Hey all,
I dont have the internet anymore..just at my sisters so thought I would update ya all and hopefully I will get back on the net soon. I am lost without this site.......
Anyway get my house keys tomorrow so gonna be all go this week. Kevin is still using but did have a few days clean and has cut down allot. I just hate it when he gets off his head, and he hasnt. He has been real good to me over the last few days. Am going to pick up my choc labrador in 3 weeks so am so excited for that too...woohoo.
All is fine with me and my lil girl too. I think were all just really happy to be moving eventually.
Anyway hope everyone is well and good and hopefully speak to you all soon xx
Alright..Lynds...glad all seems to be fitting into place for you and yer lil one at last...dog sounds good as well...lastly i hope Kev.is getting his act together...maybe..time will tell.Take care and chat soon........Davey
Its always good to update us on the board.I myself,have be guilty of not updating my friends here.
My G/F(Sandy) returned from upstate,NY Looking like a different person.She hit up our bank acct(not that I care too much) for 200 bucks on a hair dye,& cut. She said she was tired of looking like someone out of the 60,s with a long grey pony tail.
So her hair is now brown & short t -I gotta say she looks great. She looks the way a 50 year look in the year 2007 should look. She is in OK shape & now she looks great for her age not older.The pics Ive posted of her were all after a dye job.
Anyway,she seems a little happier, she still has issues with what she wants to do- - job wise, moving wise,change of life issues, - but at least she feels a little better about herself
I figure with her head in a better place,maybe she will rethink leaving - -who knows. We,ll talk about it in the coming days.
She now doesnt have a job ,though & is thinking of emptying her substantial 401K. Id like to talk her out of that- - but I dont like telling her what to do- - only give her my advise,for whats its worth
Anyway,As for me. -All is as well as can be expected. I tried to go to my old NA meeting while she was gone- - I just couldnt get into it. Maybe its just not for me- - I dont know- -I used to enjoy it. Now I stare at the clock.
OK - just an update from me
Hope we all post a few updates.
muchlove
jack
My G/F(Sandy) returned from upstate,NY Looking like a different person.She hit up our bank acct(not that I care too much) for 200 bucks on a hair dye,& cut. She said she was tired of looking like someone out of the 60,s with a long grey pony tail.
So her hair is now brown & short t -I gotta say she looks great. She looks the way a 50 year look in the year 2007 should look. She is in OK shape & now she looks great for her age not older.The pics Ive posted of her were all after a dye job.
Anyway,she seems a little happier, she still has issues with what she wants to do- - job wise, moving wise,change of life issues, - but at least she feels a little better about herself
I figure with her head in a better place,maybe she will rethink leaving - -who knows. We,ll talk about it in the coming days.
She now doesnt have a job ,though & is thinking of emptying her substantial 401K. Id like to talk her out of that- - but I dont like telling her what to do- - only give her my advise,for whats its worth
Anyway,As for me. -All is as well as can be expected. I tried to go to my old NA meeting while she was gone- - I just couldnt get into it. Maybe its just not for me- - I dont know- -I used to enjoy it. Now I stare at the clock.
OK - just an update from me
Hope we all post a few updates.
muchlove
jack
Glad all is going well for you Bunny, hope Kevin gets everything sorted also. All the best, Kev
Didnt mean to hijack your post Bunny, I thought it would be a good place for all of us that dont post a real lot to update everyone on our sh**t going on
my apologies
jack
my apologies
jack
Nice for ya to fill us in Jack...if ya dont mind i can tell yer on a buzz from recent events..and why not mate ye deserve some goodness.J yer deff. not hijacking nothing ...youve been nothin but a steady voice of wisdom to me and loads a folk on here.Take care bro...A.T.B..........Davey
Jack, this is a good idea to do updates........let's say Bunny girlie started an update post........like Davey said I don't think none of us ever hijack here.
B's, best of all good things on the move......you're missed when you are not here.........glad baby girl is O.K......and yer getting the doggie.....good news!
Jack, nothing like a $200 cut and color to make us ladies feel better.......I know alot of guys think that is outlandish a price.......LOL........it's actually not at all.
Going rate and all that........Sandy sounds even in a better frame of mind so it's a good chance she may be rethinking the whole moving thing.......glad ya let us know cause we all think of ya and wondered what was going on......how's your son and your mom, Jack? That stinks the NA meeting wasn't all that......ya tried it though......ya put in that effort.........that's a good sign if for socializing in itself........can't hide........you'll wind up like me.
Update on me.......shared it on the Families thread.......I'm sad......so sad like in despair sad.........heavy heart.........wanna be left alone.........started with my sibling telling my mom my daughter quit her job which she's had for TWO YEARS.........and didn't even give them notice.......out of charachter for her.
A ways back she had told my mom she was going to quit and get a job by the school she will be attending.........well school ain't started yet.......and it's in a really, really, really bad neighborhood..........supposedly she's gonna live on the campus........so I worried was she already moved in.......working somewhere where she'll get done a shift late and be walking all over Norffffff Philly by herself.
So, I called and she didn't answer her cell.......she texted back at like 2:00AM asking "What do you want?"........I texted back like it was nothing........so last night I texted her saying in a nutshell I was seeing if she was O.K.......got a text back "YEAH Y WOULDN'T I BE?"...........I texted back like I was just caring.....something on that note.
END......no response.........nothing.......hell with me.......screw me........fr*g me.
Weekend update this thread is.
B's, best of all good things on the move......you're missed when you are not here.........glad baby girl is O.K......and yer getting the doggie.....good news!
Jack, nothing like a $200 cut and color to make us ladies feel better.......I know alot of guys think that is outlandish a price.......LOL........it's actually not at all.
Going rate and all that........Sandy sounds even in a better frame of mind so it's a good chance she may be rethinking the whole moving thing.......glad ya let us know cause we all think of ya and wondered what was going on......how's your son and your mom, Jack? That stinks the NA meeting wasn't all that......ya tried it though......ya put in that effort.........that's a good sign if for socializing in itself........can't hide........you'll wind up like me.
Update on me.......shared it on the Families thread.......I'm sad......so sad like in despair sad.........heavy heart.........wanna be left alone.........started with my sibling telling my mom my daughter quit her job which she's had for TWO YEARS.........and didn't even give them notice.......out of charachter for her.
A ways back she had told my mom she was going to quit and get a job by the school she will be attending.........well school ain't started yet.......and it's in a really, really, really bad neighborhood..........supposedly she's gonna live on the campus........so I worried was she already moved in.......working somewhere where she'll get done a shift late and be walking all over Norffffff Philly by herself.
So, I called and she didn't answer her cell.......she texted back at like 2:00AM asking "What do you want?"........I texted back like it was nothing........so last night I texted her saying in a nutshell I was seeing if she was O.K.......got a text back "YEAH Y WOULDN'T I BE?"...........I texted back like I was just caring.....something on that note.
END......no response.........nothing.......hell with me.......screw me........fr*g me.
Weekend update this thread is.
So happy for you Bunny...you are so strong and deserve all the happiness in the world!
Much love, Maddy x
Much love, Maddy x
Hello everybody, Jack, so good to hear from ya. Don't feel too bad about the NA thing. I always hated meetings. TBH, my life has moved on - I don't want to sit in a room full of anxious dry junkies. I don't like to be reminded of how I used to be. I try to be the person I'm becoming, not the person I used to be. Hope that you and Sandy get stuff sorted. And it's true, a new hair cut can make you feel a million dollars. And a bad hair cut can make you feel like s***. Just before I had Rowanne, I had my hair coloured and straightened - I ended up looking like Morticia! Blonde floosie always suited me better...
And Bunny, hope the move goes well. I'm still waiting for the council to argue the toss with the builders over who gets to strip my walls. I got the keys and all, but I can't move in till it's decorated. Went shopping for carpets today. Can't believe how expensive they are! But the tax office give me nearly 1000 next thursday, so I can afford to get it done. And I'm sure your dog will provide a loving companion. Dogs are great. I've got a big old rottweiler called Bill. I laughed my tits off yesterday coz my boyfriend tripped over him whilst mowing the lawn and they both went arse over t**. I would say that at least dogs don't chops back at you, but mine is a bugger for it - he moans about everything, bless his little golden socks!
And Bryn, I know you're on a big downer. I wish I had some pearl of wisdom to help bring you up again. All I can say is that what has a front has a back, and it won't last forever. Why you feeling so down kiddo? I mean I know that you have trials to deal with, but stuff is really getting to you. What do you need to make it better (and don't say a hit, coz I'll bloody send you a transatlantic slap good girl!)? What's in your heart my friend? What's missing? What darkness is stealing your peace?
love to all
Diff xxx
And Bunny, hope the move goes well. I'm still waiting for the council to argue the toss with the builders over who gets to strip my walls. I got the keys and all, but I can't move in till it's decorated. Went shopping for carpets today. Can't believe how expensive they are! But the tax office give me nearly 1000 next thursday, so I can afford to get it done. And I'm sure your dog will provide a loving companion. Dogs are great. I've got a big old rottweiler called Bill. I laughed my tits off yesterday coz my boyfriend tripped over him whilst mowing the lawn and they both went arse over t**. I would say that at least dogs don't chops back at you, but mine is a bugger for it - he moans about everything, bless his little golden socks!
And Bryn, I know you're on a big downer. I wish I had some pearl of wisdom to help bring you up again. All I can say is that what has a front has a back, and it won't last forever. Why you feeling so down kiddo? I mean I know that you have trials to deal with, but stuff is really getting to you. What do you need to make it better (and don't say a hit, coz I'll bloody send you a transatlantic slap good girl!)? What's in your heart my friend? What's missing? What darkness is stealing your peace?
love to all
Diff xxx
Ahhhhh, Diff our beacon of light and love..........just say that phrase "Tattybyebyes" to me and all is right with the world.
Darkness and downers...........I put myself there, Diff, and thank you for your concern..........may your dear, dear baby girl NEVER treat ya in the manner my own blood is treating me.........worry, worry...........worry.......sad!
Sad........sad.........sad.........nothing I can do about it.
Darkness and downers...........I put myself there, Diff, and thank you for your concern..........may your dear, dear baby girl NEVER treat ya in the manner my own blood is treating me.........worry, worry...........worry.......sad!
Sad........sad.........sad.........nothing I can do about it.
