, THANKS FRIENDS!! i am so loved that feels great!!! my meetings make me feel this natural high that yes i can do this and no i am not alone...thanks god.. yeah and about the Subutex, ahhhhhh i can not find a doctor who eaither has never heard of it or they do not have a licence to give rx's for it...........
this is so frustrating!! ahhhhhhhh....ok i am done , i think, hehe.......
i love going to meetings know, it took me a long time to get it and to keep going back cause it works... and it does work........i will stay, so dont worry friends....
and as far as Kiwi is concerned, yeah it does baffle me as to why he only responds to negative stuff, and only has negative stuff to say, but hey i am not judgeing anyone, thats i guess how he is and thats ok, thats him.......but it does kinds erk me to see that people post to him & he does not post back, WTF??? i think thats just plaine rude if u ask me.....
I am actully looking at the schedule to see what time the meetings start, and i am taking one of the twins w/me so that will be interesting, hehe....
thanks again friends, Rae, molly, misty, carrie, christina, danny, just to name a few....take care cause i care, ................
this is so frustrating!! ahhhhhhhh....ok i am done , i think, hehe.......
i love going to meetings know, it took me a long time to get it and to keep going back cause it works... and it does work........i will stay, so dont worry friends....
and as far as Kiwi is concerned, yeah it does baffle me as to why he only responds to negative stuff, and only has negative stuff to say, but hey i am not judgeing anyone, thats i guess how he is and thats ok, thats him.......but it does kinds erk me to see that people post to him & he does not post back, WTF??? i think thats just plaine rude if u ask me.....
I am actully looking at the schedule to see what time the meetings start, and i am taking one of the twins w/me so that will be interesting, hehe....
thanks again friends, Rae, molly, misty, carrie, christina, danny, just to name a few....take care cause i care, ................
You are right Danny,
Being a mom isn't an easy job. There are no paid holiday's, no time clock,(I wish)LOL it a 24/7 thing unless your a lucky one that gets some sleep at night.I have 3 children and I know all about being a stay at home mom. My boyfriend tells me all the time how do you do it, they are driving me insane. It is funny, I leave the kids here with him and like 1 hour he is calling where ya at? When ya coming home? LOL too funny! My kids are my life but it isn't easy raising them, especially the teenager... My mom sayd my teen was just like me. I guess it's pay back, cause I know I put my mom through hell. Rae
Being a mom isn't an easy job. There are no paid holiday's, no time clock,(I wish)LOL it a 24/7 thing unless your a lucky one that gets some sleep at night.I have 3 children and I know all about being a stay at home mom. My boyfriend tells me all the time how do you do it, they are driving me insane. It is funny, I leave the kids here with him and like 1 hour he is calling where ya at? When ya coming home? LOL too funny! My kids are my life but it isn't easy raising them, especially the teenager... My mom sayd my teen was just like me. I guess it's pay back, cause I know I put my mom through hell. Rae
Rae, Danny, Misty, it is very hard being a over fulltime mom, no breaks, vaction, huh thats funny wtf is that?? no sick time at all....anyways you guys get the message.........................................................................................
and No i do not sit in frount of the coumpter waiting for someone to post, yeah sometimes if the kids are sleeping i will stay here for a few mintues or so, but i really dont get down time, ever!!!
and No i do not sit in frount of the coumpter waiting for someone to post, yeah sometimes if the kids are sleeping i will stay here for a few mintues or so, but i really dont get down time, ever!!!
