Hello, I'm looking for some advice. My fianc's son has a bad drug problem and he lives on the west coast while we are in the Midwest. Her son seemingly only calls when he is need of money and claims it is for other things. I see my fianc hurt and not knowing what to do. Trying to help her, I came upon this website and I read many of the posts to her. I have found there to be one common thread in the posts and that is to stop sending money and trying to help him as he needs to hit rock bottom.I read some of theses posts to her and she became upset. I know my fianc will continue to send money and hope that things will change. Her son has lied, stolen and all of the other ugly things addiction creates. I don't know how to help my fianc with her son. Any advice or feedback about this would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you!
Unfortunately, there is not much you can do to help your fiance. She will need to decide on her own that she has had enough and is tired of living that way. At that point, the two of you should read. As much as you can and check out Nar Anon. Good luck to you both. You are not alone.
