Hi Cowgirl,
I swear this isn't meant to be sarcastic...You said.."I do have some original thoughts though"..
I haven't met anyone yet in recovery that has said that. I'd really like to hear your thoughts on staying clean/sober that haven't been said before. I need all the help I can get.
Take care.....Bob
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I really do not know what went on here last night or the day before... or etc.. I really dont want to know either since it is probably the same bulls*** that goes on from time to time anyway... All I can say that is I think that it is sad that it cannot be let go and move on to something else..hmm let me think Hey maybe we can move on to recovery...
lol,
Ok heres what happened last night..Go back get one of my old arguments, change the names, or at least take mine off!,lol and there ya' have it...
Put simpler...Same sh-t different day..*wink*
Take care......Bob
Ok heres what happened last night..Go back get one of my old arguments, change the names, or at least take mine off!,lol and there ya' have it...
Put simpler...Same sh-t different day..*wink*
Take care......Bob
Bob... LMAO>... that is what I figured... Loveya...
RAE
why dont you just say what you mean?
:)
why dont you just say what you mean?
:)
LMFAO HI DOC:
What was so sad in this latest go round is I started a thread what are we grateful for. Day before thanksgiving. The topic is always brought up in meetings but especially on this holiday I for one tend to think of all the good things in my life. Go read it. Nobody responded but when Jean posted something and a Mod immediatly took it off the board this got a response. F-ing sad.
10 responses-and 90 people ? lookedat it. Post the word Jean cowgirl etc. you get 100's and one post 3000?
This board is filled with diseased people. This board has scared away people as they are looking for compassion and serenity and instead get this B.S.
I was personally attacked libel etc. I never laughed so hard. 2 yrs ago I would be fighting with the whole board. But I have $hitload of sobriety and spirituallity all in all considered I am doing pretty f-ing good.
I speak my mind and if you do not like it have a nice day.
All you people have spoken about how wonderful this forum is for recovery?
I am sorry but I do not see it that way. I know where I AM. And its in a good place. Why I do I stay here? because the newcomer needs people just like I did many years ago.
Why does anyone feel the need to attack other people? INSECURE?
This is supposed to be a board of recovery? Where is it?
I am guilty--I admit it--I have made a few dumb remarks but I learned fro mm y mistakes. CHANGE--big word in my recovery. The dumbest thing I have done in the past 19 months was have those few drinks. Made the decision No more at least for today. Its been6-7 months.
What is with all the judging Board?? In the real world you will be hiding in a corner. This behaviour does not fly in the real world.
I said my peace. LOL Go to a meeting call a friend take a walk. Turn your computer off for a day.
Stay POSITIVE or your always going to be in a bad place--GOOD LUCK ALL
Jeff
P.S one thing I have read more than once is taking sides. Either one poster or your for another poster?? That is B.S
There are no sides in this disease. You me WE all fightthe same disease. Anyone who puts this as taking sides is really SICK.
I think a lot of people forget the pain they had as a newcomer. Anyone who understands what I am saying owes it to the newcomer to help them and to stay away from this stupid B.S that was started long before I came here.
Anyone involved should really take a GOOD look at why am I fighting a bunch of strangers on a chat board---
JMHO--Out
What was so sad in this latest go round is I started a thread what are we grateful for. Day before thanksgiving. The topic is always brought up in meetings but especially on this holiday I for one tend to think of all the good things in my life. Go read it. Nobody responded but when Jean posted something and a Mod immediatly took it off the board this got a response. F-ing sad.
10 responses-and 90 people ? lookedat it. Post the word Jean cowgirl etc. you get 100's and one post 3000?
This board is filled with diseased people. This board has scared away people as they are looking for compassion and serenity and instead get this B.S.
I was personally attacked libel etc. I never laughed so hard. 2 yrs ago I would be fighting with the whole board. But I have $hitload of sobriety and spirituallity all in all considered I am doing pretty f-ing good.
I speak my mind and if you do not like it have a nice day.
All you people have spoken about how wonderful this forum is for recovery?
I am sorry but I do not see it that way. I know where I AM. And its in a good place. Why I do I stay here? because the newcomer needs people just like I did many years ago.
Why does anyone feel the need to attack other people? INSECURE?
This is supposed to be a board of recovery? Where is it?
I am guilty--I admit it--I have made a few dumb remarks but I learned fro mm y mistakes. CHANGE--big word in my recovery. The dumbest thing I have done in the past 19 months was have those few drinks. Made the decision No more at least for today. Its been6-7 months.
What is with all the judging Board?? In the real world you will be hiding in a corner. This behaviour does not fly in the real world.
I said my peace. LOL Go to a meeting call a friend take a walk. Turn your computer off for a day.
Stay POSITIVE or your always going to be in a bad place--GOOD LUCK ALL
Jeff
P.S one thing I have read more than once is taking sides. Either one poster or your for another poster?? That is B.S
There are no sides in this disease. You me WE all fightthe same disease. Anyone who puts this as taking sides is really SICK.
I think a lot of people forget the pain they had as a newcomer. Anyone who understands what I am saying owes it to the newcomer to help them and to stay away from this stupid B.S that was started long before I came here.
Anyone involved should really take a GOOD look at why am I fighting a bunch of strangers on a chat board---
JMHO--Out
I will never be able to figure this out and I guess I'll just stop trying. I don't know why it is that I can know the same people who can't stand each other, and yet really like them all.
I can share with all of you seperatly and find you to be sweet, caring and funny people.
Maybe I just don't fit in properly.
Whatever, I guess it's just my problem and no one else's.
It just feels so lousy to see people I like unable to like each other.
I wish I could just enjoy you all and not have to feel like this when I sign onto the board.
I can share with all of you seperatly and find you to be sweet, caring and funny people.
Maybe I just don't fit in properly.
Whatever, I guess it's just my problem and no one else's.
It just feels so lousy to see people I like unable to like each other.
I wish I could just enjoy you all and not have to feel like this when I sign onto the board.
No Kat,
You do fit. I have no animosity towards anyone here either. There was a time I did but then I was out of my mind too...lolol Just keep doing what your doing and being who you are...take care
gi
You do fit. I have no animosity towards anyone here either. There was a time I did but then I was out of my mind too...lolol Just keep doing what your doing and being who you are...take care
gi
Kat go to a locked thread--The latest 58 posts 1100 peeks?? People like the B.S where are the 1100 people? It seems like the same 30-40posters? since I came here.
Have a good day--Jeff
Have a good day--Jeff
Jeff,
This is the second time today, you've brought Jean's name up. The woman hasn't posted in a few days. How about leaving her out of this?
"If it does not apply, let it fly"
DeNae
This is the second time today, you've brought Jean's name up. The woman hasn't posted in a few days. How about leaving her out of this?
"If it does not apply, let it fly"
DeNae
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Kat its the real world. People basically just are selfish and self centered. When you make areal friewnd hold on to them as they are precious.
I lost my best friend to cancer 5 yrs ago oct 2nd.
Denae first off I am not perfect. I let that person get the best of me. Never again. She is on IGNORE. She needs help and I hope she gets it.
If you look at the post I prayed she will get help. She is no different than I was 19 months ago.
I always give someone a second chance. I did with her. Just read the posts.
And Wendy ABRASIVE? Why the need to get nasty? Rule the roost?
I call it like I see it. I am sorry if that makes you uncomfortable.
Be Good --Jeff
I lost my best friend to cancer 5 yrs ago oct 2nd.
Denae first off I am not perfect. I let that person get the best of me. Never again. She is on IGNORE. She needs help and I hope she gets it.
If you look at the post I prayed she will get help. She is no different than I was 19 months ago.
I always give someone a second chance. I did with her. Just read the posts.
And Wendy ABRASIVE? Why the need to get nasty? Rule the roost?
I call it like I see it. I am sorry if that makes you uncomfortable.
Be Good --Jeff
