Supporting A Loved One

My partner is an alcoholic despiritly trying to stay sober with minimal outside support- won't go to AA. How can I best support him durring times of relapse? I don't know if is best to get involved or to remain detached.
Isabella, his alcoholism is for him to manage and his recovery is for him to find. Your role is to go to Al ANona nd learn all you can about his disease and how it is affecting your life. Al ANon will teach you how to love him and detach from his addiction.