Stacy you wrote this in one of your first posts here.........
" I haven't posted much on this site, and can't see myself posting on this site actually. Sharon and Kate what the hell? You are both acting like some high school junk yard bitches."
And you say that I post mean and nasty. Now that's calling the kettle black. BTW, when you posted this, I did not say one word to you. I give everyone the benefit of a doubt until they prove me wrong. I realize that you are a friend of Ali's. I understand you taking up for her. I do that for my friends to.......when they are right. I don't have a problem with you or your friend. I have a problem with misrepresenting the truth and in a way that could cost someone their life. This is life and death we are talking about on this board. And contrary to your opinion, I care about the people on this board.
Sharon
Ky,
I agree whole heartedly what I posted the first time. You were acting the same way...wow...the same way you are now. But I was also like 2 days coming off my DOC, and you're what? 2YEARS clean? dear lord.
You don't have to tell me you jump in for your friends, dear. I see you do it A LOT and there is absoleutley nothing wrong with it. If I am as far along as YOU are in your recovery I hope to GOD that I'm not as hateful as you can be towards someone you get in your sights...
Stacey
I agree whole heartedly what I posted the first time. You were acting the same way...wow...the same way you are now. But I was also like 2 days coming off my DOC, and you're what? 2YEARS clean? dear lord.
You don't have to tell me you jump in for your friends, dear. I see you do it A LOT and there is absoleutley nothing wrong with it. If I am as far along as YOU are in your recovery I hope to GOD that I'm not as hateful as you can be towards someone you get in your sights...
Stacey
Stacey,
point well made honey...
Her sobriety is commendable, her mean spirit is not.
She has accused ME of LYING anout my MAX dose, and now Ben of USING!!
Un BELIEVABLE......
Stacey????????
Just do me a favour okay??????????
stop reading this thread....and...
Answer your phone...lololol
Hugs
Ali
point well made honey...
Her sobriety is commendable, her mean spirit is not.
She has accused ME of LYING anout my MAX dose, and now Ben of USING!!
Un BELIEVABLE......
Stacey????????
Just do me a favour okay??????????
stop reading this thread....and...
Answer your phone...lololol
Hugs
Ali
Actually denial is what kills people. To flat out tell someone they are lying is disrespectful as you did to me over my comparitivley minor drug use. I am now minimizing my use so as not to be called a liar. I think its best to agree to disagree on this one. If someone pops on this board and sees someone post about how they tokk X number of this, at such a high number, they know it can kill. For someone to log on a recovery site and see "this guy used what I used at the same level" he got clean, it is possible. That Is more beneficial than denying the problem exists. I doubt even the sickest would come on here and say Im gonna do that much...Actually you are probably right as I type this I realize that. Sp eiether way ya go, there are both pros and cons.
I respect you and I understand your frustration. You obviously read my post before I erased. I am sorry. I dont wish to hurt anyone as you hurt me. I know I provoked you into saying hurtfull things to me. I am no innocent, but c'mon, accuse me of using? I can hardly dignify the comment with a reply.
Agree to disagree?
Ben
I respect you and I understand your frustration. You obviously read my post before I erased. I am sorry. I dont wish to hurt anyone as you hurt me. I know I provoked you into saying hurtfull things to me. I am no innocent, but c'mon, accuse me of using? I can hardly dignify the comment with a reply.
Agree to disagree?
Ben
Ben
To accuse one of using is a very simple, quick way that people use to make other people they don't like feel/look like s***.
I don't think you're using. You're too high and mighty for that. I'd rather have a high and mighty nice than a high and mighty...I'm going to bash you with my keyboard kinda person.
Thanks
Stacey
To accuse one of using is a very simple, quick way that people use to make other people they don't like feel/look like s***.
I don't think you're using. You're too high and mighty for that. I'd rather have a high and mighty nice than a high and mighty...I'm going to bash you with my keyboard kinda person.
Thanks
Stacey
Hmm Stacy, seems like you did a pretty good job of that one night. Maybe I missed something but I haven't seen Sharon call you any of the names that spewed forth from you.
But hey, that's a perfectly normal way to introduce yourself to a board. Detox is a lame excuse, don't you think?
But hey, that's a perfectly normal way to introduce yourself to a board. Detox is a lame excuse, don't you think?
Just so you know, Sharon does take up for her friends, when she agrees with them. She has a mind of her own and doens't always agree with even her "friends". She and I knock heads all the time, well, some of the time. But when the chips are down? I can count on her above all others.
Opinions make the world go round, it's when you make it personal with name calling and attacks on personalities is when it gets dirty. And wrong. We've all been guilty of it. Hopefully we can apologize and move on????
Opinions make the world go round, it's when you make it personal with name calling and attacks on personalities is when it gets dirty. And wrong. We've all been guilty of it. Hopefully we can apologize and move on????
Kat,
That's pretty easy to say huh?>
I'm sure you were a huge giant peach when you were 2 days off. Apparently didn't get enough TLC. It's doesn't take someone calling me a name to get me upset, that is petty. It takes someone talking about how much they love helping people and turning around to tell someone they need to for instance..."go buy their doctor a car" or "I wouldn't be surprised if you were using'. That's what really gets me.
I'm done with this crap, I've got stuff to do. Peace and good tidings to you all.
Stacey
That's pretty easy to say huh?>
I'm sure you were a huge giant peach when you were 2 days off. Apparently didn't get enough TLC. It's doesn't take someone calling me a name to get me upset, that is petty. It takes someone talking about how much they love helping people and turning around to tell someone they need to for instance..."go buy their doctor a car" or "I wouldn't be surprised if you were using'. That's what really gets me.
I'm done with this crap, I've got stuff to do. Peace and good tidings to you all.
Stacey
Stacey....
yeah,,lolol and justwhere does that go buy your dr a car statement come from??
Ben!!!! You started that rumor!!!!!!!!LOLOLOL
Im done too..hell its only Monday.....a whole long week to go...lolol
Good grief i hate withdrawals..
Hugs
Ali
yeah,,lolol and justwhere does that go buy your dr a car statement come from??
Ben!!!! You started that rumor!!!!!!!!LOLOLOL
Im done too..hell its only Monday.....a whole long week to go...lolol
Good grief i hate withdrawals..
Hugs
Ali
Well Stacy, day two was no picnic. And as a matter of fact, I was here on the board when I went through that. Unlike you, I reached out to those ahead of me here. I didn't attack anyone. I certainly didn't go after complete strangers and insult them. Lousy judgement on your part. Had you been pleasant or asked for help, you would have gotten it in spades.
Stacy,
Boy how you can twist words. Feel better?
In my post I said nothing mean spirited to you today. Nor did I say anything to you when you posted that about "junk yard bitches" to me and Kat for no reason.
You need to take a break until you can comprehend what is being said to you. Don't you worry about my recovery or my attitude. You were on this board once before and you was just as nasty then as you are now. What was your excuse then for being so mean? Blame that on me too if it makes you feel better.
Marco.
Boy how you can twist words. Feel better?
In my post I said nothing mean spirited to you today. Nor did I say anything to you when you posted that about "junk yard bitches" to me and Kat for no reason.
You need to take a break until you can comprehend what is being said to you. Don't you worry about my recovery or my attitude. You were on this board once before and you was just as nasty then as you are now. What was your excuse then for being so mean? Blame that on me too if it makes you feel better.
Marco.
She was here before?
Was that before I got here?
Was that before I got here?
Alirap,
Want my address? We would see who would be laying on the d floor. It sure wouldn't be me. Anytime, anyplace sugar bear.
Want my address? We would see who would be laying on the d floor. It sure wouldn't be me. Anytime, anyplace sugar bear.
Did she threaten you, Sharon?
Isn't that against the rules of this site?
Moderators, perhaps you should look into this
Isn't that against the rules of this site?
Moderators, perhaps you should look into this
Ok - so whos going to be the one to realize they are wasting their breath here? Give it a break and move on to something helpful here. Ali, I really think you need to give yourself a time out
OMG!!!! Talk about out of control Sharon! You are chalenging a newcomer detoxing to a brawl? With two years clean time? I AM APPALED.
On the other hand, you comment and accusation that I have been using was a wake up call. I have been looking for trouble on this board for days. Antagonizing, accusing and acting as if I know some chit. What a wake up call. I am not sure what is going on with me but when I start acting as I have been accting I know somthing is up. I need to look at that, go back to where I belong, with the fellowship of the 12 steps and the attitude that goes with it. Allthough I think you are a little sick yourself, I am grateful for what you said. Thank you!
Ben
On the other hand, you comment and accusation that I have been using was a wake up call. I have been looking for trouble on this board for days. Antagonizing, accusing and acting as if I know some chit. What a wake up call. I am not sure what is going on with me but when I start acting as I have been accting I know somthing is up. I need to look at that, go back to where I belong, with the fellowship of the 12 steps and the attitude that goes with it. Allthough I think you are a little sick yourself, I am grateful for what you said. Thank you!
Ben
THANK YOU DONNATWO, I agree. This would definately turn the newcomers and the real suffering addicts away.
You have it backwards, Ben. Go look at the other thread.
Kat and Sharon...it's not worth it....
step away from the screen...
step away from the screen...
How many kids with Attention Deficit Disorder does it take to screw in a light bulb?
Hey wanna go ride bikes?
How funny is that?
Ben
Hey wanna go ride bikes?
How funny is that?
Ben
