Just wanted to give you all an update. I had to call the police to my job today. He called this morning and wanted the car. Told him no. He told me he was coming anyway and that he was taking the car and kidnapping me. I had to tell my manager and security. The police came and get this....they could not file a report because even though he threatened to kidnap me, he didn't threaten any bodily harm. The cop had the nerve to say that legally he didn't do anything wrong. HELLO?? He told me he was going to kidnap me which he has done before...from my job. And I told the offer to check cuz there's a case regarding it. I couldn't believe it. So I had to tell my mother he's harassing me again. This sucks. I can't take it anymore. And to top it all off, not that it should matter but in a way it does. My heart is still involved here. I've loved him for 13 years. Anyway..just found out he had another child in Dec. so he got another woman pregnant when we were together and going strong last year. I know it shouldn't matter cuz of everything he does but it's hard not to let it hurt. I'm just feeling so many different emotions right now. Positive thing, I went and took a placement exam to go back to school. Took the test last night. Did ok on the english and essay but not well on the math. I pray that I get in. I need something positive in my life now. I never went to college because I wouldn't leave him. Now look at me stuck at my parents with my son and bringing all this negativity to my family and my employer. I just don't know what to do.
Wow Lena, I can't believe the police didn't do anything! Although it doesn't surprise me much. When my bf attacked me last year when he was coming down and my lip was bleeding, there wasn't enough evidence to charge him. I mean where else are we supposed to turn to if not the police!
I can understand your feelings of shock and betrayal and hurt finding out he got another woman pregnant, even if things are really bad it still hurts. I hope he leaves you alone, are you going to be safe at home? Please take care of yourself and keep us posted..
I can understand your feelings of shock and betrayal and hurt finding out he got another woman pregnant, even if things are really bad it still hurts. I hope he leaves you alone, are you going to be safe at home? Please take care of yourself and keep us posted..
