We have nothing but our rent money left. And I made him give that to me for safe keeping. He got layed off this week. So, I'm not sure what happens next. Things have never been this bad. By that I mean his addiction is worse this time and he has no money to fuel it. He's already borrowing money. And it's only going to get worse. I don't know what I'm doing. I can't leave him, or maybe I won't. I sometimes think i don't deserve to complain because, i don't do anything to help myself.
Outofoptions,
This whole thing, and really life in general!, is a process. You deserve to keep working through this. Maybe identify why you feel you can't leave him. Maybe make a list of the reasons and address each one individually.
This is a scary situation to be in, and I hope you have people you can reach out to? Family?
This whole thing, and really life in general!, is a process. You deserve to keep working through this. Maybe identify why you feel you can't leave him. Maybe make a list of the reasons and address each one individually.
This is a scary situation to be in, and I hope you have people you can reach out to? Family?
Out of Options,
We've all felt trapped by addiction. We've all become addicted to the addiction. It's very tough to break away from cycles. But it looks like he's trying to bring you down with him. Please look in your area for a Nar-anon group. You won't be alone anymore if you'll just reach out. You'll meet folks in the flesh who feel just like you. Many of them are farther down the road than you, but they were where you were at one time. You can't conquer this alone. Reach out and get some support today.
We've all felt trapped by addiction. We've all become addicted to the addiction. It's very tough to break away from cycles. But it looks like he's trying to bring you down with him. Please look in your area for a Nar-anon group. You won't be alone anymore if you'll just reach out. You'll meet folks in the flesh who feel just like you. Many of them are farther down the road than you, but they were where you were at one time. You can't conquer this alone. Reach out and get some support today.
