my partner has been out of prison for 5 weeks now he has been clean up too now (i think ) anyway today he and i have had major arguments and i have gave him the boot as i was really angry , in the past he as always gone straight to score and i think thats what he will do now so i have come to a decision that if he comes back later high then its over but if he dont we can try and sort things out so this is the big test for him . we have been together for 10 yrs and have 4 children together the arguments in the first place is because when i was out yesterday our 4 year old son told me that he had been talking with his old buddy who is an addict (i found this out today ) anyway yesterday he looked high to me but i couldnt work it out if he was or if i was being parra but it makes sence to me now that he was what do you think ??well basically im sick and tierd of the whole damn thing it feels like ive been going around in circles for the past 8 years i just dont know what to do anymore
your advice will be appreciated thanks xxxxxxxxx
Hiya Emz,
It would be easy for me to say that you would be better off without him but then who am I to talk because I am going through exactly the same and I choose to put up with it. You need to ask yourself can you continue to live a like this with paranoya, not being able to trust him, wondering where he is and what he is doing then it turns to checking his phone and his pockets and BANG your back to square one!!
I just think you need to really think about what you want and whether this man can make you happy. Can you ever trust him again. If your answer is no then I think you know what you have to do???
Also ask yourself whether this is affecting the children because I say whatever you choose to do they should always come first!
Sorry short but sweet but hope this helps alittle xx
It would be easy for me to say that you would be better off without him but then who am I to talk because I am going through exactly the same and I choose to put up with it. You need to ask yourself can you continue to live a like this with paranoya, not being able to trust him, wondering where he is and what he is doing then it turns to checking his phone and his pockets and BANG your back to square one!!
I just think you need to really think about what you want and whether this man can make you happy. Can you ever trust him again. If your answer is no then I think you know what you have to do???
Also ask yourself whether this is affecting the children because I say whatever you choose to do they should always come first!
Sorry short but sweet but hope this helps alittle xx
