i just found out that my boyfriend which ive been dating for 2 years is a heroine addicts. Im shocked as i never suspected anything. hes at rehab, which seems good...but im afraid, cos it feels like i trusted some1 that i dont know......im questioning can rehab save him and am i wasting my life and time on him? he says the only reason why he kept on using was cos he cudnt handle the withdrawal symptoms and he really wants to stop...he even went out looking for rehabs.....i wouldve liked to spend the rest of my life with him and love him very much..........can it work? please help!!
Alrite Shorty....bottom line is this is his battle not yours,he is the only one that can change things....yes rehab is good but he needs a plan for when he comes outta rehab....getting off i.e withdrawls are a pure hell but after 4/5 days clean he should be o.k....its the staying off that in the l/t that is really the hard part....i cant tell ya what way to turn,but if he is clean you will know...also if not ya will see it to.Shorty post over on the Familys board its for anyone in a relationship son,daughter,husband,girlfriend etc.who is fighting addiction......and theres plenty of decent folks there who have or are goin thru a similar situation...check it out they are a really solid folks only willing to help or give advice.Take care..............Davey
