To all who read my thread this am and Vinny and I trying to kill each other I am sorry for some of the vulgar things i said. Don't bother looking the Moderators deleted it and it was some bad stuff from both of us. Not that I don't cuss i am southern it is part of the charm.LOL
But as to which site i should b on, i have wondered. I am tapering xanex and tapering loratab (1 a day) and soma (2 a day ) as needed for pain in my back from a metal plate in there.
So where should i be on the xanex board or pain pill board i have heard so much discussion about this stuff lately i am wondering.
I know from experience people feed off of the people that they don't like so everyone be careful of each others feelings i wasn't this am.
Only explanation i got is my 7 yr old neice found out week b4 last that she has leukimia and i have been totally stressed. Vinny and i worked it out but peoples feelings are always involved here.
My feeling, post where ever you feel like. After all, we do live in a free country, we have the right to express ourselves...I am a newbie here, but, I do not understand all the bickering. I just pass on it all.
Dolly
Dolly
Good idea Dolly,
My feelings got hurt then i hurt his it was so bad we should both have our butts kicked. LOL But honey hang around, u will find some of the greatest people on here and support. Answers to any questions because trust me one of us on the board has probably been there. If not we will sure try to figure it out.
But keep reading and coming back. there is hope for us all. Just sometimes we get it in our heads to be a smartass that day. We have laughs and smiles and even tears at times. But as the song said "WALK THIS WAY" trust me we r in the right direction.
My feelings got hurt then i hurt his it was so bad we should both have our butts kicked. LOL But honey hang around, u will find some of the greatest people on here and support. Answers to any questions because trust me one of us on the board has probably been there. If not we will sure try to figure it out.
But keep reading and coming back. there is hope for us all. Just sometimes we get it in our heads to be a smartass that day. We have laughs and smiles and even tears at times. But as the song said "WALK THIS WAY" trust me we r in the right direction.
Kyra,
I am glad to see you and Vinny worked things out Tina. Vinny felt really bad about it this morning. Seriously he truly did.. He would never intentionally hurt anyone. I think it's just hard to read people online so maybe he got the wrong impression of who you are, I don't know...
Anyway stick around you know you are here to get help and help others if you can.... Don't worry about what side of the board your on. You are taking lortab so you do have a pain pill addiction and even if you didn't you are here to receive help... That is what all of us are here to do plus grow and learn from others,gather information that is helpful and give a little back to those in need...
So I say stick around and this goes for Elvis and anyone else that chooses to post here.... Rae
Hey Dolly how are you this evening???
I am glad to see you and Vinny worked things out Tina. Vinny felt really bad about it this morning. Seriously he truly did.. He would never intentionally hurt anyone. I think it's just hard to read people online so maybe he got the wrong impression of who you are, I don't know...
Anyway stick around you know you are here to get help and help others if you can.... Don't worry about what side of the board your on. You are taking lortab so you do have a pain pill addiction and even if you didn't you are here to receive help... That is what all of us are here to do plus grow and learn from others,gather information that is helpful and give a little back to those in need...
So I say stick around and this goes for Elvis and anyone else that chooses to post here.... Rae
Hey Dolly how are you this evening???
kyra don't sweat it like i said i was the one who started the attack,i'm under tons of pressure and stress myself,i got alot on my plate so to speak,i think im trying to make up for all the wrong i have done in the past 7yrs and not takeing it nice and slow but more like a warp speed,im back to work next monday and thats been sittin heavy on my mind also because my shoulder is far from 100percent and there is no way in hell do i want to go through another surgery,i know for a fact if i wanted it i could get into the management part of the bussiness but i also know for a fact that i hated it,nonthing like being stuck indoors and printing route sheets and talkin to coustmers,that would push me into relapse,and like right now i got terrible hart burn and sometimes i will chuck up some blood[rollaids just an't workin anymore]lol,anyhow like i said im sorry for being mean to you,even though i was stressed out you or nobody else deserves that...............vinny.
You should get that checked out Vinny. Persistant heartburn is often a sign of something else. No kidding, dr visit time. (you should know this dr vinny, lol) Love, Kat
kat it really an't that bad,i get hart burn alot but i just spit up blood very seldom and it's maybe enough to fill a tea spoon,i just drink alot of milk[lol]
vinny,
You're a prince. (As well as a doctor, king, Ph.D and a real mensch of a guy.)
Coughing up blood doesn't sound right. Please don't self-diagnose. Get thee to a physician, pronto.
Love, Gina
You're a prince. (As well as a doctor, king, Ph.D and a real mensch of a guy.)
Coughing up blood doesn't sound right. Please don't self-diagnose. Get thee to a physician, pronto.
Love, Gina
Okay Vinny, I'll let you slide, but I bet Sharon won't. She knows her medical stuff. You better hide this thread before she gets online, lol. Love, Kat
Thanks Vinny,
I jumped the gun and was angry and stressed out. I felt bad when it was all over. Take care of yourself and good luck on Monday when u return to work. My husband has had 3 shoulder surgeries 2 on 1 shoulder and 1 on the other. They r hard to heal and get full use back if full use ever comes.
I am stressed also, Monday last week was my husbands first day back at work since Dec 19 of 2004 from a terrible motor cycle wreck. I know it is hard.
Take care.
I jumped the gun and was angry and stressed out. I felt bad when it was all over. Take care of yourself and good luck on Monday when u return to work. My husband has had 3 shoulder surgeries 2 on 1 shoulder and 1 on the other. They r hard to heal and get full use back if full use ever comes.
I am stressed also, Monday last week was my husbands first day back at work since Dec 19 of 2004 from a terrible motor cycle wreck. I know it is hard.
Take care.
tina,
you and vinny did a good job with your situation for the most part.... in bottom line is.. you said your piece..... aka... hey punk you hurt me.... he said.... wow... i am a bad boy.. i shouldnt have done that but this is my side.... and they you said... but my feelings are still hurt... and then he said ok I am sorry.... then you said... ok I forgive you.... ... wow imagine.... that is how it is supposed to work... what would have happened if vinny would have said.... well tina i did what i did who cares if you got hurt... poof.... or what if tina had said.. vinny you are a ................. and go use ................... you ........ junkie......... anybody see the difference....
just thought i would pat these two on the back.... clean or tappering .... that is growth...
now... as for tina's question... the questions came up about sides of the board re this person were lig because she constantly said to others... take as needed or might need to take .... or something like that.... to most of us on this board... we have to get it through our heads that we can NEVER take a pill ... not for any reason.... now there are exceptions obviously but if we let that thought run through our thoughts then that is a seed to relapse or not getting clean.... so for a benzo user that as needed may apply ( though i disagree but....) but to say that on here over and over ... is dangerous and counter productive that is why that question was posed.....
you dear tina,,, i dont think fall into that category but should the same situations occur or you find it difficult to listen and get mean and diffensive...( like some others..) then well i dont know (but i dont see that happening ...lol..)
anyhoo did that help in any way..... ?
God bless and good luck... you can do this you just have to make a commitment .. put the fear in its place and do it...
Teresa
you and vinny did a good job with your situation for the most part.... in bottom line is.. you said your piece..... aka... hey punk you hurt me.... he said.... wow... i am a bad boy.. i shouldnt have done that but this is my side.... and they you said... but my feelings are still hurt... and then he said ok I am sorry.... then you said... ok I forgive you.... ... wow imagine.... that is how it is supposed to work... what would have happened if vinny would have said.... well tina i did what i did who cares if you got hurt... poof.... or what if tina had said.. vinny you are a ................. and go use ................... you ........ junkie......... anybody see the difference....
just thought i would pat these two on the back.... clean or tappering .... that is growth...
now... as for tina's question... the questions came up about sides of the board re this person were lig because she constantly said to others... take as needed or might need to take .... or something like that.... to most of us on this board... we have to get it through our heads that we can NEVER take a pill ... not for any reason.... now there are exceptions obviously but if we let that thought run through our thoughts then that is a seed to relapse or not getting clean.... so for a benzo user that as needed may apply ( though i disagree but....) but to say that on here over and over ... is dangerous and counter productive that is why that question was posed.....
you dear tina,,, i dont think fall into that category but should the same situations occur or you find it difficult to listen and get mean and diffensive...( like some others..) then well i dont know (but i dont see that happening ...lol..)
anyhoo did that help in any way..... ?
God bless and good luck... you can do this you just have to make a commitment .. put the fear in its place and do it...
Teresa
Kyra,
It was an unfortunate event what occurred. You acted as many would, dont beat yourself up about it, you either Vinny... It is nice to see that it has been worked out.
Regards,
Tom
It was an unfortunate event what occurred. You acted as many would, dont beat yourself up about it, you either Vinny... It is nice to see that it has been worked out.
Regards,
Tom
My belief is be wherever you want to be. Whatever board you feel comfortable with, this one most people are on so you get more responses. Andusually people were ar are hooked on more than 1 thing..so don't sweat it. Kim
I feel that as long as there is respect you should be able to post where you want.I mean of course I wouldnt want anyone myself included to come on & give bad advise of try to give advise on a pill /pills they dont know much about.But alittle respect can go along way.....mj
All behind us now time to move on and work on myself and people that need my help to. I know I am not totally clean but feel I have alot to contribute as I have been moving forward after 13 yrs.
So everyone thanks for the input and u r all right this was unfortunate but i think Vinny and I have lived through it.
Have a good evening.
So everyone thanks for the input and u r all right this was unfortunate but i think Vinny and I have lived through it.
Have a good evening.
Glad you both worked it out! VINNY..GO TO A DOCTOR! I am going to hound you until you do..spitting up blood..NO GOOD! Maybe an ulcer from stress? Please check it out..we need you here..as does your family!
